Congrats! That's really probably the best way to go.

 

I would always tell him no when he attempted. It hurts!

One night we were spooning, him behind me, and I kinda started moving my butt, grinding on his dick. he put the tip of his dick at the entrance of my ass hole and we just kept rubbing against each other. then he lifted my leg that was on top so that he could finger me while the tip of his dick was teasing my ass. after a while his dick had made it about half way in and he was fingering me to where i had such an intense orgasm. after that intense orgasm, i'm more open to doing it! it just takes patience to initially get it in. i always tell him, you can't just shove it in like it happens in porn! they stretch their ass hole out by wearing butt plugs for hours and getting enemas, and some don't eat for like days in advance.

 

You took the words right out of my mouth. I was going to say almost the same thing. One gf I had didn't want to even try it. During some regular sex, I worked a finger in while she was orgasming,and it seemed to greatly highten things. It took more than once to get her to really enjoy it. In the end,(no pun..lol) she liked to insert a vibrator in her vagina,with me in her butt. THAT was intense......for BOTH of us!

 

ask nice

 

awwww, stop being such a sissy and just slip it in there when she isn't looking - a cock in the butt feels juuuust like a cock in the vagina, so she may not even notice. To be safe, practice your "innocent" face in the mirror beforehand and be prepared to say, "whoooops!" alot.

 

I was licking my gf's pussy, and fingering it too, and my pinky kept grazing her ass, and little by little I slipped it in. Not too long after, she was asking to be fucked in the ass, and she loved it. Her tight hole clamped around my cock was amazing.

 

While we were making love, and she had an orgasm, I asked her what she wanted to do next. She said whatever I wanted to do to her. So I started pushing on her ass. She let me right in

 

When you're fucking her missionary style insert a finger up her butt and see what the reaction is - then take it from there. I love anal but asking for it is not easy.

 

I didn't ask, I slapped her ass and told her what I was going to do. I wasn't too rough the first time, but she didn't have much choice. LOL. Then again she liked not having a choice, always did.

 

My wife wasn't interested in anal until we brought in another guy. With two dicks to play with she got more creative. Now she can't get enough.

 

Booze usually helps... To at least open up the lines of communication.

 

I was never able to get my wife to do anal until we did our first MFM, it was the other guy who had the privilege of being the first man to fuck her virgin ass. Since that first time I now also get to fuck her ass any time I want.

 

NOT NOTICE! UH YES, WE NOTICE!

I'd like to see her ram a DRY dildo up there and see how YOU like it!

Not notice... pfft, maybe if ur dick is the size of your pinky! That shit hurts!

 

Amen, Goldilocks. That's a good way to get kicked out of bed.

 

tequila :excited:

 

Put your tongue in there first and see hOw it goes, then try a finger

 

Tequila.......Classic! hahahaha

 

I do hope you're joking. A cock in the butt feels nothing like a cock in the vagina.

 

It makes a lot more sense for a guy to want something up his butt than a woman. You've got a prostate to be stimulated, she doesn't. If you think it's the bees knees, I suggest you put a dildo the size of your hard cock up your butt and see how much you like it. Some women just don't feel sexy there and you've got to ask yourself, why do you want to do something that she feels uncomfortable about or doesn't give her pleasure?

I've tried it to see what it was like and I didn't like it. It hurt (I have an internal hemorhhoid), it didn't feel sexy and I felt like I needed to take a dump. Personally I have a discussion with my potential lovers before we go to bed. I ask him what he likes and doesn't like and I tell him likewise. If he's really into anal, I just tell him that it ain't gonna happen and I wish him well.

 

…Anal sex seems to be all the rage. Is it really worth it?
As a woman, I am obviously able to compare with vaginal sex. I mean, is it not a fad…?
Why would a woman need anal sex, when she has got a vagina, the ideal self-lubricating device that Mother Nature specially crafted for the purpose?”
Anal sex may be all the rage, but it is not for everyone.
If it squeaks you out to think about it, you shouldn’t do it.
You especially shouldn’t do it with someone who tells you that everyone else is doing it.
Anal sex might be a fad; I can’t answer that question. I have no idea.
Let me tell you that I’ll keep on having anal sex for the next 20 years, and then I’ll get back to you on whether or not it’s a fad.
Now as far as “needing” anal sex.
Would your average woman die without it?
Of course! No!
Humans need physical contact, emotional bonding, and a healthy dose of lurve, but all that can be obtained in ways other than by putting something up your ass.
And sure, the vagina does generally self-lubricate! Quite nicely!
It does a wonderful job of welcoming in a hard cock and in my experience; at least, it seems to enjoy the presence of hard cock immensely.
What does a man feels inside the ass as compared to the vagina?
I know about the “tighter sensation” with the anal sphincter, but after that?
Vagina is like a sheath, adapting to the penis.
But in the butt, the passage becomes larger after a while.
It must feel like a void, doesn’t it?
What does the penis head “think” of this?
Once again I am reminded of the sad fact that I do not possess a penis and therefore cannot adequately answer this question.