I started watching girls/women when I was three year-old and it reamains one of favorite pass times to this day.Now it took me a few years to learn how to watch and not stare, but I think I've mastered that now.
I also happened to find an incredible wife who actually helps me. Here's an example. We had only been married a few months when one spring day we were driving down the street and the scantily clad madiens were out in force. I was of course checking them out intently when two things suddenly occured to me. One, I was married and two, my wife was sitting right beside me. That gave a little and litteral shudder and then my wife who'd been watching me busted out laughing.
Then she told me that she thought men looking at women and women looking at men was a very natural thing and that did not really bother her at all. But what did bother was decite or secrecasy. So I could go ahead and look but just don't try to hide it.
At this point of our lives when we're driving or at a shopping mall ect. she often points out women for me to check out and she has excellent taste. Gotta love that woman.:rose:

 

I love getting a look from a man, it makes me feel that perhaps I may be still sexy...I do appreciate a nice looking man and I'll take the time to look...
I agree with Kelly, please keep your tongues in your mouth...:rose:

 

Had a friend get fired becaus of "ogling" and saying crude things.

I think ogle is really the wrong word. It's never okay to flat out stare at women, unless of course, they're being paid for it. Consider objectification. It's okay to notice how hot someone is. It's even okay to 'check them out.' But ogling goes too far.

 

Exactly - I also love to look, but don't want the lady to feel uncomfortable because a look goes from a look to a stare and then an oggle

 

How true, and it is fairly easy to tell if a woman is comfortable or not with the attention. If she's uncomfortable I avert my attention somewhere else. On the other hand, if I get a smile in return, well that one goes into the mental files. In a recieptive envornment I have actually told women that I was not staring I was memorizing, that can turn a smile into a giggle. But it all boils down to the woman's feelings at the time. But doesn't it always.

 

watching women

i love to watch women on the street,porn is some thing i love watching with girls have done from my first girlfriend.the women i have meet young and old have always like it,and i always made sure we enjoyed by keeping sex new.women don't have to wear make up .my only problem i am a one women man.well unless she has a friend thats up for it-really good when that happens.

 

I myself enjoy nothing more than appreciateing the beauty of the female form,there is nothing that compares with it.There is also a difference between the appreciative glance that I believe all women enjoy , and the stare that makes them feel uncomfortable.Also scantily clad is sometimes more of a turn off to me ,nothing better than a sweet smile from a woman in a sweater

 

Every woman I ever see, I see beauty in them. Do I stare at them? No. But, I do appreciate beauty in every woman I see. Staring, shouting, is just tacky, against chivalry and respect. Down with ogling!

 

Bigbird, I suddenly realized what your problem is and why this is so difficult for you.

Ready for it?


You're over thinking the whole thing WAY to much.

Just have a look see, and as long as you're not getting slapped and/or reported, you're doing fine. And if you do, you'll know what not to do next time. Process of elimination, you know.

-S-

 

Exactly. Women want to be noticed, even when they're not dressed to impress, but men can do that without being rude or crass.

 

A valuable safety tip........if your wife doesn't approve of you oggling other women, and you're out with her, trying to cop a crafty eyeful when you think she's not looking..........

........she has much wider peripheral vision than you...

 

OK thanks Chunky - I've decided to invest in a pair of Tom Cruise mirror sunglasses to increase the stare and oggle time.

I'm getting confused - I always thought it was oggling, but alot of people are referring to oogling ?

 

It didn't bother me if my friend or partner ever looked at other women..However, when their tongues started hanging out I did protest a little...

 

I'm starting to feel comfortable about looking longer - the poll results seem to show that the majority of women enjoy the attention. But :-

1. I need to keep my tongue (and presumably knob) hidden
2. Talk to the face not the breasts
3. Take care if the Mrs is with me!

 

I think looking at the attractive regions of your gender-of-choice's bodies is completely acceptable as long as you do it discretely, because no one wants some creepy slobbering lump staring openly at their tits.

Actually, I take that back, I'm sure someone, somewhere, gets a kick out of that. But considering most people don't, it's still wise to be secretive about it.

 

It's actually....BUZZZZZZ!!!! NONE OF THE ABOVE!!

It's ogling, as in, to ogle.

I ogled
You ogled
He ogled

 

You can stare openly at my tits, but only if I like you.

But they're not all that spectacular.

 

Typical schoolteacher. Here we are talking about looking at attractive women, such as yourself, and you are correcting our English. There really is no hope for you, Kimiko. You need to think about sex more.

Oh, no, hang on a minute. There aren't any more hours in the day for that, are there?

 

I'm multi-tasking.

I also think about sex when I'm:

Cooking dinner
Getting the kids ready to go to school
Having lunch with my girlfriend
Paying bills
Shopping
Going on a run

 

Reminds me of an old Latin class (yep I got a Grade A in Latin "o" level:-

Amo
Amas
Amamas
Amatis
Amant

I've probably spelt in wrong, and can't remember what the fuck it means!