cause its fucking horny to be called things (especially if there true).

 

It's not the words themselves...

...it's more the state of mind it helps establish. ;-)

Most of us, myself included, operate within boundaries in our daily lives. We carry that into the bedroom (or onto the kitchen counter, lol).

Using dirty talk breaks that down a little. Women are socialized to be "proper." That sometimes stands in the way of simply...fucking. But, being called a "slut" or a "whore" can, under the right circumstances, let a woman discard all that baggage and become a fully sexual creature.

Men are socialized to be protective toward women. Likewise, that can become a speed bump on the road to pleasure. Dirty talk helps us abandon some of that socialized "carefulness"...and pound her pussy into passion pudding.

It's a little like role play...it's gets us outside our typical selves. And, that can have some value, I think.

Plus, there are many women with hidden submissive fantasies in their sexual nature...and many men with hidden dominant streaks. The words tend to feed both natures...and if they are present, there's nothing hotter for a submissive nature than being taken -- and nothing hotter for a dominant nature than taking.

 

Well wrong timing and I get a slap in the face lol

 

I would head butt and throw my partner out of our bed if he ever said nasty things to me during sex...

 

a lady need to be treated with respect, i agree with beautiful above me.

 

As the old saying goes: "To each, their own."

Personally, I gave up head-butting when I learned that those who most deserved it -- the boneheads -- by definition had thicker skulls than me. LOL.

 

power and degrading the bitch if she likes it that way

 

My current lady likes it. She really gets turned on by it.
What do I get? I reap all the benefits....

 

I liked doing it a lot better before you explained the psychological basis of it to me.

All this time I thought I just LIKED being fucked like a cheap, cum-slurping street whore.

 

LOL. I'm sure with the right inducements, you could be taken back to feeling like a fucking whore, Kimiko!

I mean, c'mon...a slut like you wouldn't present a wet fuckhole to a ready cock? You'd feel less like fuck-meat because you knew why you adore having a cock stuffed deep inside your slut belly?

It would be less tasty licking and sucking the juice of your own whore pussy off a turgid dick?

I can't even begin to express the depths of my unhappiness that I have spoiled your fun, little cum-slut.

 

Awww, it's okay....I'm sure a good hard fuck will cure me of that annoying little flash of self-insight.

 

There I go again...using 94 words when 7 would have done: a good hard fuck will cure you.

LOL!

 

That's a good lesson. Now shut the fuck up, slam that big, hard dick of yours into me, grab my hair in your fist and make me FEEL it!

 

Deal! Cum for me, slut! ;-)

 

A punch in the face

 

Did you mean what I get from her in return, or what I get personally??

My Gf doesn't require it and I am glad because I feel quite awkward doing it; in fact I don't get the guys in porn who keeps repeating: you like it babe? you like my cock? etc...I findf it rather ridiculous; seems like they force themselves to say anything just to make the scene hotter..yuck..(

On the other hand, I had a GF and she liked me talk during sex; many times I found hers "say something" so annoying that I wanted to take a pillow and press it hard against her face

 

I only like name calling during sex time if you want to call it that.. being called a dirty cumslut turns me on like crazy. I love the intensity also.. any other time wouldn't exactly feel right

 

i love it when a girl talks dirty...nothing too much but some dirty talking turns me on a lot ! I find it helps me cum faster actually !

 

What do I get from calling my partner nasty things during sex?

Extra charges on my phone bill

 

Totally agree, my wife gets turned on by dirty talk. I think it does more for her than it does me but I get excited by seeing, feeling and hearing her excited.