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  1. jennifer713

    jennifer713 Sex Lover

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    This is not that common of a problem, have not meet anybody with this problem but would really help me to discuss this problem with others and how they deal with it.

    I suffer from Gymnaphobia, I have a fear off seeing other's naked but I am very comfortable being nude around others. I don't consider my self a nudist because it would terrify me if others around me where nude as well.

    Even when I have sex with someone, I do not enjoy for him or her to be naked at any point, its very hard to explain but I can't handle it.

    But to make my problem even worst, I am very comfortable being nude in front of others in a non-sexual situation. Just being naked around people I am not going to have sex with.
     
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  2. King Nothing

    King Nothing Porn Star

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    Try Prozac
     
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  3. Ryan692002

    Ryan692002 Sex Machine

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    The only way to cure yourself of a phobia is exposure to it. So have your boyfriend/girlfriend sit in bed with you naked for a few hours everyday. Take control of your life and stop being a victim.

    Edit: Keep in mind I'm ignoring the overpowering smell of bullshit coming off of this whole "person with a fear of seeing others naked is asking for help on a porn site forum".
     
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  4. jennifer713

    jennifer713 Sex Lover

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    King,

    Never tried Prozac, but in the past I was prescribed Xanax because part of the effect is anxiety. It does calm me down but it does not work, and Xanax makes me feel super tired
     
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  5. jennifer713

    jennifer713 Sex Lover

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    Ryan, even 2 minutes with someone else naked feels like hours. I think the longest I have gone trying to ignore my phobia is 20 minutes and it took so much energy for me to try to stay calm during that situation.

    But if I am trying to be intimate with someone, the amount of energy it takes to ignore my phobia that I just don't feel like having sex.
     
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  6. Doc Slim

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    This. If you can't do it by yourself, get a therapist to mediate and guide you through the process. Also talking to someone about your fears can help you better understand them; the first step in conquering them.
     
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  7. jennifer713

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    I did go to therapy for this problem, but I don't feel what he was trying to do was going to help me in any way. Probably need a new therapist.

    Its not a problem which is spoken about much, I have heard of people who are self conscious of being nude in front of others which seems to be more common.
     
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  8. King Nothing

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    Or Zoloft. Phobias are just a mild form of anxiety. The wonders of modern chemistry. :excited:
     
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  9. jennifer713

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    Its been years since I went to therapy for this problem, I should probably be looking at that.

    It just causes a lot of problems with intimacy with a loved one :(
     
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  10. bacterius

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    Gynophobia, is fear of women, which does cause homosexuality in some men. Nothing to do with seing people naked. Are you sure you got your disesases right?

    In any event here are some solutions

    1- Turn off the lights
    2- Spend some time at the beach, and later have sex with your partner in a bathing suit.
    3- Listen to the "eye of the tiger" fixes most phobias.
     
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