My boyfriend has never really came during sex the whole time we've been together for 4 years. He does every once in a while but not every time. He has to give himself "a hand" to cum usually, whether i'm giving him head or fucking him. I don't feel like it's something I'm not doing right because it's always been this way. He has been cumming a lot more lately than in the past but still not every time.

Any other guys like this?

 

yeh, it has happend to me before, it generally is just down to a guys stamina, its nothing to do with you but it jus means they take bit longer to cum. It sucks on males part obv because they dont get a release but hey a girl cant complain, least it lasts to long instead fo not enough lol

 

It will be because he has got used to cumming with his own hand and how that feels. He will have been gripping tight and your pussy or mouth isn't as tight as his hand.

Can't you use your hand to finish him off? Or talk really dirty to him to try and excite him. How about trying anal... something more taboo might make him more excited.

 

I've tried with my own hand. He's not into taboo. We've done anal and he's not into it. Said my pussy is just as tight. I'm sure it is because he's used to doing it that way.

 

Find what he is really into and go for that. Talk to him and tell him you want to please and will be willing to do anything.

 

If he is on SSRI anti depressants, they will have that effect.

 

No, nothing like that. I mean he cums sometimes, we have a baby soo...lol.

He can just go for hours and hours and then be satisfied without even cumming. I guess I shouldn't worry about it since he's satisfied. I love cum though, especially inside my wet pussy after making love.

 

What is he a porn start

that he has to give himself a hand job to get off no matter how good the pussy or the blow job is - he must like the feel of his own hand around his cock - believe me i would cumm for you anytime whether my cock is in your mouth or inside you pussy - do not believe try me

 

There are times where i don't come for quite awhile. My girlfriend just gets worn out and we need to take a break. It sucks sometimes but its not a big deal to me

 

I'm the same way. It usually takes a whole lot for me to cum. In very rare circumstances, I'll cum really quick. That's usually when it's been more than a week since we were together last and we do it doggie to start (for some reason I'm more likely to cum doing it doggie than any other way).

Usually though, it can take me quite a bit. The more foreplay (blow job, hand job, etc), the quicker I'll cum from sex itself. If foreplay is really short or basically non-existent, I'll last much, much longer.

 

That sounds just like him. On rare occasions he can cum really quickly usually doggie. Foreplay usually doesn't matter though.

 

maybe you just need to be rougher during the foreplay? my gf usually does it to lightly

 

when its quick is he watching porn or has looked it up. Some times if i dont come watching porn with her help before we start

 

No it's quick when he hasn't had any in a long time.
I could see porn helping though.

 

yeah i think its a great stimulant just watching with her. also some time she sees something and say "that could be fun lets try"

 

can i borrow him

 

I'm sure he would so like that lol

 

He doesnt cum when you blow him, give him a handjob, or fuck him. but some times he does when its doggy style.
Um
Yeah
He's gay
Or your butt ugly.

 

I have the same problem. I've been with my girlfriend for a few years and part of it her rythem can sometimes throw me off (im a drummer) so sometimes that gets annoying haha. but I have found that if she is on top and just kinda lets me do my thing that i will end up coming. maybe give that a try?

 

I would say maybe just find ways to excite him more. Try new things like roleplay and really build up to the sex like throughout the day tease him and make him horny. Just things to try. Good luck.