hi i m in big pain i dont know what to do i did merrige 4 years ago its an arange merige on the first night i found her she was not virgn i asked her tel me if u have any body in your life it was your past but tel me truth she dienied on the first day to till now she did not exept my family she live with me like a stranger means she is here but she is not here i m open n bold minded but i hate liers then 2 years ago i m start searching about her n want to know what she is looking for then i start to talk about sex with her n ask her what she like in men n also prove her i dont mind if she want to do sex with other its ok for me but she was very much cleaver unfortunatly we belongs to middle class she is in pakistan n my self in dubai for work first she dont trust me may b i want to now tings thats y then 3 month ago she told me yes i lke to do sex with others now she have 2 man her life just 1 hour ago she call me n tel me she did yesterday and i lke him u know gays i have one baby girl tel me what to do next month i m going home back what do u think she is a slut r if she is a slut do u think she can live with me faithful in future thankyou every body

 

Try some punctuation every so often. Just throw some in there, it doesn't matter where, just to get your feet wet.

I barely understand what you're saying, but if your wife is unfaithful that is unlikely to change overnight. People are capable of change, but usually it takes a serious re-evaluation of self in order to pull it off.

 

no one reply me y

 

because we can't understand what the hell you're trying to say? Why would you use txt-speak on a forum? You're accessing the site from a computer, right? You've got a full keyboard, so use it.

 

I will attempt a translation for all of you who want to help, but can't decipher:

My feelings are hurt, and I'm confused.

I entered into an arranged marriage 4 years ago and discovered that my new bride was not a virgin. I asked her to tell me about her current or past lovers.

She refused to talk to me about the matter, she also disliked my family and the first 2 years of our marriage we lived like strangers in the same house. I then began to address the subject of sex with her, even going so far as to tell her I didn't mind if she had a lover as long as she was willing to be truthful with me. She cleverly avoided the subject.

Due to our work situation, we are apart much of the time now - she is in Pakistan, I am in Dubai. About 3 months ago she finally revealed that she does indeed have other lovers - 2 currently - she even went so far as to tell me that the one she had sex with yesterday was someone I know and like!.

We have a child together & soon I will be going back home & I have no idea how I'm going to reconcile my feelings about her lying to me all of this time. It's clear that I also need her to remain faithful to me in the future in order to continue the marriage. What can I do? What should I do?

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OK, you relationship geniuses - lay it on the poor fellow - he's obviously desperate for a nugget of wisdom.

 

Send me some money and I will write a relationship book that you could buy that would help you. Couple hundred thou should get me started. Trust me...

 

good job ol tool!!

 

Sorry mate, I can't help you. I started reading your post and after a couple of lines, I have a headache.

 

Kisser boy, On your profile you have a album called "How Do I Make My Wife a Slut"?
In another thread you say you do not want to have sex with her, and you want her to have sex with others.
Are you confused? I am.

 

hi! im from pakistan want ne help in seducing ur wife ;-) mate do get in touch

 

Thanks Old-Tool for the translation......

Man, dude, your in Pakistan..... can't you just have the bitch stoned, or do they set them on fire there, fuck, I forget.. I will have to google that. Well like one of the other folks said.. You have too many other posts for this to be real... So I will go back to my beer.

 

Amazing job Old Tool, you really help break through the language (typing)
barrier.

They do indeed stone women that have committed adultery, not sure about setting them on fire, but let's not go that far. If you don't have a problem with it as a poster above suggest you've made clear before then go home and enjoy the show! If you do indeed have an issue with it start with telling her that you don't like her running around screwing your friends and depending on how she takes that get marriage conuceling or just divorce her. Or if that's still not an option where you live, then how about you go find women who'll cater to your needs?

 

Wow...did the original poster manage to graduate from high school? Or just special ed third grade? Dang...