when does it become cheating. my wife does not know about me and this site. are how i feel about guys. never been with a guy. don't if i will do it but i love to talk talk about sex with guy and women. is a blow job cheating . is a hand job cheating . is just talking about sex with someone else cheating. let me know ya'll feeling

 

If you have to ask, then it's cheating. Either come clean with your wife or don't, but understand that if this gay side is something you intend to pursue, at one point or another, you will get caught and, most likely, it will ruin the marriage. Honesty is the best policy in this scenario. And, you never know, she might want to see you fuck another guy. There are women who like that.

-S-

 

YES, a blow job is cheating! Even a hand job is cheating.
Talking about sex isn't though.

 

i think that at 45 i just what to open to ideas not real knowing is getting me

 

Some people have different conceptions about cheating. Just ask yourself what you think you would feel if your wife was to do any of the things you are contemplating. If you don't like how that would make you feel, then you have your answer!

 

The thing is you have to find out what your wife thinks is considered cheating, not what we think.

I think, for the most part, people are going to say any form of sexual act is cheating. So, yes that means a blow job, or a hand job, or even a passionate kiss. But if you ask me, and this differs from the next person more than likely, just being on a porn forum isn't cheating. I personally don't count cybersex as cheating either unless it leads to the trading of intimate things like naked pictures or webcams.

In the end, if it's cheating or not, it's not what we think, it's what your wife thinks.

 

Pretty much anything you hide from your Partner is cheating.

 

Sex with another partner besides your wife is cheating. Fucking somebody else is cheating; giving or getting blowjobs fro someone else is cheating, handjobs the same. If you have to keep xnxx a secret it's cheating also, especially if you use it for sexual stimulation and masturbation.

 

if you become interested in another person on this site, and continue to have private conversations (involving sex, whatever else) without her knowledge, i consider that "straying". if you literally act on your impulses to have sex with other people, it's cheating. unless she doesn't care. but chances are she will. if she wanted an open marriage, you would know.

 

is there anything actually wrong with cheating? for me sex unless its with someone you love is just masterbation with someone else

 

And you don't consider mutual masturbation with an outsider a problem in a marraige?

 

For me its pretty simple really and its doesn't matter what it is or what form it takes. As soon as you find yourself hiding what you're doing from your spouse that's a form of cheating.

But the one you really need to watch out for is when you start cheating on yourself. In other words when you start trying to fool yourself you're already in trouble.

 

dont know im not in a marriage

 

This thread........makes me want to hit somebody....not anyone specific...just somebody

 

Don't you think this being a bit flippant?
Whether you are in a marriage or relationship the effect is the same, as you damn well know. You ask people's advice, but it is obvious you don't really want it. I suggest you just stick to stroking your own!

 

yeah there are some women who like the idea of there partners giving head, and getting head from another guy *rolls eyes*

 

does lisa mind when you do it with another guy? sounds like something a little whimp like you would do,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

hey look who is back posting lisa and matt,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

does not have to be physical to be cheating, talking aobut sex I consider also, you begin to rely on someone else for emotional things, sharing secrets and fantasies,
My wife knows I am in here, in fact, she found the site and told me about it.

 

what a bunch of judgemental fucks on this site of all places....nobody asks the guy more questions just start projecting your own bullshit hahahahaha i especially love the i tell my wife everything jackwads - really? everything? thnk about that one for a second everything? every thoguht that runs thru your head? sounds cruel to me hahahaha