Ive gotten head twice, both times from a guy. Im not gay, but I just was really horny and wanted a bj, so I found someone to give me one. They blew me for quite a while but I just cant seem to cum from a blowjob. I have to stop and jerk it to finish.

Is it normal to not be able to cum from getting your dick sucked alone?

 

Your upper brain is getting in the way of your lower brain. Deep in there somewhere your bugged out about getting a BJ from a guy.




"So tell me about your mother..."
Sigmund Freud

 

if you´re not gay ... try a girl !

 

Agreed,
Completly.
+1

 

i mean ... he said it all !

 

They may be right but it also may be the skill level of the one sucking. I have been given head from men and woman and sometimes they just are not good enough to finish the job. Also the position they are in makes a differnce to me as well. Example...if they have there tongue under my shaft as in kneeling in front of me ill cum but if not as in a 69 position ill never cum. What ever the case may be for you I wouldnt worry about it just relax and enjoy

 

Imagine that.

 

I was similiar

though all my bjs were from women it was a while before i managed to cum from one, i think its mostly a mental block preventing you wanting to cum, or just there skill

 

ive gotten alot of bj's all from my cuzin whose a guy and i cant cum either
but u no wat THEY STILL FEEL GOOD

 

Guys, it seems, sometimes have trouble relaxing and going with the flow. They think they should be doing something other than feeling good and cumming. Maybe they feel they should be reciprocating.

In my experience, once they realize that I not only know what I'm doing but LIKE what I'm doing, they settle down and learn to let go.

The fact, though, that this guy says he's not gay but yet he's getting his cock sucked by men, might be all the explanation needed. Orgasms are triggered in the brain, not in the penis.

 

I thought that was my problem too... Maybe I cant because Im just not attracted to the person doing it.

 

Try again or mb try with girl

 

Here's a thought

If you get a blow job and cum in the girls/guys mouth without telling them first, are you an insensitive prick?

If you don't cum while getting a blow job from anyone do you have an insensitive prick?

And if you just prefer to give pleasure as opposed to taking it then are you a stud?

Just a thought

 

just maaaybe it's because your not gay?

 

One of the first times I had sex (a long time ago), I had a hell of a time cumming during a blow job - just nervous. At one point she looks up (after spending ages on me) and says 'Relax! I don't bite!'.
Definitely a mental block.

 

And like all mental blocks, it can be overcome. Look down. Watch the way her lips surround your rigid shaft...sliding wetly up and down, caressing the head of your cock with them....look at how wet it is with her saliva, glistening in the faint light...feel her tongue sliding against the sensitive place just below the head...feel the warm wetness of the inside of her mouth, imprisoning your aching cock...now imagine the pent-up sperm being manufactured by your body...building up inside you, eager to race up the shaft and burst into her eager, welcoming mouth...feel the pressure...you can almost feel it, see it...imagine it erupting in her mouth in heavy, thick spurts...pumping out in an orgasmic frenzy, flooding her mouth with its warmth...she wants it....she wants your cum now, more than anything...she wants to taste it, swallow it, suck out the last little ooze...it's her reward, and she deserves it...give it to her...every last spurt, every drop...

 

i think this is my first post since i ever joined

to be honest im in the same boat i havent ever cum from a bj. i get up to the point where im about to, but thats about it...im not to bothered i prefer to give to my girlfriend then recieve.

 

i got head from about ten or so girls before one of them finaly new what she was doing and made me come. it takes my wife a good twenty minutes or more to suck me off.(shes not very good at it). find someone who is good at it, theres nothing wrong with you its the guys suckin you. find a FEMALE who knows what shes doin.

 

Thats the hottest thing I've ever read here

 

Yes, but....did you cum?

Thanks, sweetie.