In bed with a woman I am dominant. I like to lick pussy and need to see you look up at me while my cock is in your mouth. I need to fuck you doggy style for a while, then missionary, then upside down and sideways.

Then I get together with my gay friend and I'm opening my legs like a bitch in heat. There is something totally fullfilling about laying on my back, legs aprart, cock just hanging like a clit on a bitch, while my hole is entered and fucked.

 

im more sub where deron is more dom but we both are switchers. i love being his slave and he loves being mine but naturally im sub and he is dom
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I often get bored easily, I think right now I'm more into being submissive because the guys I've been with liked to be dominated a lot. I like to switch it up though, it's fun to have a bit of competition for the dominant position at the beginning.

 

Hii am new to this forum..am from india..i am really submissive n wanna be dominated by a dominant ladyy!!

 

Total sub here. Not BDSM... I consider the two completely separate from each other.

I like to be owned, controlled. Everything from delayed gratification to just being told exactly what is expected of me and doing it. I'm much more of a mental submissive. I need a Dom who controls with his mind, not his whip...so to speak.

If you want to punish me for doing wrong, don't talk to me, don't fuck me, don't let me kneel at your feet... Neglect and apathy sting far more than a whip or crop or paddle ever could. And they cut far deeper too.

 

im domanant in my relationship but i wish to be submissive im geten ready to turn her loose on me ive been getting really horny thinking about it

 

I'm definitely more submissive than dominant.

I'm not into a lot of pain, although I do enjoy a good spanking!

It's more the verbal stuff - I love being told what to do and made to beg for what I want.

 

i,m a sub enjoy to be humiliated in privacy of four walls and i am open to any order

 

Submissive

totally submissive to both Women and Men

 

Outside of the bedroom I am dominate I guess you would say. I am the person making the plans, getting groups together, the leader. I am never the follower and am always telling people what to do at school / work. I believe I am a very strong, independent woman and do not need a man to help me in anything.

When it comes to the bed room I am very different. I enjoy pleasing the man / woman. I find it an honor to be able to allow the person I am with complete control over me and to enjoy their personal pleasure. I do not do several things: no rape, shit or choking. I would pretty much be game for most things at least once if I feel comfortable with that person.

 

I'm EXTREMELY submissive. My guy loves making me his 'slave'. I always do whatever it is he asks and I get sooo turned on doing those things. I love the humiliation and being forced, pain isn't bad either . My guy always makes sure I know he's in charge, and he can be relentless. He knows what he's doing and I trust him, so I'm more than okay with it. I make it fun by resisting and fighting back, but I've never been the dominant one. I love submission....

 

I'm a switch, it depends who I'm with and on my mood. Sometimes I like to be a sub but I have more of a "dom-ish" personality. But I guess in the bedroom everythings a role play

 

like Efstratios, I'm switch.

Just depends on my mood and the person I'm with. If the person is comfortable Topping , I'm all for bending over and giving them everything I have. If they are hung or have massive toys then even better. If not... well I have some for them to use.

Not that I'm a "size 'queen'" or anything, but I do love large toys. Go big or go home....

 

my ex fiance was very dominant. and I learned real quick that she got her way, especially when I was drunk. she was very good at using her fingers and her toys.

 

The career I have means that I have to be extremely assertive and very vocal, and in the past that meant that I tended to attract submissive men who assumed that was how I was in bed too. In response I was Domme for a while and I quite enjoyed it.

A couple of years ago I met a very dominant man who introduced me to the sub role and I loved it. All my experience since then has been as sub. I consider myself currently to be sexually submissive, although I'm certainly not submissive anywhere else. Maybe at some future point I'll want to explore my Domme side further, but I doubt it.

I'm such a controlling person that to give up control is a real head-rush for me. I'm not a pain-slut, mental domination will always impact me more than the purely physical. For me the rush comes in allowing myself to be vulnerable, and I've been lucky enough to find Doms who understand that and whose brand of domination tallies with my brand of submissiveness.

 

funny you should say that - I recently linked up with a girl who wanted to be controlled rather than dominated as such. A subtle difference. She wanted me to control the whole scenario but without the pain/humiliation aspect. We both loved it.

 

Some of the hottest sessions I can remember were around control, particularly me ceding control in areas where I normally grip it tightly (for example being instructed to masturbate at work while the Dom phoned and told me exactly how I was to touch myself and when I was permitted to orgasm).
I will take pain as a method of control or humiliation, or as a consequence of disobedience, but it's never going to be something I actively seek.
Humiliation is slightly different as I enjoy it for its own sake. I think my most successful sessions to date have been those that combine strong control with some humiliation.

 

I'm not sure to what level I would want to take it.....but I'd consider exploring with the right person.

 

very rarely will i enjoy being a sub, only the right mistriss can make me do this, on another note, i noticed there is a very small percent of mistrisses or female doms