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  1. tequillamanf

    tequillamanf Porn Surfer

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    I need some different opinions out there for this problem I may be having. I believe that I am a sexaholic. I have to get off 3 times a day. morning noot and night. I am married and have a very active sex life but its not enough. I have other "friends with benefits" and still I need more. I end up masterbating just to get it all out. I has not yet affected any other areas in my life, but how long before my luck runs out. Give me something to think about.how do you see it?

    Thanks in advance
     
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  2. DeepinsideXXx

    DeepinsideXXx Sex Lover

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    I may be in the same boat. Well, maybe a little bit close to it. I don't have any "friends with benefits" though, and usually have sex with the wife when I get home from work, then later after dinner, sometimes keep going for a third if she feels up to it and not too late.
    I still have really sexy dreams and sometimes wake up all hours of the night with a hard on that won't go away (or let me sleep) until I go masturbate so I don't upset her by waking her up.

    I just make sure that I keep reality in my thoughts during the day. I have to do my work and keep my mind off of it when not at home.. I think I'd get a little less sex from her if we were homeless from me losing my job over something stupid. Or if your wife doesn't know about your "benefits" I imagine you'd be getting way less from her if she found that out..

    By all means, have fun, but use your mind a little and don't let it rule your life.
     
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  3. EricCaesar

    EricCaesar Porno Junky

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    A great thing you may be able to do to help avoid the constant thought of sex, not escape, just avoid, is find a hobby that can take an hour out of your day.
    Doesn't matter what it is.
    And that's about all I got for ya'.
    And SAA is for quitters, lol.
     
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  4. tequillamanf

    tequillamanf Porn Surfer

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    I agree with you deepinside, it hasnt affected my daily life. the profession i am in allows for plenty of down time, that is where I get into trouble. As for the friends with benefits, she is aware of them and is ok with them knowing how I am. I am just concerned that this obsession doesnt become worse
     
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  5. tequillamanf

    tequillamanf Porn Surfer

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    I do attempt to avoid, but its all around me. and even when its not, i will find a way. I was fortunate to be born with the gift of gab, and you would be surprised how far you can get with that. As for hobbies, I have them. much more than an hour a day, but i still manage.Im just worrried that it doesnt become worse
     
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  6. prtndr

    prtndr Porn Star

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    Sex addiction is possible, and can be very damaging. If you feel your needs for sex are beyond your control, you may want to look into Sexaholics Anonymous (SA) or Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA). If you live in anything larger than a small town, there's probably a group near you. They are extremely discreet and use a 12-step program similar to Alcoholics Anonymous to help you get things under control. Unlike AA, they do not expect that you will give up sex forever - their intent is to get your behavior back under your control. Your doctor or any therapist should be able to put you in touch with a group. PM me if you want to discuss further.
     
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  7. billyinse

    billyinse Sex Lover

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    i watched a documentary on sexaholics and there was a guy literaly if he couldnt find a woman hed find a guy and he was straight hed screw a bum or a drug addict and he was fuckin like 13 times a day just random people not saying yall dont have a problem but if you can still fuck and function i think your fine now when you do stuff like that guy does you have a problem
     
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