Okay im 19 about 2 be 20 in a few months and well the question is when i have sex with my wife it doesnt last that long, Shortest time was like 5 mins but dont get me wrong 1 night me and her had sex for 3 hours, but the problem is, I cant get Sex off my mind for me to last longer i constantly think and think about it and it makes me go faster, Does anyone have any tips that wld make me last longer ?, im kinda a lil shy about posting these type of things about me but hell i need some help bcuz its getting annoying!

 

Tequila

 

train yourself for multiple orgasms, go slower, and talk to her, sex dosent have to last for hours if both party's are happy.

 

That should not be a problem as long as you getting hard again!!

 

Practice... when you feel like you're going to cum back off and train yourself to wait...or think about baseball that works for me

 

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This seems to be a very common problem, and you have my sympathy. Thinking about something else can help if you can manage it. Practice helps enormously. As, sadly, does getting old!
It might help to reduce the problem if you can give her several orgasms slowly by tongue or hand first. After that you know that she is partly satisfied and even if you cum instantly, you won't be letting her down. On the other hand, you've just seen, felt and heard her having several orgasms. If you're like me, slightest stroke will make you cum. You could then try this:- don't either of you touch your penis for a little while. Snuggle together, relax, learn to enjoy the throbbing pressure and wait for it to subside. If you can survive this for a while, you might find it easier to hold back when you are inside her. Not easy, though. Best of luck trying. There are other threads in this forum with some good (and, as usual, hilarious) advice on the same topic. Try the search facility, perhaps?

 

Relax

Relax your hip muscles more when you are pumpin away. This will help you last longer promise

 

Yes, but does he have to drink it, or rub it into his willy?


On a serious note, to the OP, sex isn't just about penetration, you could try taking your time and giving her some pleasure with your hands and tongue, then do the 'faster and faster' thing as you charge towards your orgasm.
As long as she's enjoying it though, what are you worried about?

 

See ive tried the waiting game and such it doesnt work really, ive never had this problem before i mean after me and my ex broke up i dident have any sexual activity for 6 months, and the drinking Tequila gives me a migrain lol, slower i have not tried yet though, We do it in a weird position aswell for deeper pen, She lays on her back and my hips and such are right between her legs 1 leg is over me the other is in the middle of my legs so its kinda odd in a way lol, But it works great, Thanks for all the tips ill defeinatly try, ( an as for the tlking thing to get it off my mind I tryed that its kinda hard lol ) and she doesnt like me licking her down there bcuz she thinks its gross! (

 

watch porn and masturbate till the point of cumming and then back off...control training