Hey I need some advice on how to take my relationship with a older lady I know to the next level. I have gotten to the point where we flirt almost everyday and I can basically say whatever I want to her and she just flirts back like it's a casual talk! Iv told her how I feel about her and she seems to like hearing it. She does shut me down and kind of seems like she would consider fooling around with me but at the same time not sure. So I need so tips, help, advice on how to maybe get her to fool around with me! So if you have tips,help, or advice for me please sent me a pm. Thanks!

 

I gather you are afraid to approach her outright, and just ask her if she is interested in you, and to what extent - flirting is easy and can lead to misinterpretation. Asking, you may not get the answer you want, but then you know whether there is a chance for the next level to even happen.

Try to ask in a way which allows both of you to remain friendly and flirtatious unless the only reason you want to flirt is to fuck her!

 

Well the extent if the flirting is... There really is none! She calls me hot and sexy so I assume she is a little into me! We have also chatted about what would happen if we did stuff with each other! So ya.. I see her in person about twice everyweek. Other wise we text everyday!

 

Bump

 

Try fucking an older women in college, that is what i did.Best fuckign sex i ever had so far. It isn't that hard, plus all this young men around her makes her think during a boring lecture

 

Cuddle her when she says something hot and fondle her is she says something naughty.
You are bound to get her to give in just dont give up!!

 

i am 38 and have been fucking a 21 year old for almost a month.ask her in a text if she ever thought about going further than just flirting with you?
have you told her about past sexual experiances?or maybe just keep passing the hint that you would rather be with a mature woman.
good luck!

 

IV basically done everything you guys have said haha. I must be doing good! Iv told her about my sexual past. She seemed to liking hearing that. Even though she acts like she doesn't ! I don't think she knows she can say whatever she wants around me! I won't give up either

 

I'm an older woman, and this shows why I prefer a guy closer to my age. Young guys are far too timid. It sounds like she wants you, she's been encouraging. She's waiting for you to make the first move. So make it. The next time you see her, walk up to her, put your arms around her, look into her eyes as though there isn't anyone else in the world, and kiss her.

 

Slam Bam ....

Give her the naked man

 

I knew if I played long enough, I'd win the prize. Where do I pick him up?

 

Is she single, give more info, but it seems to me see is interested.Seduce her, are just tell her you want to have sex with her are you like her./Mrs D

 

sounds like all she needs is a couple drinks in her

 

Good brave boy! Dont just give up!!

 

i can say ur chances of getting with her are slim. why? cuz u already need help with it. ur not confident enough. so quit pussyfootin around

 

Lol I'm deffinatally not pussy footing around ! I have just recentally told her how I feel about her and now I'm like stuck on what to do to get "physical" with her haha. Do I make the first move or keep seducing her till she gives in?

 

Your making it too complicated, don't think about making the first move, just do it

 

Send her a text saying "Are we gonna fuck soon?"

If she takes it badly just blame it on the drink.

 

Go on loving her, she will make the first move, finally.

 

someone once told me "he who puts off for another day may not get the lay." which means either make a move or give up. but since u've already confessed the relationship has already taken a turn of which u can never go back to.
if u do get with her things could go really bad and u could mess up what u have left.
or u could leave things how they are.(which may or may not lead to sex)

as my green friend yoda would say, "path chosen by u it must be":excited::excited: