So, I was using my wife's computer yesterday and noticed (quite by accident!) that she had been visiting an erotic story website. Intrigued, I investigated a little bit further and saw that she had been reading a story about a forced gangbang. (The story is called "Kim's Friday Night" on Literotica if you are curious)

Now, I know she likes sex a little rough sometimes (and asks me to be rougher on occasion) and we have shared some fantasies, but I have never heard her say anything about something like this.

I know many times fantasies are just fantasies, but I am wondering if she intentionally (or subconcsiously) let me see that she was looking at this story? If so, what should I do? Thoughts?

 

I read all different genres, but that doesn't mean I want to experience them all.

 

Talk to her, and keep talking to her. If she's comfortable talking to you, and knows you're open, you'll find out what she really wants. You don't have to direct the conversation in any particular way.

And don't tell her you've been snooping, and stop snooping.

 

Just talk to her. When discussing fantasies slowly bring up more and more things until you eventually mention it. If she's keen she'll say something if not maybe she just likes reading erotic literature

 

My thought would be if she watches XXX videos with you, see how she responds to scenes that include gang-bangs or threesome-moresomes and go from there.

 

Gang Bangs

My wife also has fantasy's about being gang banged so it is not all that uncommon. Reading about it and fantasy are one thing actually doing it is quite another. When we were younger she liked to be taken places naked bound and blindfolded for sex! She also liked to go places where we might get caught. One of her most delicious and sinful fantasy's is to be helplessly taken in this condition and forcefully abused and raped by black men lots of them and all have enormous cocks! So who knows how this might have wored out if it had really happened!

 

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i disagree.. i told my girlfriend that i had a fantasy about her fucking me in the ass while all her female friends watched and called me a slut.. then they made me blow one of her friends husbands... she got so turned on and thought it was a great idea... she has been fucking me in the ass regularly with a strapon ever since! if you are with the right person you dont have to hide anything! They might not act out EVERY fantasy but at least they will be aware of it.. she did have me get fucked in the ass by a guy we met on craigslist which was pretty hot

 

Great replies on this one, so not much I can add, except to say, if you have a fantasy, there are ways to incorporate that into your sex life without necessarily going as far as jmx454 did. Nothing wrong with that, if he and his wife are into that, more power to them.

More then likely though, your wife has a fantasy about it. Many women do, just like many men have fantasies of multiple women, twins, etc. The good news is you can help her with that by even doing little things. Say you are fucking her in the pussy and you start playing with her ass with your fingers. Just vocalize to her that it's someone else doing that part or that when your done with her your friend so and so is going to take over. You can incorporate that fantasy into your monogamous sex life without having it take over.

Say she knows you have a thing for the hot little 17 year old down the street. She could easily describe things you could be doing to her while you and her are having sex. You never have to actually include the 17 year old.

It was once told to me, that the most power sex organ in the human body is the brain. So use it.

Now, if you and her discuss it and you find out your like jmx454 and his wife, then find a safe way to try it out. Just make sure you can both deal with that situation.

And just to repeat... yes, stop snooping. Seriously though, her having that kind of a fantasy should not be ANYTHING That you two can't discuss. LOL!

 

I think (could be wrong) that bryan meant to slowly bring it up because of how the knowledge came to ckb.

You don't want to be that obvious that you were snooping around.

 

Gang bang fantasy's

KingGeek is quite correct in that the biggest sex organ is the mind. I have taken my girl over the years out naked bound and blindfolded wearing only a coat to motels adult motels basements and out in the woods. She has had no idea where her clothes are or where she is going? During the drive and when we finally get there I always threaten her with all sorts of sexually perverse things mostly things she has fantasized about. Gang bangs by black men or many of her other fantasy's!

The thought to her being naked and helpless is an incredible turn on as she knows that it could really happen and this coupled with her fantasy's have produced some incredible sex. Many times I have threatened her that 10 big black guys are just waiting to come in the motel or down in the basement and do her. Usually she says quite sarcastically, "I Am So Scared" as I have opened the door or stomped down the stairs. Many times I have scared the crap out of her and it has taken her several minutes to figure out that it is me! Who is fucking her great fun and great sex. Sometimes I think she might even be disappointed! But the whole idea is to play mind games and she has been a most willing woman.

 

Get some gang bang movies in and see how she enjoys them.

 

I have a fantasy of my wife getting gang banged in a laundry mat by BBC and its driving me crazy:laughing: