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  1. 62bus

    62bus Porn Surfer

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    I wanna get my wife to be a bit more forcefull in bed,would love her to tie me up wank me off either over her tits & get me to lick her clean or in a glass & get her to pour it down my throat ,sit on my face etc etc but shes not the forcefull type & dont think it will happen,tried hinting a few times whats best way to make her feel ok with it?
     
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  2. ecesis

    ecesis Sex Machine

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    the way i see it, either you don't mention it but you're always thinking it, or you mention it. partially it depends how often and openly you talk about your sexual desires. perhaps start slowly, with asking her to be "in charge" and tie you up... work your way towards more extreme requests.
     
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  3. beninabox

    beninabox Porn Star

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    sounds like good advice. If she is unsure or uncomfortable with the idea, she may get spooked if you ask for too much too soon.

    baby steps, and hopefully she will see how much pleasure this gives you which will increase her desire to do more.
     
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  4. yummy1

    yummy1 Porn Surfer

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    i agree with the whole "baby steps" approach wih a caveat... you need to make sure your chick is comfortable with being dominant and that she gets off on it, too. be sure you are being completely honest with her and yourself. you don't want to try to shoe horn her into being someone in bed that she doesn't want to be, so be sure that you aren't pushing her into places she doesn't want to go, but nudging her in ways she enjoys.

    i'm completely submissive, and i know that if my husband were to ask me to be "in charge" in bed, i would do it to make him happy, but that it wouldn't really fill any of my needs (other than pleasing him)... eventually, if he kept asking for it or started assuming it was something that i found fufilling, there would be a disconnect that might lead to us both being unhappy with our dynamic. thankfully, i'm honest with my husband about it, and we communicate about our needs.
     
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  5. Empress Lainie

    Empress Lainie Ascended Ancient<br>Unexpected Woman In XNXX Heaven

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    I think it mostly goes with being female. I know that I have always wanted to be the passive one, but the girls I have had rarely would take initiative. Your best bet is like: " Honey (or whatever you use) can we talk about our lovemaking?"

    then go from there.
     
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  6. 62bus

    62bus Porn Surfer

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    cheers guys
     
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  7. winter328

    winter328 Amateur

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    lol, you are married and you can not openly talk about sex with wife. It is pathetic.

    I can talk openly about anything with my girlfriend, most of close friends and family members and they can tell openly about anything too. We do not mind or we do not take anything seriously.
     
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