My answer to my own question

Why I still have sex with guys after having sex with a woman? I will give my answer, from my experiences. I believe women are more in tune with me when having sex. Women are generally givers in nature. For the most part, we are much more concerned about our partner’s sexual experience than our own. Women are sexy and soft and 99.9 percent of the time, they smell good. Women groom and taste fantastic. Watching a woman climax, is as good as climaxing myself. Women like to cuddle and I love to cuddle with a soft loving woman.

So the question is why? Why would I still have sex with guys when women have so much to offer? The bigger question is, why do I prefer to have sex with guys over women? Doesn't seem logical, does it? Now remember, all I have told you is information from my own experiences and conversations with bi-sexual women. I don't have any degree or anything, just my opinion. Many women, including myself, want to be dominated. Not like in bdsm (well sometimes) but we like an aggressive and dominating partner. I personally think it comes from evolution of our species, but like I said, it’s just my opinion. We like to be swept away in a guy’s desire for us. There is nothing and I mean nothing, I like better than, having a guy just take, me because I made him so fucking horny he couldn't take it anymore. I love when a guy is nice to me, but deep down I want him to take care of me (protect me). I want him to desire me, to look at me as though, he could just eat all of me. When a guy turns me on and I am ready for him, it is nirvana when he enters me. Feeling his desire (rock hard cock) inside me cannot be substituted with a strap-on. In short, making a guy want me, need me, makes me ache to please him. Usually in any way he wants!!

To those who thought this thread was somehow a guy bashing question. I put it up to promote answers like mine. This was an ego boosting post for guys! I never meant to offend anyone.

 

No sex toy can replicate how a real cock feels inside me; but it's been over a year since I've slept with a guy and I don't miss it!

!!Viva los Lesbianas!!

 

Well said :excited:

 

Have to agree with a lot of what you said, for me I dunno.. it comes down to what kind of mood I'm in.

Sometimes I think we can all over think this stuff ( maybe I don't think enought! ) sometimes it's just sex to be enjoyed!

 

Maybe not unsophisticated, Tim, but...lacking in passion or, dare I say it, romance? I get what you're saying, though.

 

I am equal opportunity, I don't care Male or Female. My male lovers have been as loving and considerate as any female I had, I have had some good and some bad on both sides. While I prefer females (just because I find them more beautiful), I am with two men.

 

Another good point. Being more in tune with a woman is not that easy since we do not have the same parts. I have only been able to get one women to squirt. We spent two hours together but their is still so much to learn. A woman knows what they feel inside yet we can only guess. Knowing how can only be learned by sharing ideas insted of guessing. Guessing what a women needs and wants I think is part of the problem.

 

For a guy, the two best times while having sex with a woman is entering the pussy and just before cumming. I was glad to read that women that like cock like during these special moments as well.

Cocks and pussies were made for each other.

 

I was hoping to get more bi women to respond, but the thread kind of went south in the beginning.

 

I think this is a great topic so I do not know why their are very few posts

 

Male tongue verses female tongue - the females I have been with were all soft and tender and exceptionally good when performing oral. Every male except two were rougher orally not as patient, gentle, or tender. I married one of those males. Not to say that rough is not good at the correct time but as a whole the girls were better until I met the right man.

No DOUBT am man's penis rules over any toy. There is no great substitute for a real penis. And then you have the creamy center. I know it takes practice for a lot of females to learn to like male cum (if they ever do) or it takes sex crazed ones like myself who dive right in a bit faster. Anyway there is no fake penis that does a great job at simulating good ejaculation, that pulsing before it explodes, and the pumping of the cum as it shoots out. I love the way it feels in my hand and my mouth as a man orgasms. I have never found any replacement for that and I do so love my toys.

The way a male's body curves into mine as he enter me is not duplicated even by the best of females with a strap on. Yes I have been f***ed silly by some pretty darn good ladies but again, I have never found one who could make love to me like my husband. His penis and body rapture me in a way no female has ever been able to. Though I did have three females (at one time) come pretty close orally (with fingers & toys) a few times.


Best way to sum it up for me. The gals were sweet & tender and the sex was fun, different but always more fun with a male involved. My man, is rugged yet also sweet and loving and is plenty of fun in himself. I was never with a butch female, I had males for that. I guess I turn the original Q around and ask why only have a female when you can have the best of a male and his parts? After all they are easy to teach - :excited: