just wondered, if you were to come home one day to find your better half (bf/gf/wife/hubby etc) shagging another guy/girl, would you go mad, or would you be turned on by it? I, personally, would love to stand and secretly watch my bf fucking a hot girl! obviously I dont expect this to be the same for everyone, so opinions please.... and yes, i'm well aware that it is most guys biggest fantasy to catch his missus lezzing off with her best mate, so lets hear how you'd react to finding her with another guy!

 

Well, my girlfriend is actually Bi so i'm allowed that fantasy

One thing for sure though, that fantasy would include you, tied to the bed :excited: Would love to see you screaming for an orgasm with my gf between your legs! Oh a man can dream!

 

I have been in an open and a monogamous marriage so moral or personal values are not part of my mindset in this. But in either case to walk in on my guy fucking another my first reaction would be save that erection for me jealous type thought..

I would and have found seeing my guy fuck another to be very hot and enjoying it when I am prepared and know going in he is doing that.

 

If I came home and found my girl going at it with somebody else, I know I would be inclined to put somebody in the hospital rather than start beating off or something.

On the other hand, I've never really thought about it too much and the idea doesn't necessarily turn me on but if my girl was upfront about something like that and kept me involved and informed from the onset then I would probably be tolerant and maybe even enthusiastic.

 

I used to be insanely jealous of my partners and only managed to overcome this by turning the jealousy on its head and making it a turn on. I would love to watch my other half having sex with another man without him knowing.

 

It pisses me off to be honest. I don't care what she does behind my back but I don't want to see it or hear of it.

 

I would love to watch until discovered, then join in!

 

I'm gonna be honest, I'm sort of hypocritical on the matter. In the sense that my conscience is clean if I fuck another girl besides my gf, but I become jealous and angry if she cheats on me.

But if she wants to go at it with another guy, and tells me that, then I'd allow with no repercussions as long as I never see it. Outa sight outa mind. I think it comes from the natural instinct in males to "protect their mate" and the "need" to be the strong "alpha male". When she cheats on another guy, that guy has encroached and challenged your masculinity and the gf has questioned it. Catching them doing it, makes me feel I'm not good enough, while that may be true and the other guy can satisfy her thats fine, but I'd still rather not feel demasculated in front of her. I know not all guys are like that, and some fatasize their partners cheating on them, its just not my thing.

 

I'm kind of funny about it I guess. If it was my girl with a guy I'd instantly be furious. If she was with another girl I'd probably watch for a bit. If she admits she's bi, I could probably work with that....If she admits to being a full on lesbian who was just using me I'd probably turn furious.

 

This is how I was when I was younger. I used to just not want to know what the other person was doing, and I would do stuff like cheat without letting my girl know and just leave things be.

Now I feel like I should tell my girl about it if I want to bend other chicks over and I feel like she should do me likewise. And I find that my relationships since then have been deeper and more enjoyable even when there were conflicting desires.

 

An eye for an eye.

I mean a woman should show respect where there is respect shown, but everyone to their own I guess. Wouldn't happen in my house though.

 

i have to say i don't know. i drive truck. and it broke down about 150 miles from home so i got a rental car to surprise my wife and come home and when i got there i was the one that was surprised. my wife was in bed with a nother man it was 4 oclock in the morning and they were sleeping so i left and went to a hotel and to this day my wife still don't know. i guess i was turn on but still pissed off...

 

my ex asked me to sleep with a few other guys and cheated on me once i never got to see but the idea turned me on and we did talk about what they did as we had sex i mean it did make me jelouse but i do like the idea

 

i must admit i was the same! and i too decided to not get offended by it, but learn to love it! now me n my bf have some really horny experiences to share x

 

I don't think of cyber as cheating, although that may be my warped sense of morals. I did once come into the room to find my other half naked in front of the monitor and, after quickly regaining my composure, I enjoyed watching her. I suppose it's all part of the voyeuristic tendencies I have. I have taken this further but that is for another thread

 

Us girls have to have hero's.

I don't care about fun on the computer. I only care when it effects our relationship. As for real life my hero is Lorena Bobbitt.

 

once saw my wife wank a young guy off on holiday when she was really drunk still havn,t telt her i saw her.

 

Well I enjoy shareing anyway , but it has to be all up front.
So if that happened I'd call a bunch of mates and send them in when they arrived, and I'd keep calling and messageing , and she'd be there as long as men kept comming and cuming.
Failing that go in n lock the door and she'd be doubled in every way for the naxt few hours.

 

ya r right

 

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ya r right
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