she it's me ... she loses her status as a women ...... it's WAR.
I hope I don't lose my temper ..

 

the woman im having fun with atm is cheatin on her bf with me if that counts ? were very close and dear friends, and she has cheated on every [apart from 1] bf she's had so its not like it anything different and i know her bf and he is a complete wanker lol

 

I've never cheated, but my girlfriend of 1 year has been married to another guy the whole time. Initially, I told her I didn't mind her continuing to screw her husband, but as we've grown closer I've moved toward forbidding her from fucking him. (My gf's husband is in a different country and they only meet a few times a year but he doesn't have any clue about me)

 

born in the wrong age

I'm not trying to ruffel any feathers but I only think its cheating if a woman sleeps around. This thing where men are suppose to be faithful is some new modern stuff. I mean in the wild west there were whore houses were everybody hung out except the wives. Brothels of the east have always been in high demand washington d c still has a vibrant red light district and brfore 1700 world wide it was common to have many lovers. I don't think sex and love are the samething so saying that I have sex very often without my wife. I'm not a asshole and threw it in her face but she know. Then there's biology involed we have to consider. A women can only come to full term on one pregnacy cycle a year. She may have 10 kids in that cycle but that's pretty much it. Well a man can have thousands of kids in one year. So its in our nature to want different women. Sorry girls

 

Aye carumba!

 

Did once

I cheated once many years ago when it was much safer, (before Heroes or HIV)
The wife of a guy I knew took me home from a bar and fucked me to get back at him. Before he even knew about it he had fucked my wife with the intention of me not finding out about it. Might have worked except: He had given his wife the clap, she gave it to me, I had given it to my wife (not knowing it at the time) and she had given it back to him (also ignorant at the time).
Proof that the Karmic wheel DOES turn

 

I cheated on a high school sweet heart (4 year relationship) and that's only cause at the time we were fighting like crazy and I just couldn't stand the sight of her. Sorry! I know that sounds bad and all but It was just a ruff time. And my previous ex saw what was going on and used that to her advantage and seduced me. But! half way threw me screwing her I started thinking about my girl and how I shouldn't be doing this, So I pulled out and told her I can't do this and forced her to put her cloths back on.

I've realized a few things since that day, Some women are fucking evil! :twisted: And how easy It Is to get sucked In at your weak and desperate times.

Tho we broke up about 2 years later, My g/f never found out.

 

Another question.

Overall i have been pretty unfaithful in most of my relationships : / but a huge factor in my mind is that most of the girls i have been with have not been as sexually "outgoing" as me. I love the girl i have been with for the past 4 years, but after me asking time and time again for her to try new things and she doesn't want to, i don't always feel bad cybering or messing around with other women... I don't think i should throw away a great relationship just because she doesn't want to satisfy all of my sexual needs.

 

I have been with my wife almost 13 years haven't cheated. But sadly over the past year she has become majorly depressed and agoraphobic my sexlife is nadda. Sadly I am fighting not cheating every day. Unless you want to screw up a relationship I really don't recomend it.

 

I was in a relationship many years ago now when I was younger. I had to travel back to my home town alone to attend a wedding..I met up with old school friends that were attending the wedding of our old school mate.

Long story short an old girlfriend and I after the reception went out to a quiet area out of sight got out of mind.. to do what we didn't do back in high school.

On returning to the then current girlfriend I broke off with her.. I told why she said she forgives me but I told her I couldn't forgive myself... I have never cheated again.. for me its not worth it.

 

I married young, without the opportunity to screw around. I lost my virginity to my wife 38 years ago. We are, and always have been sexually active on a daily basis.

I cheated once with a woman, a one year affair with the wife of a friend. I have cheated several times with men, culminating in finding a long term suck buddy. Both relationships are over and I'll probably never cheat again, and here is why: I've found that without a relationship, without liking or maybe even loving your sex partner, it becomes a joyless exercise. Both relationships ended naturally with a shrug, not even a whimper. To build a relationship takes time, and I just cannot spend that amount of time with another person without the cheating becoming obvious. And I found out what I wanted to find out. I wanted to experience sex with someone other than my wife, just to satisfy my curiousity. I did that and am now happy. Cheating worked for me in that regard. I am not sorry I cheated, it helped me become a better husband. I now know that my wife is GREAT. I love her and invest all of my sexual energy towards her (except for a nice, satisfying private wank now and then) It certainly helps that my wife is such a good bed partner. If that were not true, who knows?

I believe she "knew" by intuition about my affairs. I tried to be discreet, but even one little slip can send up a warning flag. I do not know if she has ever cheated on me, and don't care. But now, life is good and seems to be getting continually better.

She will be home from work in 2 hours. When she left this morning it was with the request that I shave before she got home - said she's wanting to sit on my face. That's the kind of thing you can look forward to!

 

Anyone else who found cheating to be therapeutic?