I need help with my girlfriend ( soon to be wife )

she is so good to me and perfect. She will give me blow jobs, play with my butt, lick, kiss, and even let me cum on her face.

But she wont let me finish her when i eat her out. And when we do intercourse she needs me to stop.

She says she is going to pee. I know it's a sign of her squirting. No one replied in my last thread so i started another one, and also i googled female ejaculation.

So you women out their, i need advice.
Is your first time squirting scary?
Also do women feel embarrassed ?

also she thinks she is going to pee so badly - and she loves being dirty to some extent. But she wont golden shower, she says it's a bio hazard. So how can i convince her?

oh and yes we are both adults not kids. I'm 20 and she's 20. I'm her 2nd man in her life and her 2nd sexual guy. She is my 1st women ( i had 6 gilrfriends when i was younger but their girls, not WOMEN ) And she is my first sexual experience ( i lost my birginity to her )

so yes any help would be appreciated. I'm not trolling i thought this place was the place for sex help. Thank you.

 

Yes it definitly feels like I am about to pee the first time but once you are used to it its the best feeling. So somehow you need to help her let go once. Maybe you should try more foreplay and get her soo into it and soo turned on that she just cant resist. Or if she does like to get dirty then you should try to convince her to just pee on you (even though it wont be pee and it would be cum). It took me a while to let it go too, but I remember the day I did it, I was not really in control of myself, I was so turned on that day that it just happened.

 

Have her pee before sex, that way she knows it isn't pee. It's hard the first time because you aren't sure what to expect.

 

if she thinks its a biohazard then do it in a shower as then she cant say too much as when firefighters go into a biohazard area and even if it by chance gets spilled on them they get showered off to remove the so called biohazard.
also if she tells you to stop don't once and see her blow a big one as if she pees sometimes it feels so good to the woman she will cum harder but you might get a little black and blue from her hitting or smacking you a little but it my be worth it.
btw i do know about biohazards as i am a firefighter and a hazmat teck.

 

By the way, no one replied to your last thread, BECAUSE YOU JUST MADE IT. Help isn't instantaneous, you know.

 

she will get more confortable next time she asks u to just say no tell her its alright u want yo do this together let her know its ok

 

this what i posted in the "
What do guys think about squirters?

well i had just one chance with a girl who squirted and that clean liquid rain i still remember it tasted like the sweetest thing but there is away for a woman to squirt just find your g-spot and hold your orgasm till the last moment or till you can't hold it any more that how it can be achieved mostly g-spot is found on the upper side of the vagina and just about 3-4 inch deep and that would make any girl squirt

note: not all women and squirt but all can leak the liquid with the force mostly can flooded by women but those who clamp or hold it longer they release that might be able to make it like a small fountain

 

Need to get her relaxed, and show her the same things you looked up, from the girls I've made squirt for their first times they all said it felt like they were going to pee, but it's hiiiiiighly unlikely she will. So show her the things you looked up, or even the responses to this.

 

Is she into squirting? Sit down with her at the puter and watch some squirt porn together, and tell her you think it's hot and she may relax a little bit. A girl's got to be really fucking relaxed in order to squirt.

The "need to pee" sensation is tough to overcome because obviously not everybody is willing to just let go and pee on somebody, even if they consciously know it isn't pee. I would suggest drawing a hot bath and eating her out in there, so the hot water makes her feel like succumbing to the pee urge more.

Also, you can advise her to masturbate in the hot shower until she gets to that point. If she does it to herself alone and finds out how great it is, she will be more comfortable doing it with you.

 

By the way, I had my first real squirt disaster a few weeks back. I hooked up with this chick and was going down on her, she was real wet and things felt right so I picked up the motions and started going real hard and fast with the squirt motions to get it to come out. She did squirt a little, but she said that it hurt and was basically like, "What the fuck was that about?" and told me never to do it again.

So right now my game plan is to back off and at some point talk about the experience a little more, then go at it a little slower if she wants to try it again. I hate to think I fucked it up for her, because I love squirting and I really love this girl. We have been friends for years and years but only now started being romantically involved.

 

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You say you don't get to finish any act involving her pussy because she feels like she has to pee really bad. Perhaps she is getting ready to explode into a wild orgasm. Why don't you convince her to let you do her in the bath tub so she can find out what is getting ready to happen. If she explodes without peeing, you have solved your problem. If she pees while she is exploding, you have still probably solved your problem. Either way, its a way to bring her to orgasm.