Would you be freaked out by your partner (male) asking for any kind of anal stimulation? IE: Rimming, fingering, etc??

 

I forgot to say, would you ladies please drop a line and explain why you chose your answer?

 

I don't do rimming. But I have nothing against a little strap-on play.

 

im interested as well.

 

Well, just after making this thread me and the lady went off for some fun..

Anyway, she ended up cumming, so I pulled out and she was sucking my balls while I was stroking, and she kept going lower, and lower, and lower until she was right on top of my ass.


So anyway, needless to say I was enjoying it, and I was letting her know I liked it. She was practically rimming me, and I nearly shot my eye out when I came. So I think maybe next time she'll go all the way with it! Always glad to try something new!

 

Well, I vacillated for awhile between "hell, yeah" and the "don't care" one, and finally chose "hell, yeah". But I thought you were talking about full-on anal sex.

As far as anal sex goes, I don't do it purely for the pleasure it gives ME, although I've come to like it. For me, it's not so much about the physical sensation of it...it's more of a psychological thing -- the feeling of being used, degraded, humiliated, subjugated. But I also do it simply because my husband is into it now and then (thankfully, not all the time!).

As for licking and rimming, you betcha, I'm there. As long as we're both nice and clean.

 

I said yes to two bfs that wanted to try with me. never again. hurts!! no thanks, I say no now.

 

i love anal sex!

if your partner takes the time to use fingers and lube first, then it doesn't hurt at all. i orgasm from it and adore it.

i was a bit nervous at first, but being really wasted the first time helped

it doesn't make me feel humiliated and degraded... makes me feel powerful and naughty!

 

it doesn't bother me, i'd do it if he asked me to.

 

It only hurts if you don't use enough lube.

 

or if he ploughs in without stretching it a little.

my brother's got a friend who lost his virginity in a funny way... girl was ready (she wasn't a virgin), she was doggy style and he ploughs straight into her ass! tore his foreskin, hurt her a lot and somehow managed not to get dumped

 

I still love Kimiko XD

 

Join the club doesn't everybody?:excited:

 

They probably didn't approach the matter in the right way...but I can't really blame you. It CAN hurt, and I don't think women should feel obligated to do it if they don't want to. I'm sorry your experiences were so negative.

 

Mmmmm....no, not EVERYBODY.

But I'm glad you're in the club...*soft kiss*

 

Provide we're both clean I wouldn't mind them asking, it takes some getting used to but I like it

 

I think the question was misunderstood.


What I was trying to ask is, would you be freaked out by your guy asking you to perform anal on HIM?


Not necessarily penetration, but maybe. And also licking.. How would you react?

 

Oh right, I do rim jobs and I wouldn't object to fingering, I'd be more worried about catching my nail and doing some damage. I have my tounge pierced too so I'd be sure to bare that in mind for hygene reasons. But other than that sure

 

No, not at all. I've normally got that in the back of my mind when I'm with someone and having seen the orgasm that a finger can bring, I'm hoping he'll ask. If not, I'm not opposed to suggesting it (one way or another).

 

That would be totally awesome!! Just the thought can get me hot. But my man is so not into that.