Hi everyone.

So I love women - nothing gets me off more than woman, don't get me wrong.

However, I also fascinate about the idea of sucking cocks, feeling a guys abs, making out with a guy, and all that stuff - I'm sexually interested in men for sex purely, but don't often find them "attractive" or "turned on", just really interested more for sexual reasons.

It gets me really, really excited. And I'm thinking about doing it. Like butterflys in my stomach excited.

From your deductions and experience, where do you think that puts me at?

Thanks for your input.

 

You are bisexual.

Stop worrying about the label, though, and just go have fun. Find out what you like, and get it. No-one else will be asking you what way you swing when you've got their tongue in your mouth, or on your cock. It's as simple as that. Display your orientation through your actions.

/thread.

 

Just do it. Constantly worrying over things never did anything for anyone.

 

Fuck 'em ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Suddenly I feel very happy and liberated.

Thank you guys.

 

I have thought about the same things and if I had to label I would say bisexual

 

You're 23. GO FOR IT. There are plenty of guys on some of the gay web sites that are in their 40's-60's who are just getting around to experimenting with bisex. All wished they had started earlier. I did, and I have always enjoyed my occasional stray from hetrosex.

 

I went through this, as I'm sure alot of people have and finally just went for it. Loved it for a while, then lost interest in it, and now I've come back around to loving cock. Try it, at least you'll know if you don't like it. It's better than always wondering...

 

Straight, gay, bi, whatever. I dealt with it by having a Tranny mistress, no joke. I've had three long term Trannys in my life. Wonderful people. Love them all.

 

I'm the same way. I'm bi, interested in sex and relationships with women, but only sex with men. Guys don't turn me on, big cocks do!

 

Same here, I am attracted to women but I enjoy watching gay and shemale porn. I just told my wife this the other day. Suprised her a little. One of my fastasies is for me and my wife to suck a dick together.

 

again? pls use the search

 

Confusion in paradise calls for a good excuse to experiment!

Well, that depends on whether you're able to entertain the idea of pursuing a RELATIONSHIP with another guy. Can you see yourself becoming emotionally attached or falling in love?

At first glance (or listen), my in-expertise would diagnose you as bi-curious. As my title suggests...there's nothing wrong with a little experimentation to help you figure it out along the way! There are plenty of open-minded and sexually exploratory people in the world to help you in your quest for sexual/emotional/spiritual happiness!

--Vanillefrançais

 

I don't know if I agree with Vf here. I think that you are bisexual (or at least bicurious) and whether you're interested in a relationship isn't necessarily tied to your sexual preferences. I mean, some people like the idea of being eaten out by a mastiff, but that doesn't mean they want to marry it (right?).

I do agree about experimentation, just please be careful. Only experiment with someone who will listen to the word "no".

 

i'd say you're bi-curious. to be fully 'bisexual' you'd have to be turned on by just seeing a hot guy on the street.
i'm in the same boat as you. nothing turns me on more than a woman but dicks are fun and getting head from anyone and fucking anyone is fun too. if it's between 2 consenting adults there's nothing wrong with it.

 

why worry about labels...enjoy sex, giving and recieving...you're human. Nuff said.

 

I wouldn't worry too much about labelling yourself, mate. I'm the same as you, in that I'm turned on by the idea of sex with another guy, but I'm not attracted to them.
I think you should just go out there and try it, like I did — quite a few times — you'll work out soon enough what you like and whether it's for you.
You shouldn't have any trouble finding willing partners, who are willing to be discreet about it.

 

I am almost exactly the same way(except the making out part not into that) i was turned on by guys in porn but never attracted to them when i went out so i didn't know where i was either. Well one drunken evening i decided to give it a try and enjoyed it. Now im married with a kid so i would put you in curious and if you like it then maybe bi but im not sure how to label it i call myself semi-bi lol. I say give it a try and don't worry about the label.

 

Thanks for comments.

I have no interest in relationships with guys at all.

Only interested for sexual purposes purely.

But it's just a thing that happens once in awhile. Like sometimes you
feel it, and most of the time you don't.

Maybe it's just something that just gets me off?

 

I hear you brother.

I was married for 20 years and loved every time my x and I had sex. I can honestly say nothing feels like a pussy...MMMMM. My flesh light is pretty damn close I must say. A bit to cold. But, there is the guy in me as you say, wants to suck a cock and all that. You find them attractive or you wouldn't want to have sex with them. I too want to touch a mans nice firm hard body but, I also want to touch a womans nice soft smooth sweet smelling body. I want to hear her little moans when I touch her skin. I want to feel her body tense when she begins to have an orgasm. And all the rest. I want to be the Dominant one with the woman but, at the same time I want to be the weak submissive bitch for the man. Go figure. I want to spend the rest of my life with a woman, not a man. So I would say you just want to have sex with both. It's all good.