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  1. rumaru

    rumaru Porn Surfer

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    Something that worked for me and the girlie: Toys. Nothing like something vibrating to spark a stagnating bed-life.
     
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  2. Torfo414

    Torfo414 Sex Lover

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    Hi guys. I think I have a couple of ideas.

    First you might wanna try a change of scenery. vocation somewhere she's always wanted to go, away from your "lives".

    You could also try aphrodisiac foods, like oysters. Try asking someone older about this kind of stuff, they knew what they were doing back then.

    And maybe a little exercise. Have them write a fantasy of theirs. You don't have to read it if they don't want you to. They point is to get their mind working in that dirrection, maybe then it will produce the right chemicals for you.

    But for all that to take effect you first need take a deep breath, especially you Stomper, and stop them from feeling guilty about the whole thing. Comfort them so that there is the least possible pressure.

    I hope I helped even a little bit. Wish you both luck and many years of loving coexistance with your soulmates.
     
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  3. junkytri

    junkytri Porn Surfer

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    maybe it's you?
    do u make enough money to take away society's stress.
    Are you a good lover?
    Do you foreplay or just jump to it?
    Do you tease her?
    Do you make her feel good about herself?
    Do you give her confidence?
    Does she see you as a masculine man?
    Are you in shape?
    Is she overweight?


    Answer all these questions. You already know which answer is the correct one. Look at yourself and look at her and be realistic.

    THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS NO SEXUAL DESIRE OR LACK OF LIBIDO!!! NATURE MADE US HORNY!!!
     
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  4. darkest.kiwi.angel

    darkest.kiwi.angel Sex Lover

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    What a caring partner you sound. Some good advice up there. ^^^ Also, I went through a time like that. The worst thing was, anytime my partner made any intimate gestures, they were because he wanted a fuck or a suck. I wanted to be touched and held with no expectations. His stance on that is what a freakin waste of effort. Hence I am the unfaithful bitch I am today. :(
     
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  5. goodsamantha

    goodsamantha Porno Junky

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    :excited:Awesome answer, just freaking awesome. It's not unusual for a woman to start menopause in their thirties. Wait and see what a doctor has to say. I'm sure it's not easy for her right now either.
     
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  6. vivek6106

    vivek6106 Sex Lover

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    well try a doc...psychiatrist or sexologist....hav a vaction in some romantic plcae...relive ur old romance days!!,,,,stimulate her using mechanical devices!!vibrators!!...show her porn..make her do porn!!
     
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  7. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    try an experiment!

    Try an experiment while she is maturbating get her to tell you a story and then you do the same and allow each other just one question.

    TIP - the closer the question is to the orgasm the more horny/honest the answer is.

    It is one of the diversions we use because my wife still has no libido. Although she did admit to fancying Idris Alba tonight so maybe she has found it.

    Thinskin
     
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