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  1. will51

    will51 Porn Surfer

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    In about another year or so will be fixed so we can't have any more kids. My wife wants me to have a vasectomy but will have her tubes tied if I don't have it done. My fear for me is that it will in some way change the way it feels when I cum and I really don't want that to happen. Both of our fears for her is that she will get endometriosis like her sister and having this very same thing done.

    So my questions are will I have any change in feeling when I cum and will it hurt as much as I imagine it would? Any other help or comments as long as they are helpful would be great.
     
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  2. downwind

    downwind Sex Machine

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    You will not feel any change at all, none
    And if you love your wife, you wont have her get her tubes tied
     
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  3. toads tool

    toads tool Porn Surfer

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    No change what-so-ever performance wise. Was able to try it out the next day with minimal discomfort.

    I had to set with an icepack on my nuts for about an hour or two after the local wore off. Tylenol was all that was needed.

    The only change I have noticed is that my balls do hang lower and for about a week I had this "mule balls" feeling. That didn't take long to get used to. THey also don't suck up as quickly as they did when cold, less things pulling up on them.
     
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  4. loverlvr

    loverlvr Porn Surfer

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    I haven't noticed any changes in feeling or performance!
    It's been about two years since I had it done
     
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  5. hedonism96

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    You tried it out the next day????:eek:

    Shit things must have changed since I had mine done, I think it was a minimum of week before I could use mine again.

    Most of the posters here say no change or minimal change, well, let me relate my experience. The first orgasm, and I remember it very clearly even though it was 18 years ago, was very bizarre. I had a strong contracting feeling in my balls where the vas had been snipped. Not unpleasant mind you, just unexpected and this continued to happen until I got used to it I guess.But that first one, oh, I will never forget that.

    I have not discussed or researched the subject since and have only just discovered a side effect that others share: hanging balls! I have been told I have the biggest, most dangly balls that many people have ever seen.

    Here is an AC/DC song that springs to mind. It's well worth a listen and has the original lead singer Bon Scott.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YUuyzQDmjY


    One other side effect I have noticed is that my cum is pretty clear now and not creamy white like you see in the movies. Anyone else notice this?

    But seriously OP, I would not worry one little bit unless you don't want big balls that is :cool:
     
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  6. Mars

    Mars Amateur

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    no change

    Had mine done 5 years ago. No change...probably better and I think my cum tastes sweeter now. The operation was a breeze. Cheaper and easier than tying tubes. I washed myself in salty water for a few days and was back at work within 2.
     
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  7. abean696

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    i had mine about 10 years ago. i waited a couple of weeks before i tried things out and had no problems at all. i also never needed the pills they gave me for any discomfort
     
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  8. insearchofme

    insearchofme Sex Lover

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    There was no change what so ever. In fact sex is better. Your wife can relax because she knows that she won't be able to get pregnant. This frees her to be more spontanious and sexually adventuresome.

    This isn't only me talking be all of my brothers and freinds who had a vascetomy have said this.
     
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  9. Lirsha

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    Medically Evidence Says You Should Be Good To Go

    Speaking as a medical professional who stays caught up on all aspects of women's health, let me say that all medical evidence states that apart from some minimal discomfort on the day of surgery, sexual performance and sensation are not changed post operatively for a man. However, for women, a tubal ligation (having tubes tied) presents possible long term consequences such as increased risk of abnormal bleeding and need for future hysterectomy. Also, a vasectomy can be done in the office under local anesthetic while a tubal ligation is an in-hospital procedure requiring general anesthesia.

    So, long story short, it's an easier procedure and recovery for you as well as no statistically significant long term after effects.

    Besides, she had to carry and push out the babies so her work should be done....lol:)
     
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  10. downwind

    downwind Sex Machine

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    to hendoism96,
    Does your surgeon have a veterinary degree? Talk about a hammer mechanics.
    I got mine done years ago and made love to my wife that afternoon with no pain.
     
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  11. hedonism96

    hedonism96 Porn Star

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    To be honest downwind he was a GP and i was hugely impressed with his skill. The tiny slits he made only bled on one side and then only slightly. I believe the week or so I abstained was on medical advice, not pain!

    But, having said that you had your vas deferens cut, cauterised and stitched and sperm being rerouted to dissipate elsewhere and you fucked that same afternoon with no pain?????

    Ladies and gentleman we have a winner in the Mr Iron Balls competition!!!!!
     
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  12. Fluffy McNoo

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    One thing to advise anyone considering a vasectomy is, do not stop using other forms contraception for at least 3 months afterwards! There have been many a rueful couple who thought as soon as it was done that they were safe to have sex... and found out the hard way, it's not always the case.

    Bye for now - Fluffy McNoo. :cool:
     
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  13. insanity6is1a6virtue

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    Veterinarians get more medical and surgical training than a doctor does. Jus' sayin.
     
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  14. nick60

    nick60 Porn Surfer

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    One of the best things I ever did.
    Negligible pain, short recovery, relaxed females and condom-free sex forever.

    Go for it.
     
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  15. Happily married

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    What this poster said, but does not have to be done in-patient. Women can have this done on an outpatient basis but it does require general anesthesia. When you compare the risks of you having this done in your Dr's office compared to your wife having to either go to a hospital or a surgery center and having to receive general anesthesia, it's a no brainer.

    It's less expensive for a man, less painful, and lower risk. Man up and get it done. Had mine done a few years ago and the wife and I are loving it ever since.
     
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  16. downwind

    downwind Sex Machine

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    Much more then henonism's GP has, that's for sure.
    And yo're right about Vets I was just remembering the old method used to spay small animals.
     
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  17. rovieone98

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    had mine done 15 years ago

    I had mine done 15 years ago and I can tell you that it did not feel ant different and when we had sex I would come a lot more and more often. My wife loved it because she didn't have to worry about getting pregnant so it was off to the wall:satisfied:
     
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  18. BenP

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    Have the procedure but listen to the doctor about using contraception after it is done. It takes a couple-three months for the active sperm to completely leave the system. It does not affect performance or sensation at all and the procedure is done on an out-patient basis, rather than the more complicated procedure for the woman. Don't be an ass and force your wife to have her uterus surgically altered. The vasectomy is a simple procedure and you will be happier for it. Just make sure you are both prepared to not have any more kids.
     
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  19. will51

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    I guess my min cause for concern is that I have an enlarged vein on my right testicle that causes me a lot pain as it is now when things get backed up and some times when they don't get backed up it hurts. I just don't want to make the pain worse or more often.
     
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