Hey everyone! Just wanted to have a general opinion about my situation. I've been with my gf for about 3 months (ive had many sexual partners before) but this girl just isnt interested in oral sex lol she doesnt even let me lick her pussy. We've tried it a few times during sex but she's firm on the fact that she doesnt want to do it. Any tips for me? Because personally i think its an important aspect of sex. I was thinking i should surprise her with flavoured condoms?

 

If she doesn't like it you may NEVER change her mind!!!!! If it's important to you, you may need to find someone else!!!!

 

What she said but without the exclamation marks. If you think you're going to change anyone's mind about oral sex just by introducing a couple of flavoured latex sheaths then you must be really thick.

 

Danger Will Robinson, Danger!!!

"but this girl just isnt interested in oral sex lol she doesnt even let me lick her pussy."

I'm going to go out on a limb here Blaze...she doesn't come much during sex does she? I'm just guessing, but from what I've heard on here, and people I've known, I've formed a conclusion on this subject. A woman who refuses the specific sexual act that best stimulates her clitoris seems to usually fall into one of these groups: not interested in sex in general, non-orgasmic (possibly due to some physical problem), or has a forklift full of mental baggage. Please note that I'm not saying that a person who fits in one of these categories can't make a fine companion, and be just terrific outside of bed. If that seems too harsh, ask yourself this question: How many guys can you imagine saying to their girl-friend, "oh no, please don't lick my cock! I don't like it!" If they turned that down, would you think they were normal? Yeah. Red flags go up. Oh, the one exception to this, btw, is if she's young and inexperienced...I didn't get that information from your post. If she hasn't been sexual for very long, someone might have convinced her that "guys don't really like going down on girls" or "pussy doesn't taste good" or some similar bs. In that case, just reassure here constantly and tell her how great she smells and tastes while you're doing it, and tell her how much it turns you on. She'll get over her shyness soon enough (the orgasms will help!) However...if thats not the problem...

If (for example) she was molested by Uncle Bob as a kid and so is just not able to relax and enjoy sex, or was taught by her psycho-religious parents that her body is dirty, etc, etc....then you probably have your work cut out for you...and its something that only professional therapy will overcome. A new position or a rasberry flavored lotion is probably not gonna do the trick.

 

Along with what funilingus said, many women who are multi orgasmic find oral sex much to stimulating.

Does your woman multi orgasm or orgasm sequentially during regular intercourse? If not, then something is up like funilingus suggested. If so, then the act is simply too much for her and it's a physical thing she can't help.

Also, do you require her to give oral or something as well? If there is some kind of insinuated compensation for oral, it could be ruining the fun for her.

-SOOD

 

you wont change her mind, its a battle no man can win

 

Thanks for all the help guys, guess who convinced her to actually try it

 

Well done that man. I was going to say you can make most people do most things it just depends or how you approach the situation. Enjoy

 

yes buddy probably time to move on; i like to share my partner and if they arent into that. usually means it wont last

you have to have common interests!!

 

If sex is very important to you you need to explain that to her and if you can't handle her view you may be time to move on.

 

I cannot imagine why a woman wouldn't want her pussy licked. I FUCKING LOVE IT. I'd beg for it, no shit. Unless she's tasted herself and she tastes really horrible or something.

 

dam to me that is one of the required things a guy just has to do to a girl ied do oral with the right girl and never fuck her unless she wanted me to but she must have some type of sexual hang-up if she don't want oral