Well, pheromones aren't the only things lurking on the unwashed male body, trust me. Or the unwashed female body, for that matter. And even if you're squeaky clean, if you take your time, the pheromones will make themselves evident in due time.

 

i agree. we'd obviously shower beforehand if one of us is particularly dirty, and we take the same steps as you guys do if his cock (or my cunt lol) isn't that fresh... baby wipe or quick sink-wash. and i do always make him brush his teeth before oral, but that's because i've had four UTIs in the past year.

i see what people say about living in a hotter country... i mean we visited turkey in their winter time (babies in bloody huge coats lol) and it was hotter than our summer here in scotland.

 

Ha ha, too true Kimi, but, I for one, feel that society has become too preoccupied with sterility for our own good. Just look at what has happened in the hospitals with Golden Staph for example. Nowadays people can go into hospital and become sicker than when they first went in and someone even don't come out again on their own two legs!!

I am a little unusual in that I deliberately expose myself to as many nasties as I can in an effort to boost my immune system. Maybe as a result of this I am very rarely sick whilst others around me drop like flies.

 

Well, that's true enough...but I still don't want to have sex with a guy who is inattentive to his personal hygiene. And believe me, some guys are REALLY inattentive!

 

lol you're actually 100% right. my partner grew up able to run around the countryside to his heart's content and has the immune system of a rhino... nothing gets through him. i on the other hand grew up in a thoroughly disinfected household where i had to ask to play in my fenced-off back garden... i have asthma, a low immune system and stupid allergies haha...

you're doing it right

 

It's probably a good idea. Every feeling is enhanced on my skin when I just scrubbed it clean. Rolling around freshly clean in a soft blanket is euphoria.

 

Ha ha , yeah, I know what you mean. I have smelt countless on public transport.

Now whilst I do enjoy natural female smells there does come a point where washing is not only a good idea it is a damn necessity. Not quite sure how things were before washing became the norm, but can you imagine what mediaeval oral sex must've been like????? :excited:

 

I can't...was it even invented back then?

I'm kidding...it's in the Kama Sutra.

 

I can't stand any kind of stink. So, at least a quick shower is necessary for me and my partners. And, it sometimes leads to shower sex, which can be very hot. Then, we're already clean should we decide to go for another round in the bedroom.

 

but what if neither of you were stinking? what if you'd both had showers a couple hours later... would you then shower again?

 

Shower

Some odores are a real turn on for some people. My wife likes what she calls 'cave man sex'.
We live in Florida and I have a small blacksmith forge. My wife loves sex before I shower off all the coal or charcoal smell and the hot steel and sweaty smell. Its a real turn on for her.
Hell, sometimes we even make it to the house before taking off our clothes and enjoying each other.

 

A good cleanning before might just make for better oral sex.

 

If somebody absolutely has to shower before sex, it's because they were recently cheating and wants to wash the scent off of their body.

 

Given the opportunity, I like to shower before sex. It is not absolutely neccessary however.

Ass play is a big part of my sex life. A quick shower can help make sure everything is nice and clean.

 

i'd say that's a separate issue, though...

 

My wife does not take a shower anymore unless she is going out. That means that if I get my nose anywhere near her ass, well, you get my, er, drift. So I usually ask her to take a shower first. And since she couldn't care less whether I am fucking her or not (she's an alcoholic, on antidepressants, and generally has no interest in anything pleasurable), I feel entitled to at least have her clean herself up.

I often think how many women out there would love to have a successful, happy, horny, well-endowed, *normal* man to give them pleasure as often as they want, and I'm stuck with my wife of 33 years who's lost interest in sex. But what a pain in the ass it would be to find such a girl. Sigh. So, if you are 35-55, 34-38 bust, B-D natural non-saggy cup, blonde with bangs, shaved, not fat, politically conservative, financially sound, clean, non-alcoholic, non-smoker, with a healthy sexual appetite, and love good food, fine wine, dogs and cats, travel, Star Trek and 60's-90's rock, give me a call!

 

jees well thats not asking much...lol

 

sex in the shower is good, shower before sex wouldnt really suit me, i dont understand why youd clean yourself to get dirty ?

 

Unless you they have a bit of a Body odour issue that sounds a bit odd ( no offence intented as its you're friend)

 

thats pretty odd =/

i shower after but not usually before