why is everyone or the majority being such a dick to the guy if they both truely love each other and he wants to wait then what is wrong with that, they both sound sensible enough and there is a lot of trust between them and both families, i dont see a problem at the end of the day why should 5 years get in the way of love let them be.. if it was a 25 year old and a 20 year old no one would care but at the end of the day we are all young at some point.

rant over haha

 

You shouldn't have an ugly cock as an av. You'll never get anyone to cyber with you.

 

At least in my country is NOT delit to have sex with her. Any way, I would wait, 13 is very few. I am 18, my brother has 13 and I don't imagine me having sex with a friend of her.

 

who said i wanted to cyber with anyone? i am not trying to offend anyone its just my opionion at the end of the day

 

Damn you guys are just what the fuck. I swear, most of you can go around and yell NIGGER NIGGER NIGGER until Hell freezes over and it doesn't matter worth a fuck. He's not fucking the girl, let it be you fucking idiots. I know this girl, she's 14 and she's dating this guy... needless to say, IN THE FUCKING MILITARY, and he's like fucking 20 or 21 something like that. If they're not fucking that's fine. Right? Right. To the people who say the younger = more immature, older = more mature. That's just a generalization. My girlfriend is 6 years younger than me and I can fully say that I am so much more immature than her.

At any rate, to the OP; keep it legal. And don't be a shithead going to Mexico or wherever just so you can fuck her.

 

I wasn't commenting on your opinion. Read my post again and you'll see I was commenting on your ugly cock.

 

Because he expressed his opinion, which was different to yours. Grow up.

 

My parents are four years apart in age. When you get older, the age gap does not seem as bad. I would suggest waiting until she is older for sex, or even for a romantic relationship. At that point, she would know what she really wants and be mature enough to make those kinds of decisions.

 

Don't take the chance to screw up your life. Although the age difference doesn't seem like that much, she is underage and you will go to jail. I had a very cute 13 yr old after me way back when I was 19. I RAN the other way. Too many 19 yr olds to hook up with.

 

That's kinda irrelevant, nothing wrong with 13 years, but it's a bit different when they're 13 and 18...

That's wrong.
I don't know if you can get done for breaking your countries laws in another country, although I really doubt it (although if you took a 13yr old to mexico and had sex with her you'd probably get done for kidnap and some other shit) but if you're in a country, their laws apply to you.


@ OP: I'm totally of the opinion that people are not defined by their age, but I find it hard to conceive how someone of the age of 13 could truly be mature enough for your relationship to be appropriate. I doubt it is good for either of you.

 

im sorry but that was fkn funny ...............op its illegal !!!!and iv been to prison i watched a 19yo who was screwing 2 13 year olds get throw down a flight of stairs and then hit with chairs till he quit fighting back you wouldnt do too well with that im sure be friends till shes 18 but nothing more

 

WoW

Allot of hatin goin on round here

 

Looks like your another pedophile eh. It's not hatin if you do something about it =D If some one touched my little sisters like he wants to, I would kill them. Literally.

 

I call BS on this whole story.

 

How? This is not uncommon, just illegal and wrong.

 

jaman10
We don't have physical activities!..is kissing a minor illegal?

+ No, if it were, all parents of everybody would be thrown in jail simultaneously.

Rawr89
Not a fan of the idea. You says she mature for her age. I dont think shes mature enough without learning the life lessons that come with age.

+ Maturity comes with existance (aka experience). Nothing else will make a human grow, in mind or in body.

insanity6is1a6virtue
Sure, I wanted to have sex, but NEVER would I have been ready for it at that point. Never would it have been ok to date someone who was of legal age. And it isn't ok, in ANY situation. You're taking advantage of someone who doesn't KNOW what she wants. And that makes you a predator.

+ No, it may not have been OK for YOU. Stop reliving your regrets through others. I can "see" you projecting it. This is not a "predator". Love is not a hunter. The situation described does not warrant this "label" whatsoever.

That was a different time, and it was acceptable. It isn't, now, because we know more about human development.

+ Obviously, you do not, however.

x__orion
So much fail here.

+ Agreed. Too many "know it alls" who speak only from their regrets and misinformation and not from experience nor study.

My fiancée's mother was dating a 19 year old guy when she was 13. She's just fine. If she wants to be with you, then fine. Be with her. I wouldn't have sex, though; it puts you in a lot of risk. Don't do it. But by all means be her boyfriend.

+ Well put. Finally a shining example of humanity without having to regret, or be denied.

footlovva1.
Yes kissing a minor is illegal

+ No, it's not.

2. Your a pedophile

+ Ok, so an 8 year old who likes a 6 year old is a pedo too I suppose?
Douche.

4. If you get arrested for this, you will be killed in prison, child molesters are not welcome even with violent criminals.

+ And you would know. Since you're such an expert on that and all, I'll assume you are one - as you do everybody else. So why are you still alive?

6. Are you really that stupid to ask?

+ Only thing I can agree with you about. How stupid does anybody have to be to come to a forum seeking (mostly - 85%) idiots opinions (not answers most of the time) to learn what to do with YOUR OWN life?

7. How the fuck are you only a junior when you are 18 or 19 which ever one your telling the truth about? That would make you retarded seeing that people graduate at 18

+ Homeschooling, different country, different standards, etc.
Fucking wise up.

9. Keep it in your pants

+ Why cockblock everybody else just because you pity yourself because you feel you have to lock yours away?

10. I bet your not really 18

+ Doesn't matter.

 

Generalisation and misinformation, much?...

Oh, yeh...wise arse, it's you're or you are...

ReallY? And, at what exact point between being 13 and 15, does it become "isn't THAT bad"? Also, to say they sleep with teddy bears and watch Disney shows is wide of the mark...

In my opinion, unless we know the couple involved, we are not in the position to judge, merely give what advice we can give...

 

my bullshit detector went off...I think you more then just 18



Its illegal

 

You know how I feel on the subject, I feel it's wrong. But even without my opinion in the mix, it is illegal. Pure and simple it is illegal. If he gets caught, he goes on a list, and he gets put in jail. For the person who said kissing isnt illegal. Look it up buddy, my uncle is a Police officer, It IS illegal, I repeat IT IS ILLEGAL. It is considered a sexual act with a minor.

 

well i used to have a freind who liked to go out and have sex and or date 13 year olds key word being used. he did it for awhile then word got around town that he was a dick and kast i heard of him he has no freinds and none of the girls in town wont have anything to do with him. Im not syaing thats what your gonna do just dont have sex with her i mean if i was you i wouldnt have started dating her just watch your step with this one cause this situation can get you arrested and have your rep destroyed amongst girls your own age