When a lover chips away at the walls of self-protection that you surround yourself with. The ones that are carefully placed there to protect your emotional venerability, your heart as it were.
What do you do when he becomes the first thing that you think of when you wake up and the last thing that you think of when drifting off to sleep?
What do you do with the startling realisation that maybe, just maybe, there's more than just a sexual longing and need.
Do you cut your losses and run?
Or do you stay and see where the path will take you?
What do you do when a lover gets under your skin?

 

I turned round and embraced that love and showed her how much she meant to me aswell before this she told me she thinks she loves me and I said to her I didn't want to say until I was sure. Then a few weeks later I embraced that love she gave me add gave it to her back that was one of the best moments we have had her face just lit up with happiness and so did mine. I see that face regularly but you never forget the first time do you.

 

I don't let it happen. No one controls me.

 

Good on you 2 inch I had a post and wasn't going too all I can say to you is run run as fast as you can and get back what he has taken from you otherwise you will lose your individuality and he will wear you down to where you have no self esteem no self worth and probably beat you in the long run stop kidding yourself run.

 

For goodness sake what is wrong with you people (although I suppose I shouldn't be surprised to see such cynicism on a porn forum) Stay and see where it takes you sweetie!

 

I guess you don't understand the post no wonder you came in hit and left goodnight enjoy your sleep.

 

I'm not asleep sweetie.............. and what makes you think I didn't understand? Or were you talking to someone else?

 

sounds like a song I wrote

 

I say embrace it. This life is too short to pass up on true love.

 

Embrace love at every oppurtunity.

Why put up all those walls to start with? What are people afraid of? Face the world head on.

 

Trust me we've all had lovers nuts and you could take the thread two ways.
I guess If I fell asleep thinking about the same person and then woke up thinking about the same person I'd say young love and good on them enjoy.But when this is said :When a lover chips away at the walls of self-protection that you surround yourself with. The ones that are carefully placed there to protect your emotional venerability, your heart as it were.Get's me a little concerned,I'm sure in my quotation.

 

Loneliness is a locked up heart away.

 

Normally I don't presume to offer advice on these forums. (I can barely direct my own life, much less someone else's) That said, I would like to make an exception this time. People often shy away from that connection...the one that you can't seem to break..the one that is the reason to get out of bed in the morning, and the reason you're so damn tired at night, due to the fear of heartbreak. Heartbreak is not terminal, it will not kill you. People do not die of broken hearts. Again, neither do they die of loneliness. My point is this, do you pass up on what could be the love of a lifetime, or even the love of the month, out of fear? To me that is the ultimate loss of control.

 

Enjoy them as many times as you can in as many ways as you can!!!

 

Well considering that somebody who is a potential partner should be a person that you can be yourself around rather than a person who keeps smoke and mirrors around them and only presents some alter ego for others, you should think about investing more into that relationship. Either that or lighten your emotional burdens and stop giving a fuck about half of the dumb shit on your mind so you can be that way with anybody.