we've been dating for a few months now, she has no problem with sex but she claims shes freaked out by dicks, she does give me handjobs but how can i get her to feel more comfortable to give me a blowjob.

 

Lick her pussy.

Give to get.

 

Making her cum first,,, over and over,,,,

 

Tequila

 

Let her watch when her mom gives you head, and be sure to ask her mom to pause once in a while and offer to let your girlfriend have a lick. I've read story after story where this works. If your girlfriend isn't ready for you to come in her mouth, let her mom take your load and then share it to her in several very passionate kisses. That works in movies, too.

 

hahaha oh god you're bad.

Your post reminds me of this viral video where this girl dumps this guy and he makes it his mission to fuck the girls mom and go out with her to get back at the girl who dumped him.

It seems a bit weird she's freaked out by dicks but likes sex and still gives handjobs maybe she just doesn't like to give head or she has had a bad experience with it.

Just ask her and see what's the problem that's your best bet. Maybe you guys could try the 69 position although that could be a bit tricky if she has little to no experience giving a blowjob.

 

1. Let your lady know that you are fantasizing over her beautiful lips, how great it feels to be in her mouth, how it turns you on just thinking about it. She wants to feel special, that she is your fantasy, your sexual goddess, so compliment her abilities. She will want to use them more often.
2. You have to be a good host. If you want your woman to spend quality time visiting your Casa Del Erection, make yourself inviting. That means take a shower, use some soap, make certain you smell all nice and purdy down there.
3. You want to spend some time pleasing your woman, asking her if she likes the speed, if you’re hitting the money spot. You want to give AND receive, don't you? So, maybe you surprise HER first with some oral lovin’ and when you tell her how much you desire her the next night, she’ll probably happily oblige.
4. You may call it bribery. I call it a win / win situation. Remember when you were first dating? No? Can’t remember back that far? OK, let me refresh your memory. That’s when you guys just did nice things for each other because you knew it would make your mate happy. Why not try that again?

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New girlfriend

 

If she likes you she will want to do it to please you. dont force her. Just tell her that you have been dreaming about it. You would like to try it. Try 69 together. Get her all licked up. A couple of drinks wouldnt hurt either. After she does it once she will losen up.

good luck.

 

loled hard good one mate

 

lol that's always an option

If you're arrogant/cocky enough just be like if you refuse to give me head I'll get someone else to do it.

 

You might have to dump her. If she returns ready to suck cock she's yours.
Like everyone else said though, suck her and she might do the same for you.
If not DEFINITELY dump her.

 

get a new gf

 

My husband and I are very good friends with a couple in this situation. They have sex regularly to hear the tell it. I have not reason to doubt this since they were both so open about it in the first place. All the sex is geared around intercourse, sounds like they try every position imaginable vaginally as well as anally. They are even into strap on penetration of him. The wife says she really gets off on doing her husband anally. However, she does NOT like male cum, not touching, smelling, tasting, not even seeing it. It grosses her out completely.

So she has never once sucked her husband or even given him a hand job. This popped out during a sexual conversation we were having one night. My husband and I were floored. I could not imagine being married and never to had pleasured my husband in this manner. Over the past several months I met many married males on this forum in the same boat. I asked many of my married friends about this and every one of them have active oral sex with their husbands. Everyone asked more friends coming across couples where neither perform oral.

Several days later I asked the wife about her aversion to oral sex. She simply thinks it is disgusting though it feels good when her husband tried it on her, she was grossed out when he tried to kiss her afterwards. The husband was very frustrated by all of this bringing it up several times over the next few meetings with them. They know I counsel somewhat in this area and asked my opinion. Without getting myself into trouble I steered clear of advice and merely asked questions to get them to think.

I did the science part talking about how it is all clean, healthy, sanitary, etc. Gross the wife out talking about it. We discussed using rubber gloves and condoms, just the thought of the semen in the vicinity disgusted her. We got no where, she was not going to be able to to it.

Now this is not the advice I would so plainly and bluntly give but I thought the outcomes was extremely interesting so I'll pass it along. My husband asked her flat out, "Well if you are never going to perform oral on your husband would you let another woman and since he enjoys reciprocating would it be okay if he performed oral on her as well?"

Her husband turned 6 shaded of red, she on the other hand stared directly into his eyes and asked him if this was something he wanted that badly. He told her the sex was amazing between the, that he enjoyed every bit of it, etc., etc., and yet he would love to do even more. Of course he was very caring in how he phrased and worded everything. They talked it out at length with a few guiding questions from me as well.

Bottom line, they agreed to sex outside their relationship only if they are both present and only doing things that they other is not interested in doing. In other words the husband gets to have another female suck him off since she will not and he gets to do like wise.

Of course they both asked me if I would be that female, which I promptly but graciously turned them down. My husband smirked at me. Since this conversation they found a lady who loved the idea and gets together with them every couple of weeks. It has been many months and the wife told us she has been able to watch it taking place even getting aroused by it. So there is hope. From a distance visually she enjoys watching it now. Maybe try some visuals and get feedback from you gf.

Chatting with several males here several did like wise and asked their mates if they would be opposed to a third taking over sexually where they themselves would not. Some were hostile, most were amicable, many decided to learn for themselves. I do not know everyone here well enough to state it as fact but it possibly appears that the suggesting from a third party might work. You might ask your gf if she would mind a little help? Maybe you she will learn for herself, let someone else take over, or tell you to drop dead.

As for me, I make sure my husband get satisfied however he desires. I am not big into everything he wants and vise versa but we give and help and receive. We work as a couple together trying to please one another, and yes we let one another know of our desires no matter what they are (scared or not), we share and work it out. Sound like you guys need to open up and do some serious sharing. You need to be open to hear what she has to say as well. She might want to bend you over - lol, she might want to only have vaginal intercourse, she might let you have oral sex with a guy but not a girl. You just never know till you open that can of worms...

Much success - please keep us informed.

 

Grow some balls. Women like men that take control. Be aggressive. Tell her to do it while you two are in the heat of the moment.

 

See? Professionals agree, have her mom demonstrate giving you head first, to guide your girlfriend through the experience.

Narcissus1985: That video had me laughing so hard my eyes were watering. Here's the link for others to watch. Trust me, it's worth it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCyk-2MGlLo

 

Put some peanut butter on your dick

 

wash it

 

It looks like nobody has asked you. Do you eat her? Too many man like to get but not to give. If you do it to her and she is pleased, she will want to reciprocate. A woman was telling me how she started. She said, if I felt so good when he used his mouth, I thought that would feel good if I use mine. Try that to start.

 

show her some $$$$$$$$$ that works a treat :excited: