Hi all

I've got a problem with my girlfriend. She was a virgin. And her pussy is to small for my dick. How could i strech it or smth? Cause there fits only my one finger. Trying to put two of them is making her hurt.
Sorry, if this question sounds for you silly, but i have not much experience in sex

 

Start slow

1) Finger

2) Small Dildo

3) Medium dildo

3) Your dick

P.S- Use lube..............LOTS of it

May the force be with you

 

Add to this: lots of foreplay. Give each other orgasms with fingers, hands and mouths. Don't push fucking for now. If she's nervous about it this will make her tense and tight. Just enjoy getting each other off! When she's ready and asks to fuck, then put her on top so she can take her time and have control over how much of you goes in and how fast or slow. Patience, patience, patience!!! Be nice and understanding.
A young man I know had the same problem with his Asian GF. He loved her enough that he was able to let her take three months of sexplay to finally get it in under HER control. Now all she wants to do is fuck his brains out every time they're together. He says it was so worth the wait, and she is just crazy about him because he was so good about it.

If you all still have problems then she should see a gynecologist, a female gynecologist, to see if something can be done, which I'm sure can be.

If all else fails, Put your dick in a large pencil sharpener and shave it down a bit. Just kidding!!!:idea:

 

Cum and shove it in my ass, I can take anything!:idea:

 

yah need to work slow with lots of foreplay for her, usie a pain relief lubrication and work slowly into her, it will stretch, just the muscles aint used to it

 

post your thread in below please

 

She is tense and afraid of the unknown. this causes her to close down, it's called vaginismus.
You can try to show her what she can enjoy by stimulation to a orgasm with no penetration.
Just love her and be patient and don't just dive in and start attacking her clitoris right off.
Start slow with kissing her breast and the insides of her thighs this can get her in the mood.

 

First explain what smth is, and why you might want to do it. Once you put it in English, someone might have a helpful suggestion.

 

awwww...damn the luck....LOL

 

A. are you 18
B. where the fuck did you learn to spell and learn your English skills?
C. the pussy will stretch no matter what.
D. foreplay and lube / precum
E. now try to spell correctly / ask somewhat not stupid questions and maybe you have a chance around here

 

18?

My guess is that he's 12 and trying to get some information that will help him jack off....

 

I'd reccomend you marry that one cause they are few and far between.

 

I think that resumes it all. All you need is time. Its like digging for gold. Don't dig all the way down. Take your time. Make sure she's comfortable.

 

If you let Sex be your first language, the fact that English is a foreign language to you will be less of a problem.

I have never experience a really tight vagina, but certainly foreplay, lube, patience and practice - and I imagine a condom is in order as well.

 

Impossible

After two or three penetrations, woman vagina will be able even to have 10" hard cock inside. I don't think your girl so tight

 

You say WAS a virgin - you must have popped her cherry then.
There is a word for it VAGINISMUS. Google it and this may explain what is happening.
If she does have a small vagina then you or she will have to work on stretching it, one finger then two etc until it weakens enough to get it in without pain. Always use lube (KY) etc.
I think a tiny vagina is a more rare experience than vaginismus though.
Dont FORCE her to have sex.... please - she will hate it and YOU for the pain and discomfort she will have and that will wreck HER life in future. Be kind and gentle with her and PATIENT. If she is keen to have sex then she may agree to oral for a while.

 

make sure your penis isn't the size of a new born baby if it is have an abortion.

 

Can't see it.

 

Thank you for your helpfull answers I'll try them on our next date.
For rude pepople: I'm 22, and this situation is for real
Also, sorry for my english, cause it's my third language (very far away from foreign) And my dick is not that big- its standart size