Im 18 and my girlfriend and i have been going out for a while now and the subject of oral sex has come up and obviously I'm all for it, but shes really apprehensive about it, shes heard some bad stories about that kind of stuff from some of her friends, like about guys not saying when there about done and cumming in the girls mouth, and of girls getting eaten out and not enjoying it all and having to pretend that they like it to make there boyfriend feel better, etc. So, what are some good tips or explanations i can use to try and get her more ok with this? I've already said id tell her when I was about done cuz I'm not an asshole and wouldn't do that, and that she'd probly like being eaten out cuz i haven't really been able to find her clit before (yeah i know thats pathetic but i think hers is just small cu its never been a problem before) and i know she would enjoy that, just overall having more access to things will definitely help things. And now, to top it off, shes afraid of change (long explanation for that) and is afraid that adding new things will ruin what we have now cuz it will make things really complicated if we dont both enjoy it. so yeah, im kinda at my wits end here and some tips as to what to say would be great, also, tips as to what to do (cuz i havent actually done this either) so that she DOES enjoy it would be great. thanks in advance

 

Try to talk about it and reassure her. I know that may not be easy if she is really nervous though.

When you are in the bedroom kiss her on her lips and slowly work your way down paying lots of attention to her tits and neck. Keep working your way down and kiss and lick every part of her body apart from her pussy. Pretty soon she will be begging you to lick it.

Hopefully she will then repay the favour.

 

Yeah, I definitely suggest you give her the orgasm first. Offer her reassurance, like if she doesn't like it, she can just let you know and you'll stop (and you will!). When you're doing it, try out different moves... like licking up and down, or suckling on her clit, or fucking her pussy with your tongue.. or whatever, at one point you'll feel her twitch or hear her scream in pleasure, at which point you know exactly what feels good to her and you can keep going on with that gesture. Then, once she sees how much she likes it and how considerate you are, she'll be grateful enough to do the same.

 

if all else fails just stiff arm her head down :excited:

 

Pretty sure you are not 18.

 

just ask her

 

Maybe you're not dating the right girl lol. I've never had to be asked and quite honestly prefer giving oral then receiving it.


On a serious note just don't push it. Like everyone else said take it slow and if she's not feelin it back off.

 

lol true, most women want to lol

 

Thanks for the advice, I'm probably going to take a route near to that although after talking to her more about it I found that she feels it might be better to take it a little bit slower, so I'm going to respect as much as possible as I want her to be comfortable with this and to have it be a positive experience. Also, after talking to a buddy of mine I found that once you get to this stage things tend to get kinda awkward for a few weeks until your both comfortable with it. which to me isn't something I'm entirely willing to risk, so I'm not going to rush things, especially since I'm really enjoying where we're at as a couple and don't want to screw it up.

However, at the same time I'm probly going to have that friends gf (who's friends with my girlfriend) try and bring the subject up to her in conversation to try and negate some of those worries shes gotten from the bad stories shes heard. Sorry if you were hoping for a 'i tried that and it worked great!' type of response but I gotta do this right, I really care about her and am more than happy to wait til shes ready, if I remember I'll post a follow up in a few weeks (or more) as to how things went. Again thank you for the input, its much appreciated.

Should any one have more advice they'd like to add it would still be very much appreciated as I would like to be as prepped for this as possible, and don't worry your posts wont go unread as I will be checking this thread probly near daily for new posts as ill probly already be here for other reasons

***For the guy that thinks I'm not 18, can you at least give a reason as to why you don't think I am so I can clear it up for you. If you must know my girlfriend and I are both seniors in high school and have been going out for a few months, I'm her first real relationship and shes the longest I've ever held, which would be why were both pretty naive about this.

 

Try Tequila

 

Women go for chocolate syrup, pour some on you. LOL!

 

Get a nice enough girl in your senior class to blow you...it'll never get back to your gf....NOT

Just take it slow and word of advice:

DO NOT....do not, bring this up every time things get heated...it will make her feel pressured and that's the last emotional bag you want opened.