First! let's start off by getting her excited.I'll be giving some examples you may have never known existed, but you must also make sure she's mentally satisfied by you first. Talk to her get her comfortable and make sure she's alright with it. Always be sure that you tell her she's beautiful and sexy and if your dating/married try I love you. But don't make it seem like you only love her because she agrees to do anal. Men are visual creatures. they are genetically wired to reproduce. It does not take much more than the glimpse of a leg to get a man in the mood. To turn a woman on, she will need some foreplay. A good rule of thumb is to take things really slow. Ask her what turns her on.
Guys it would be well worth your time to learn as much about a woman’s body as possible. It would also do you some good to read a couple romance novels. These books will give you a glimpse at what they fantasize about and what really gets them going.
You should strive to be the best lover you can be. Your time with your significant other should be all about her. With the right woman the more you give the more you receive! You want to treat a woman’s body as the beautiful art piece which it is. You want to touch her in ways which she has not been touched. I hear it from women all the time “true men are hard to find”. Chivalrous gestures will separate you from the competition. As you become a masterful lover you will be rewarded many times over.


One of the best ways to turn a woman on is to touch her sensually. Women love to be touched gently and sexually. There is nothing more exciting than to watch your girlfriend or wife get turned on when you massage her or brush up against her lightly.

Sexual tension is the key. If you can build up the tension in her body she will be ready to jump all over you; and your touch and voice are the perfect tools for building up the sexual tension in her body.


If you have not built up enough sexual tension in her body; then you can also use compliments with your voice. Women love to be talked to sexually. Most men never take the time to do it and therefore are missing out on one of the most important ways to turn their partners on. If you have ever talked sexually to her; then you know what the power of your voice can do. You can even tell her about the things you would like to do to her and the things you want her to do to you.


Tease her as well women love to be teased. Tell her that you would give it to her in a public place; however there are so many people around that she can not have it. Everyone wants what they can not have and women are no different. When you get in the privacy of your own home you will be amazed at how much she was turned on throughout the night just by setting up barriers. It has worked great in the past for me, and continues to work.


Here are some tips on how to turn your girl on. Every woman is different so just have fun and enjoy the journey!


Coat
When a women needs to put her coat on, hold it up for her. If her hair is caught under the coat, gently brush the back of her neck with your hand as you move her hair from under the coat.


Car Door
Open the car door for your lady. Once she is seated gently close the door.


Her Back

Massage the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine. As you move lower on the back her nerves become more sensitive. During sex you can even take a back-rub break to delay ejaculation.


Back of Her Knees

Once your woman is aroused trace your fingers down the thigh and calf and gently graze the back of her knee with your finger tips.


Breasts

Pay particular attention to the erogenous tissue at the top and underside of her breasts. Your touch should be so soft as to barely indent the skin. Build some tension in these areas before you touch the nipple.


Forearms

Underneath the wrist is very sensitive to touch and heat. This area responds best to the lightest of touches.


Fingers

When seated instead of the old hand holding spice it up. Run your finger every so lightly down her fingers to her palm. Start with her finger tips.


The Kiss

Softly kiss and tug on her upper lip. She will want to kiss you badly, but try and tease her a bit.


Neck

Brush your lips between her throat and chin. Also the sides of the neck are very sensitive. Lightly brush your lips up to her earlobes.


Ears

The ears offer two forms of arousal: physical and mental. Graze the rims of her ears with your lips. Then escalate to some soft tongue grazing.


Face

Massage the area of her face above the eyebrows. These will help her relax after a long day of work. Most girls love gentle kisses to the forehead as well.




NEXT! More foreplay. Now you're at the stage where she never wants you to stop touching her. This is where the fun begins. After the massaging and the special areas are touched move on to the good stuff. Kissing the neck, playing with her hair, whispering in her ear. Things like this can be useful DURING foreplay, but it is not the foreplay. Also remember your timing 2-5 minutes are not foreplay, it's warming up to foreplay. Try 16- 25 minutes that's foreplay. On how to do foreplay correctly check out

https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=162327. This will show you all the correct ways on how to touch your women.


