I have a little different question than just "does size matter." I wonder if size matters in other ways than just during sex. Are well endowed men more confident, more outgoing, more respected than smaller men? Do well endowed men feel that their size gives them power? control? Do they think society should treat them differently because they are well endowed?

Just wonder if anyone here would like to discuss size on a deeper level than the usual "does it matter."

 

I think this one is going to be difficult for a lot of guys to answer because they're automatically "an ass" for answering because it means they think their cock is big...and we've been trained to be humble about it.

Thankfully, I don't give a fuck. I love my big cock. I LOVE it. Sure I'd maybe like a couple more in length, but overall, yeah I suppose I do derive some level of confidence from my penis.

That being said, it's more than fully counteracted by my body image as it pertains to the other 99% of me. So personally, if I were to lose about 150 lbs and really be in love with my body type, then I'd be supremely confident with the whole package, but the penis alone can't carry my entire ego...at the moment I'm only proud of my cock, nothing else.

As compared to other guys, well in my case that's a non-issue because I'm what I call an extreme grower. I'm packin' a tater-tot until I'm hard. Only then do I see the Keilbasa. So I don't worry about what another guy thinks of my cock say in the gym shower...back when I used to go to the gym lol.

 

In other words, does having a big penis make you the supreme alpha?

Hmm let's see, Jonah Falcon, the guy with the biggest documented penis in history (13.5"), is single and lives with his mom, can't catch a break in the acting business.

I'd rather be Brad Pitt with an average penis than be John Holmes with a horse-sized dick.

 

if it does give you more confidence then its probably a good thing that im around average because im already full of myself lol. my head would probably get so big that it would explode

 

LOL at ryl515... love a good sense of humor.

 

I think you've opened up quite a debate here, lets hope we can keep it on track.

Are well endowed men more confident/outgoing? In some cases I'd say yes. If two guys are in a bar, chatting with mates and a girl comes over, assuming they have similar personalities and were both raised in a similar neutral/positive way, but one had a tiny piece and one had a huge piece... In todays climate moreso than ever, with porn & so much emphasis being on penis size, yes, the bigger guy would be more confident and outgoing with the women.

Are endowed men more respected? I have big friends, small friends and average friends. I don't respect any of them any more or any less, atleast not based on their penis size. However I'm a straight man. Respect is earned through personality and achievements, not through what you were born with physically (Unless you're an athlete, but even then that requires years of work, you're just born with a big knob)

Do well endowed men feel that their size gives them power/control? Again I'd say this depends on their upbringing. I'm an average guy penis wise (6 inches erect, 5 1/2 inches girth) so I cant comment on this. Due to "other" issues which I'd rather not go into, lets just say I feel I have no power/control.

Do you think society should treat endowed men differently? No, but they will. Its the same with women deemed unattractive due to the medias influence and a very shallow upbringing. Theres alot of shallow people out there, almost certainly the majority. Even the best of us will source pornography based upon our dreams of physical perfection, rather than settling for an average/ugly looking case with nice personalities.


It doesn't concern me atall though to be honest. My girl likes my penis, and I like it too. She's the only one who ever has (and hopefully), ever will. :rose:

Fuck what everyone else thinks If someone looks down on me for having an average penis instead of a 12 inch monster, then they aren't worth a fuck. Same with any man who looks down on whats percieved as physical unattractiveness in a female.

/rantoff

 

Funny but not really relevant to the discussion

It comes down to culture, too

In ancient Greek society, having an abnormally large penis was something that was considered comical or grotesque, usually confined to fertility gods, half-animal critters and ugly old men.

 

It's how you use it.

 

hi, Tell me what makes u feel better? touch yourself, being touched or u do all the work?

 

People look at a well endowed guy and admire what he has. That builds confidence.

People look at a guy with a small dick and they giggle.

 

Be more specific! Which head are you talking about??

 

aint ever felt bad bout myself coz i gota big dick. jus sayin

 

I am smaller-endowed (4.8inches long x 4.6 girth) and have never had a problem getting or satisfying women. In fact, for being an anal sex obsessed guy, my size has been a blessing when convincing a woman whose never had anal or is reluctant to try it.

I have a FWB currently who's with me because in the beginning she was seeking to have anal but couldn't with her husband because he's bigger and way too thick for her.

I would rather be the size that I am than anything else because it has been quite lucky for me to be this way!!

 

Here's what I think....

One thing I remember from my physics class was that bigger objects have better residuum with other objects and their surroundings... I also remember that my classmates (boys) started laughing about it because all they had in mind was wholes and cocks and their "residuum".... although they were enthusiastic about it, I wasn't so into it, in fact it made me rethink some things.... I remembered the sight of one guy in shower that had about 6 inch cock that wasn't erected at the time, the guy was the silent type and he had no luck with girls either, he was into all the learning stuff, but he wasn't ugly or whatever else, he was just ordinary and it didn't seem that his big dick made any difference.... Also there once was this boy in Finland that I had to live with for a week or so.... he was about 10 then and I was maybe 12. We had to go to shower together and I still remember that I was so ashamed after I saw his cock. It was about 4 inches unerected. Not that I wasn't surprised about, but it made me think, why is it that way, why isn't he an ass about it etc? What I'm trying to say is that size isn't so dominant in our lives. Do you think that a guy is an ass-whole because of his seize, either way. No, he's an ass just because he is one. The same goes for "alpha" male. Even they have their problems. Guys don't think about their cock at all. While sitting in a bus or at computer I won't be thinking about how big it is or what I'm going to do with it. There's just no time to think about that small stuff....

1 thing is for sure. In shower with other guys cock is all that matters in the world, but even if you have "a big one" you'll never be completely happy with it.... ofc I don't know how that guy feel that has a leg size dick, but I bet he'll never be ok with it

We should make a thread about ladies and how confident or not they feel about their genitals.... maybe there's something more to it as well

 

I'm not sure.

I have a slightly above average sized cock, no monster here but I like it, shape, size, girth. I've been told it's attractive compared a lot.

However, I don't have the ego to match, sexually now at 28 I am quite confident, well actually I'm very confident I can please a woman, bit not because of my cock but because I listen, learn and feel what she enjoys.

Out of bed however I'm quite shy and quiet until I get to know people. I'm quietly confident I would say.

 

hmmm... both? haha

 

Seems to me that men who feel "inferior" feel the need to act more macho and show off their masculinity to make up for their insecurities. Well that or some men just feel insecure with themselves regardless of their size. I could be wrong but that's just my observation.

 

Have never heard of Jonah Falcon. I had once read in a Guiness Book of World Records that the longest penis (augmented) was something like 10.3". I would have figured John Holmes and Ron Jeremy are at least that long. I suppose it could have been a outdated figure.

Anyway, for the question. Regardless of the size of my tool, I have found myself in intimidating situations of life. Not once do I recall thinking "If only I had a bigger dick..."

 

I would think it would be a little like us girls and our breasts
To some, it does increase self conciense, to others not. We are all different and think different.
But as it look like men think size matter more, it could well be more important to them.