I'm a big fan of things in my butt. When I had sex first time I had butt sex for about 6 months before actually having vaginal sex.

• Myth: Butt sex is painful- Butt sex can be painful, if you're not careful and communicating closely with your partner. In short NO, BUTT SEX SHOULD NOT HURT. EVER. Everyone got that? If it hurts, it means something is wrong and you should stop, figure out what's wrong, and keep going only if both partners are still up for it and ready. This is why you should never use a numbing agent. You could not realize you're hurting until you've done serious damage.
• Fact: Butt sex is intense- Girls, think about this logically for a second. Your vagina is designed to pop out a baby. A fucking baby. If it were that sensitive, or you could feel the skin stretching around a penis, it would be so painful, women wouldn't be able to handle child birth. Now think how sensitive your butt is.Exactly, you can feel everything during butt sex in a way that makes vaginal sex seem completely numb. That's exactly why being careful and lots of communication are especially important during butt sex.
• Myth: Spit is enough lube for butt sex- I call bullshit on this. I have friends who swear by spit, but frankly, I've never had anything but intense pain the few times I've tried it. Use a good, thick lube that doesn't dry up. I suggest silicone based for butt sex, but any one that you like is fine.
• Myth: Butt sex is naughty- ok, I'll give you that yes, to some people butt sex is naughty, but that stigma has been fading fast for years. Tons of people put things in their butt, it's just that no one talks about it. It's not that shocking or taboo anymore (unless of course that is what gets you off about it, then sure sweetie,you go be your naughty naught self). I mean they sell lube at Wal-Mart for god's sake, and that place won't sell music that mentions butt sex, so really, it's not that big of a deal anymore.
• Myth: Butt sex is rough and impersonal- again, I'll give you that this is sometimes true. But then again, it's true about any kind of sex you can have. It's not the type of sex you're having that determines the tone, it's your mood. Butt sex can be just as intimate and loving as vaginal sex, if you want to it to be. Your interaction with your partner, and your position will determine what style of sex you're going to have (rough, romantic, sensual, etc...) not what orifice you're having it in.
• Myth: If a guy's into butt sex, it means he's gay- yes, gay men have butt sex, but lesbians have oral sex, does that mean every girl who likes to be eaten out is really harboring lesbian tendencies? That's all I have to say about that.
• Fact: You have to be more careful during butt sex- You're vagina is designed to pop out a baby with minimal damage, you're butt isn't. Anything sharp, gritty, toodry, or rough can rip the lining of your anal cavity. This requires you to be more careful and communicate with your partner so you know if you have to stop, slowdown, or add more lube.
• Myth: Butt sex is all about scat play- You poop out of your butt, we all know this, but no, butt sex is not scat play. If you eat a decent diet with a good amount of fiber, and don't do it if you're not feeling well or have to poop, you shouldn't have a problem. If you do, it's a slight amount that's easily wiped off with some baby wipes or paper towels. Yes accidents happen, but most butt play, if you listen to your body, goes off without a problem.
• I think that's about it. If anyone has any more questions before the butt sex how to at jtndr.kaur@yahoo.co.in or leave a PM here.
• So it's something to think about, and give a try if you've been leery of it before.That's all I've got for tonight kiddies.
• If you're unsatisfied, give direction!

 

well, you'rre right that butt sex shouldn't hurt. But sometimes it can hurt so gooood.

 

i love pounding girls anus,,,it is so beautiful

 

I loved how you never said anal, but said butt sex 500 times in that paragraph.

 

thanks:rose:
it was deliberate i dont like the sound of 'anal'

 

So these are not questions, but basically a fact sheet. Belongs in GD. Unfortunately for you

 

no fact sheet these are my opinions

 

Spit can work just fine for butt sex. You just have to keep applying more, but than can be fun. Nothing hotter than spitting on a spread open, exposed ass hole.

 

My submissive girlfriend has always been hesitant of butt sex (just for you .) But she's starting to go crazy, in a good way, from the gradual push beyond boundaries.

 

i wish my gf would do butt sex.. sigh