NOW! After you get her off during a foreplay try getting her off during vaginal intercourse. Always remember to caress her body and work at a pace she likes.
Here are someways to hit the G-spot during intercourse.

From behind

Rear-entry positions are some of the most reliable when it comes to stimulating the G-spot during intercourse. You can try it doggy style or in the spooning position (both of you lying on your sides, facing the same way as you enter her from behind) for a more relaxed option. In order to have the greatest chance of success with a rear-entry position, the penis should rub against the front wall of the vagina. When she’s on all fours, she should arch her back slightly and not put her head down on the bed. You can try lifting her hips a little and thrusting in a downward motion to perfect this G-spot position.

She’s on top

Many women prefer positions in which they are on top. This probably has a lot to do with the fact that when she’s on top, she’s in control. Woman-on-top positions, like cowgirl and its variations, are great for hitting the G-spot because the woman can angle her hips just right, allowing her to find the arrangement that feels best to her. She can try leaning forward or back while adjusting the speed and pressure applied to the G-spot.

The right rotation

Rotated Woman is a tantric sex position that is excellent for stimulating the G-spot. Start by lying flat on your back with her straddling you, facing away. Then she should carefully lean down until she can grab your ankles and is lying on top of you. Once in position, she can move up and down or circle her hips in a figure-eight pattern. The angle makes her vagina tighten up, so the rubbing of the penis provides intense G-spot pleasure. She may also get some clitoral stimulation in this position, so she can have the best of both worlds.

This will help you get her off. If you have a problem with premature ejaculation check out: https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=162128.



FINALLY! Congratulations you've made it this far. This is where the anal begins. At this moment she's probably so worked up she wants to try something new. And you will. Anal. Here are the steps.


1) Lubrication. Scented lubrication works the best, it works up all senses and gets her even more excited. Use a lot, but not too much to were it's messy. Only use what you need. When lubing her remember the foreplay steps.

2) Take things slowly. Warm her up, use your fingers to gently get her ready. Count to twenty and each time add another finger. This will help her ease into things.

3) Entering without pain. Now that she's warmed up ease the head slowly against her whole. Only apply a small amount of pressure.

4) Getting all the way in. SLOWLY slid in. Inch it and don't rush. Once again remember to keep her excited. Whisper in her ear, play with her hair, caress her body. Don't get too excited and just shove the rest inside of her.

5) Double stimulation is the key. Once your inside play with her clit or finger her. This will make her very excited and make the experience enjoyable. You could also use her favorite toy. Either way this is not only for your pleasure it's for her's as well.

6) Get her off. Work at a pace she finds enjoyable.If you find that your women is too sensitive and can't handle too much double stimulation, locate her G-spot. To learn about the G-spot check out: https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=155248

7) Get yourself off. While she's getting off think about how your making her feel. Bring yourself to the edge. Try more vaginal sex to keep both of you in your orgasms. This will be intense for both of you because as she's having her orgasm she's squeezing tightly against you. This will make it easier for you both to cum at the same time.


With these easy steps your women will be begging you for anal. Enjoy!

 

Good info, I'm sure men and women alike will find it very useful. Thanks :smile:

 

interesting read

 

so you are saying that frying pans to the head aren't the way to win over a woman?

 

An interesting read..thanks for posting it.

BigBlkBeef -the funny link in our signature...I remember watching that, it was funny. Shes one of the Abby Winters girls...cant remember her name though.

 

this was interesting to read, I am a woman and want to try it but I am more worried about the "mess"...should I have some enema first

 

im with malu on this one

 

Yes an enema would be best for the "mess"

 

very accurate i might pass this on to my fella

 

interesting and useful ... Ive never needed an enema though.