Girls,

Would you be put off having sex with a guy who was 20 but still a virgin?

Honest explanations please.

Cheers

 

No wouldn't be put off

 

You said "approx" and I'm 29 so I hope you don't mind that I throw my 2 cents in.

I would be put off because, in my experience, virgins are more likely to get very attached to their first partner. It would worry me and I would prefer to avoid anything complicated.

 

that wouldn't put me off

 

Aren't you lucky I got three kids then. Meet me in the usual place later.

 

Not at all.

 

Nope! As long as he's good at following directions, it should be just fine.

 

I absolutely love virgins!!

 

God, no! But then I am temptation/corruption incarnate

 

cheers for the response.

is it true for some people that they find that sort of a turn on or cute? lol

 

I'd think it was quite cute, and I'd quite like to 'deflower' a guy who hadn't done it before (I'm out of the age bracket by nearly ten years, but hey.... :-~ )

As Christina very rightly says, a guy of that age and inexperience is very likely to fall in love with his 'first', and that would be a nuisance - but if it was just a short-lived 'fling' I'd like to have a toy-boy!

 

Though I myself am a virgin, I agree with what Christina said.

I've chatted with virgin males before here on XNXX and even though we were just chatting, they started to become clingy, wanting to know me more and see how far we could go- a major pain in the ass really. I can't even imagine how they'd be if we actually had sex.

 

it wouldn't turn me off but it might make it a little awkward.

 

it's interesting that you say a guy would be clingy. Thought more likely to be the opposite?

 

I suppose it would depend on the guy and how much I liked it. I think I'd generally prefer to not be remembered as someones first if it was a "one night stand" sort of situation.

 

Becoming clingy is common. In general, people's personalities tend to change a lot when they lose their virginity. Really, even a non-virgin, if they haven't had many partners, will change somewhat the first time they have sex with you, just not as much.

 

I'm 20 and still a virgin. I find it a relief to know that there are actually girls out there who aren't bothered by it.

When my first time does someday come, if the girl was experienced. I'd be willing for the girl to guide me and show me what to do. That is, I need to find a girl first lol

 

honestly, it probably wont be as great as u expect. since its ur first time, u will probably be nervous and all that. plus u will cum fast haha

i say find a nice hot girl that would enjoy teaching a virgin

 

I'm not expecting my first time to be perfect when the time comes. I doubt anyone's first time is perfect. Yeah, I can imagine myself being nervous especially since I'm a bit shy.

Depends who I'm with I guess. If I was comfortable with the girl, then I'd be slightly relaxed.

That's why I'm not keen on losing my virginity to a complete stranger.

 

When I was younger, specifically in the age category listed in the OP, I would probably say I didn't want a virgin. Now that I'm older (and I'm not saying HOW old, lol), the thought of having an innocent male to mold into my own sexual deviant is a huge turn on :excited:.

I use to be in this role playing game forum thing and my character's "mate" real life human was only 20. He was not a virgin, but he was so sweet and innocent and did not know anything about fetishes and all that fun stuff. It was so much fun telling him things that he had never heard of before. Gawd, but that kid would have made one fine dom one day.

Ahhh, memories.