my gf of a year and a half stops me after I make her cum once. I know she cums because she moans and her hips start bucking. Either from fingering her or licking her to an orgasm she stops me soon after. I know that women, like men, are sensitive after an orgasm. But I always read on here about women and multiple orgasms. I can't really ask her because she isn't the most sexually open person in the world.

Could it be that she stops me because when ever we fool around it is in her dorm room with really thin walls and her best friend sleeping next door? The thought of that actually makes me really excited...

thanks for any and all advice.

 

The Orgasm - some women just can't stand it - the intensity of the orgasm makes 'em crazy. Consider it a compliment and give her a little break before offering to make her toes curl and her eyeballs bounce around in her skull again. When you do, make sure she knows you LOOOOOVE seeing her in ecstacy.

. . . and, you can really ask - what have you got to lose?

 

Another solution might be just have more extensive foreplay for yourself. Stroke yourself off, and ask for a BJ...that way you both can finish about the same time.

 

My gf does the same thing, and always says its because she's way too sensitive after she cums. Only solution I've figured out is to just give her some time after she's finished to come down before trying to go at it again.

 

Just tie her up n enjoy her begging for you to stop

 

There can be many reasons for why a woman is like your girlfriend including what was wrote above in terms of being too sensitive for awhile after she orgasms or afraid to let go because of the noise that might come out.

Women can range in their orgasm sensitivity and even range within the individual woman for a variety of reasons. Some women may always be just that highly sensitive. One thing you might consider, besides asking her of course, is while some women are sensitive they do not need to stop but just slow down for a little bit then build back up. Like you wrote your girlfriend is not the most sexually open she could even think that all she is to get is one orgasm and does know or has ever tried to go for multiple orgasms.

Since you use the word dorm you are probably a young adult and your girlfriend could very well still be learning what her body is all about sexually. For women that can be a complex thing that is both physical and a lot mentally.

 

My wife will only orgasm once though she insists she could again.

She mostly just wants to relax afterward which is a bit of a pain if I'm nowhere near ready.

 

Nobody worried about that very much in MY dorm!

She might just not be aware of her capacity for multiple orgasms. She may be faking an orgasm and just wants to get it over with. It's difficult to say...but for what it's worth, I can tell you that I'm not like that at ALL.

 

my girl friend does the same thing, its just taht she is too sensitive after cumming once and apparently it is common, if i wanna go again i usually have to wait at least 30 min

 

I was with a woman who would want to stop after the first orgasam and the answer was to shift back to foreplay until she was ready to go again.The second one comes alot quicker too...

 

thanks for all your responses, I guess I will try to give her a rest before going at it again.
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