And more importantly, would you treat me good?

 

Well there is somebody for everybody. and i dont have a prolem with a girl thats a lil over weight. show some pictures and take a vote.

 

I agree with jh.

 

It depends

Hang on -- don't shoot me yet. I had a law professor who said that "It depends" is the correct answer to any law case because each case depends on the circumstances and such. So, generally speaking, I would say that I would be your friend and find you desirable, but it would also depend on your personality, your sense of humor, your attitude -- you know, whether we clicked or not. Notice I didn't say anything about weight or looks because those two things are not as important to me as the previous three.

 

our bodies are nothing more than seashells of DNA, the real you is inside your heart and your soul, be yourself, who cares what anyone else thinks? really and there is a lid for every pot as my grandma would say.

 

Sometimes, we all just feel like we're a wok. :mrgreen:

 

As mentioned previously in this thread, it would depend on the person. There are alot of guys that find that attractive if not just something they don't mind. For me, I don't find it desirable due to my own reasons.

 

I need to add to this post.....Or so I have been told.

I am happy with myself. I am a very sexual women. I joined two groups this morning to see what people really think. I want to see if others see me as sexy and desirable, first by my words and then by my pictures. Which might take a few days to put up. Hard to catch any quiet time around this madhouse that I live in.:rose:I have been treated good to decent in the past. I just never met the one. It will happen when it is meant to.

 

I think if any lady keeps her eyes open and is willing to take a chance with a guy that she'll find there are many men out there who find her particular body type extremely attractive, overweight definitely included in that - I myself find many bigger women very sexy.

As far as treating you well. Decent guys are out there - just don't be disillusioned with the hollywood ideal of turning a bad guy good or mr. charming randomly asking if you want to share an umbrella, or something like that. There's a reason why that stuff is in movies, it rarely happens in the real world.

 

Yes and as good as you want.

 

There are women who'll find you desirable, too, and treat you very, very well

 

I have a friend that tips the scales at somewhere around 300 pounds, and her husband might be just a little bit bigger. She once confided in me that on their honeymoon they broke three beds. It's truly a marriage made in heaven. Don't give up.

 

your beauty is defined by who you are. if you are kind to others and happy with yourself then you will light up the room. and anyone who thinks beauty is only skin deep isnt worth your time.

 

I'm 'overweight' too, but my husband loves me just the way I am, and he is in no way attracted to skinny girls.

 

there are a few guys and girls who only like there women to be plus sized

 

i find overweight women more desirable than skinny women, especially those that are happy with themself, offcourse opersonality counts more than looks does, but im orignally more attracted to women with curves over those with none.

 

Okay, okay, quite coddling the fat chick, it's getting to be a little sickening!

No offense.

But, really an overweight girl with some swag and confidence can be totally attractive to many men, not to mention personality. But who's saying this OP has any of that?

 

Tessa Anne


Lots has been said about the inner self and for most men and women that is much more important that the outer look. I see couples all the time that I wonder what they see in each other and it always comes out in the personalities. Be yourself with people and one day you will find someone that likes what he or she sees.


I am nothing to look at and neither is my wife but she has qualities that I cherish in a relationship.

 

i like bbw, but this isn't strongly relative 2 good treatment i think, any1 will treat u accourding 2 how much cute u r
wld u give me the honour 2 b friends on xnxx site. i'd like that so much
have a nice sexy day

 

i have had big, small, medium,,and i like them all, it really just depends on the chic and how tight she is