You're disgusting. I hope she cottons on and kicks your sick ass into the middle of next week

 

I didn't have time to read everyone's response to this question, so maybe someone already said this. I have been told that guys who masturbate a lot have a problem with oral. This is what I have been told, not my experience. I have had guys take a while getting off and I usually start alternating between hand and mouth. I also get into a 69 position and won't let him touch me, this usually does the trick (the whole tease thing working on his brain ) I hope this helps!!

Love Megan

 

Damn Kimi, there you go being smarter then the rest of us. (love ya)

 

Your husband is my hero.

 

didnt read all these but you might try massaging his postate had a bf in high school who could only cum with a bj while doing that

 

Whenever you take your break from giving him head. Continue to jack him off while you take your break so he stays aroused.

 

No, I think the masturbation is just for the sake of the cum shot. It wasn't always that way in porn. The man came inside. Then somebody decided that when it came right down to it, that a guy could be faking an orgasm just like the woman could. At first he would just pull out in the nick of time and cum on her back, ass or tummy. Once they moved to him cumming on her tits or face (oy!) he had to continue to stimulate himself to "make the trip".

I'm old enough to have seen old porn, back when nobody shaved their pubes.

BTW, maybe I've just been lucky. but none of my boyfriends has had any problems cumming. If he wanted to cum in my mouth it meant sucking a longer time for me or he would want me to stop so he could get inside of me where he would pride himself on how long he would last. But certainly no difficulty getting there.

 

I have a hard time cummimg from a BJ. In 21 yrs of marriage my wife has only got me to cum twice from a BJ. Same as previous girlfriends usually only once in any relationship. Don't know if it's from circumcision or masturbating to much. But it's always fun trying. Have no problem orgasming any other way. I always thought it was just me. Atleast I see I'm not the only one with this condition. Not that I'm worried about it.

 

I've had some VERY good BJs in my life. But the only way I've EVER managed to cum from one is with some intense fantasizing and actually TRYING to make myself cum from it. Not all guys cum from blowjobs. I'm one that has a hard time doing it.

 

I know how it feels when they don't cum, you automatically think it's you!
But you have to remember everyone is different. One of my lovers can't cum if he's had more than 2 shots. And I know that it's physically impossible for me to bob my head as fast as he jerks off, so we just play for hours and hours and I don't let it bother me. Like people up there were saying, it still feels amazing to him even if he doesn't cum. Hopefully he'll make it up to you with great morning sex.

I know when I masturbate, my fingers have to be in the right spot, and I have to rub in the exact rhythm to get off. Some guys are the same way, I am sure.

 

Gay lol Not all men cum in 10 min. I am bi and love sex with both. It takes me a very long time to cum. I stopped j/o due to the fact that it takes me so long to cum. The biggest compliant from my X-wife was I could fuck her for an hour and not be close to cumming. Same with a man. I could lay there while a gay guy sucks my cock for an hour and I don't cum. Also thr older I get the longer it takes.

 

Prescription drugs can cause delayed orgasm too. Paticularly problematic are SSRI anti-depressants. They delay orgasm so much that some women are unable to cum even through masturbation. However, because of the side effect of delayed orgasm, they are often used to treat premature ejaculation.

High blood pressure medication can interfere with ejaculation also.

 

It takes a while for me to cum. when it comes right down to it, my erm.... head (no pun intended) has to be in the right place. I really got to be into it, otherwise I can hold off indefinitely. One thing that really helps is the visual and hearing that she wants me to cum, or wants my cum. That helps to stimulate my brain into giving her what she wants.

I have had bad oral, and great oral, and in each instance, my brain needed to be concentrating on what was happening.

If my partner doesn't seem too interested in doing it, then I will have a hard time performing my end of the deal. You can talk while using your hands anyway, just like a guy can use a toy or his fingers to talk while giving oral to you.


maybe all you need to do is dress in a mistress outfit, carry a whip and invite a couple of girlfriends over wearing schoolgirl costumes with pink furry handcuffs on and all talk dirty! lol! =)) >kidding on that one<

 

As many have said. It's not you it's him. I have only cum from a b/j without jerking involved twice in my life. My wife used to get upset over this as well. We found a solution. I'm orally fixated. So 69 or any other position that will allow me to have a body part of hers in my mouth will usually do the trick. Other things that work for me as well is her playing with my ass or the perineum. you said you weren't ready for rimming but using a finger to massage this area works very well as well.

 

Communication is the key only he can tell you what it is for him.

I know everyone is different but being a successful sex professional for 16 years I can say with confidence most men go crazy when you run your finger up and down on the skin between his balls and asshole. Even the gay a phobic ones loves this.Try it and see what happens.

 

Have u tried using other parts of your body on his cock like ur breasts or like others have said tempt him before u blow him and run ur tongue down his body

 

Obviously another solution is to get another woman for help. That might work.
http://livetube.com/videos/watch.php?v=g9aiSYq2d16

 

blow job

good b-j and ur set... usually

 

My girlfriend did the exact same thing with the 69 position, first she rode me then stopped before I came and when I made this confused face she says I can do so well, she just turned around and started to suck the tip of my cock. Though eventually, even when she said I shouldn't, I still had to start licking her in a short while after she started with me, and the moaning she made really helped me coming. I must admit it helps a lot if the girl uses both hand and mouth, with hand I come pretty easy if the pace is fast (which I guess just supports the masturbating theory). But yeah, for myself I can confirm that this kind of teasing really works (at least on my brain d; ).

 

hope these wonderful tips help for someone, as of right now him and i haven't been together in 5 months, he is back with his ex-gf though she claims they never broke up, when they count how long they have been together which is sorta funny to me and very lame.

as for me and men im taking time off from them in general right now, dont want the drama it comes with and just actually focusing on friendships with both sexes - weird that i posted that on a sex forum so be it but thats what i am doing with my sexuality right now.