Maybe I should make my question a little clearer. You barely met this girl, why are talking about love?!?

 

Atleast you are manning up and going to try and do right.

We all wonder what it would be like to be with tiffany fallon alright, but we still go home to our wife or girlfriend and love them for who they are and don't judge them for who they aren't.

Redemption is good my friend.

I wonder which exact pearl of wisdom changed your heart?

 

bbw

My wife is a bbw and i love her more every day. Yes at frist i met her it was for the sex only. But after being with her for some time i realized she was a very special person. And i would not find any one that could love any more than she does. Do i see other gals i like to have sex with yes, what man dosent? But there not better looking than my wife. So my advice is to think with your hart not what your fantisy ideas are. Dose it feel good to you to hold her in your arms, do you think of nice things to do that would make her smile because you love to see her smile? Dont worry what other think or say enjoy the fact you have fond some one special. Go for it buddy and enjoy being in love with a special some one.
P.S. Isnt the sex great with her, when she is more concerned with making you happy, not on how you can just satisfy her, like lots of gal think.

 

bbw pussy is definitely every bit as hot to fuck as otherwise. I love a woman with some meat on her!

 

The answer to this question is simple. You like her, She likes you. You date. So what she is a little chubby who gives a crap It just means there is more to love. Weight can also be lost, maybe its a case of she needs something to drive her to loose it or someone to help her loose it. I know when I was a bit fatter there was this girl I liked out their and I wanted to go out with her and although it was the wrong reason it got the job done. Im still a little overweight but not hugely so its not a problem. Just focus on the here and now though. What the future will hold with this young lady you will never know. My fave saying is 'Noodles, Don't Noodles, Quit, Don't Quit what does it matter. The past is behind you the future is a mystery but today is a gift, thats why it is called the present' It may be from a kids film but damn that old turtle talks some sense.

 

Dont mind the negative comments. As humans we like what we like. I have been in this situation a few times. For example, I've known this girl for 3 years we been having sex on and off since I met her. Most of the time I just want head but she's happy to do it cuz she's in love with me but, she knows that we wont be together because shes too big for my taste. She's fun, beautiful face, drama free, freaky, loyal, etc etc, but, she knows that i'll cheat on her with smaller girls.

At first it bothered her and she tried to lose wieght to be with me but, I always kept it real with her. I never lead her on and and sfter a while she didn't care. She said she was going to be big and she wasn't changing for anyone. She knows that we are just really good friends and we hook up when im lonely. As she's gotten older it doesn't bother her at all now. She said that she doesn't want me to be with her because she feels I would be settling and she doesnt want to be hurt.

What im getting to is just be honest and treat her as a friend with benefits and time will take care of the rest. If not, then go your seperate ways. Better than being with somebody that you know your not physically attracted too. If people tell you that your shollow or a jerk then so the hell what! Im sure they wont be serious with someone they werent attracted too and if they do then their idiots. Thats just like knowing that you need 4 new wheels and only buying 3 on purpose and saying well we will just see what happends. YOUR CAR IS GOING TO HAVE A BLOW OUT AND YOU"LL BE STUCk ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD WISHING YOU GOT THAT 4TH TIRE GET IT. At the end of the day their not apart of your relationship.

If you didn't get it then think of it this way, If a Bentley is your dream car and you feel that you can get that Bentley. Why settle for a 300C with a Bentley grille? Sure you'll fell good in it and be happy until you see a real Bentley pull up next to you. Physical attraction is just as important as personality and intellectual attraction.


ON THE FLIP SIDE..... if were talkin like 10 pounds and she's still kinda put together well then go for it. Fuck her 10 times a day for 10 weeks, that should do it

 

hmmm I say grow a pair and decide what you want, If it was just for fun the you wouldn't be feeling so guilty, and maybe you should try something new with the girl, I mean the other smaller girls didn't seem to work out. Plus I mean I would much rather be with someone who wasn't model pretty and get off everytime VS. a pretty boy who was bad in bed..

 

dude u cud do alot worse for example u cud have nothing u ahve a girl whos crazy about u shes big so what thats her be happy with her

 

You can not settle. By accepting a relationship with a girl that size you enforce the idea that it is OK to be fat. It is NOT.

Yes people should be open-minded, but only when it comes to short-commings outside your realm of power (like being black, or short, or gay, or jewish). Being fat is a CHOICE, you accepting that are showing her that there is no real reason for her to be healthy as she can always be in a relationship. There are absolutely no consequences to her poor decissions.

Fat people need loving too, but from other fat people. Don't think with your dick.

 

There's so much right with this post... and yet so much wrong with it.

It's blowing my mind.

 

Not your usual position Orion. Your usually all about what's between the ears.

There is a contradiction in having such intense sex while not apparently being turned on.

Sounds like a bit more than a good shag to me.

To the OP, you have to decide how important the good sex is. There's alot of useless thin girls out there. This girl sounds like she is worth a try. All looks will fade with time.

Thinskin

 

Why do you sign your screenname to every post?

 

Why do you think?

Thinskin

 

well for all that hate me so be it
i supprised her and drove to her town,,,hour and half
to meet her at work and went to her house and met her parents
then gook her out to dinner and had sex in my xterra looking at the stars
could have got a room but have done that before
so this was more fun in a way

i keep telling her not to rush me and just have some fun
but inside i know she is hoping for more

so i guess i will see what happpes
she is on a diet and has lost 20lbs over the holidays in dec

will keep you posted for those that care or are interested

 

I think that your attitude concerning her apearence etc is disgusting, if you didn't find her attractive then there's nothign wrong with that, but you went way passed that stage and basicaly used her to satisfy your lust.
I really hope you learn your lesson from this and i feel so sorry for her, i sometimes lose hope for my gender, honestly i do.

 

So you met a chunky gal that is in to you. You,re unsure not really because of her size but your own self sabotoage that way you don't get too close due to your past and your family past. Reality is this girl is in to you like it or not I say ride the storm out. You both are having a good time I mean I hooked up with a heavy set girl for a one night stand and we been together 13 years. Just relax and go for it.

 

It is still 'using' - with such bad connotations - if it's spelled out at the start that it's just for fun?

 

No because then it's fair, she accepts the terms and conditions so to speak and can make up her own mind based on kniowing where she stands, this is just a pathetic thing to do in every sence of the word.

 

and to repeat:

 

Have to remember that last comment, so true.