i guess so and that is an insult to me, but if no lip kissing he isnt getting anything from me

 

My god, what an insult. I think it is safe to say she is a regular contributor with much good advice and many good questions.

I can't believe you male friend would tell you you could do anything to him, but don't kiss his lips! I had a hooker tell me she didn't kiss lips!

You were smart - watch the movie, then leave, later ask about the kissing on the lips and if the explanation doesn't sound right, maybe he isn't even worth being a friend.

 

You know, King - if I were a girl I wouldn't want to kiss your lips! I might be inclined to suck out that ounce of brain I think you have!

 

If i'm understanding king nothing then I agree completely and I think some people misunderstood him. It's not an insult, it's just saying that the op is behind a computer screen and we have no clue what she looks like, could be fat and ugly or even a dude, guys still get hard knowing the possibilities are dismal.

 

Even fat & ugly people need loving I could be considered both of
these

 

Men have needs and strong urges and they need a good woman to take care of their needs.

 

Thanks Jake.

 

BIkinky. . .remember that men are utilitarian. . . .meaning we were put on this earth to do one thing! I know if I haven't had an orgasm for days or a week I can walk the wrong way (or maybe the right way!) and get the strongest throbbing erection. . . .I couldnt imagine the situation if someone was rubbing my chest and belly-I would want you to wear safety glasses baby!!

 

yes

yes

 

mmmm

mdesk a man should never suffer like that, you poor thing.

 

Listen, unless this guy is your typical gay platonic friend, you rubbing on his body, under his shirt is going to cause a reaction. Especially since you guys have been romantic in the past. You're laying on his chest rubbing his stomach. He'e looking down at you, no clue what is going on in the movie, and gets excited. Then you are eye to eye with his member. If you repeat the scenario again, you will likely get the same results.

It seems you like his companionship, but not much else. Was he not compatible with you sexually? Were you turned on by him rubbing your stomach?

 

Or maybe when he said you could do anything to him, he wasn't thinking about anything sexual. Maybe to him, "anything" meant more cuddling, massaging his shoulders, maybe a back rub, and that's it. If that's the case, when he said he didn't want you to kiss him on the lips, he was just saying he wants to keep things status quo, not take your relationship to the next level.

Are you sure you heard him right? It's a well-established fact that men and women very often misunderstand each other. It's as if when a man says something to a woman or a woman says something to a man, the true meaning of the statement undergoes a translation along the way.

Did he actually say, "you can do anything to me" or did he say something like "go ahead and do whatever you want"? The first one is more an invitation; the second just means that he trusts you not to cross the line.

I can't think of any reason why a man would allow you to really do "anything" to him except kiss him on the lips.

 

Really? I'd be super wet from that and I'm a girl. I think people's bodies just respond even if they're not inlove or like someone. It's just... intstict. Guys are mostly like that I would get turned on from that, but then again I wouldn't be in that position with somone I wasn't in love with. SO .... just guys haha

 

Even when the wind blows.

 

You're nearly as irritating as the op.

Of course a man will get aroused if you stroke his chest. Men have the same nerve endings and pleasure zones in their chest as women do. The only difference between the male and female anatomy in terms of sexual arousal and erogenous zones is the genitals and the fact that women (although not exclusively) have breasts.

 

KinkyGirl, what you are describing is called foreplay. It doesn't take a ton to get us ready to roll and you indicate that you've been intimate in the past. So he's had you before and you are giving him the steal sign but you don't understand why he's turned on.

Cuddling and rubbing my chest is a good way to get Little SD up and ready to go.

 

I dunno about a lot of guys but for me Kissing on the lips tends to be a good sign of a relationship. I personally if I was in his situation would also say don't kiss my lips because of that, but thats because if my intentions weren't for a relationship or weren't to get hurt again or hurt you again proverbially speaking then thats why I would say it. Maybe he knew that would stop the encounter all together.

He might have said you can do anything to me and not meant it or he just said it and didn't think and so to alleviate the situation he picked something that he knew you would dislike or would stop you in your tracks. Funnily enough some guys can actually pick up certain habits a woman has or certain things that are a no no for them.

For example I know with one of my work chums without even speaking to her sexually that Anal is not something she would ever do. How I hear you cry, just small little signifiers in the use of her language and the interests she has. Of course not 100% accurate but I feel its a good basis.

 

I got a semi just reading that. I'd be baffled by anyone who didn't get turned on.

 

I do like his companionship a lot he hurt me in the past and doesnt have a good record with treating his girlfriends right... Yes I was turned on by him but at the same time last night all I wanted was cuddling and kissing, nothing more

 

you can do anything to me but kiss my lips you can kiss me anywhere but there.