You're very normal.

My ex-affair partner was exactly like that. We had to have sex at work becuz her house wasn't always safe. But she was always horny :excited:.

 

So do I.

 

Huh?

 

Nope, not strange or abnormal. I was just talking about this to someone on another post. Apparently, women who can keep up with mens sex drives is not the norm...*shrugs* I love to have sex multiple times a day! Every day at least once, and this is after I masturbate by myself once or twice while my other half is at work.

 

I think Catrina said it right. What is normal for you is all that matters. Your sex drive is yours and nobody elses. Find a partner that appreciates your appetite and have a great life!

 

I wouldn't know what to do if I got it everyday.........be the happiest guy ever? I recently ended an 8 month relationship with a stripper and I think I got it 3 times. She said I was too big for her (it aint that damn big) and it took 2 days to recover from me. Plus she came really quick and once she did she was watching the clock (figuratively speaking) so it took me even longer to get there. I would joke about it to my friends and they would say "leave it to you to get an un-horny stripper" lol. It was a real bum deal because I was really hot for her, and she could have cared less. I told her if she wasn't gonna fuck me I may as well rub one out myself, I'm used to it anyway. She replied "is that all you think about? That was really gross and graphic." LMFAO seriously, she gets paid to rub on guys dicks all night and that's not graphic?

Anyway, I think its normal if that's what you need and want. I don't consider it abnormal, I consider it above average. As long as you're taking care of it in a healthy, conscentual manner.....

 

Have you considered the fact that maybe being in that type of environment on a daily basis kills the allure of sex for her?

 

what she said

 

It would be nice to know the stripper's history too. Is she stripping for the money? Or is there another reason that she needs to put herself out there to be oogled?

I agree with Finding. I don't think I could be a pornstar based on the meaningless sex. There has to be a connection of some sort to a person, it doesn't work any other way.

 

When you're not having sex, yes you get horny, but if every day you get bad sex, you never cum, you get so aroused that eventually you stop wanting it. It's like torture.

 

I'm sure it does, but she should have said that instead. Don't you think? Instead of making me feel like a pervert for being attracted to her? That's not why I ended it, though. She is all about game and gain. She probably had a few other "boyfriends" too, even though she claimed to be totally against cheating, saying she is a "one man woman". All I know is she really had issues, which comes as no surprise. I may never know the truth and I have to be cool with that to move on. The funny thing was....every time I would go to her work and get dances she was so turned on. It has to be a control thing. It usually is with those girls. No hard feelings though, fuck it.

I still have an above average sex drive and no one to enjoy it with.

 

They all have a history, and they all do it for the money. It just depends on what and who they spend it on. She has some real shitbags for role models, and she was raped @ 19 and had a child from it. She kept the baby, and she is adorable. I thought that was the sweetest thing ever.....I care about them both very much. But, its not a situation I can make better or fix, because at the end of the day she is a hood rat and embraces it. I come from a whole other world and it would never work out any way.

 

Rape is a big part of why she is weird about sex. I doubt she feels any pleasure from it, or as you alluded to, she cums quickly and waits for you to finish.

She is only doing what she has to to cope with her emotions. Did you pay to fuck her like a customer or do you expect someone that fucks for a living to cater to you?

 

hmmm

Your BF must be damn lucky....

 

im the same and im not a slut its not weired. lots of masturbation can help. and for a long time soloution you can try a sex machine though expensive its a good substitute untill you get a partner or when your partner isnt up for it

 

Nothing wrong with a healthy sex drive... Unless not being able to properly satisfy. I seem to have that issue and end up taking care of things myself...then when he finally does want to have sex I usually end up disappointed because he held out on me and it is quick and passionless. Good thing for my friends my fingers and toys.

 

As long as your sexual appetite doesn't get in the way of relationships, ambitions, and all the other things that are a part of living a healthy life and achieving self-actualization, your sexiness is a good thing. Cherish it!

Also, I think you are asking the wrong question.

You're asking if it is normal, and there really is no norm when dealing with human sexuality. A better question would be "is it healthy"? If sex urges is a consuming force in ones life than I would say it is unhealthy, especially when it comes to mental health. However, if you have a high sex drive but it doesn't get in the way of living or developing the kind of life you want, and you are somewhat the master of your sexuality, then it is perfectly healthy

 

In women it happens smtime ,u r very normal ,no need to be ashamed or panic

 

I don't have a male significant other at present. Sometimes wish I did. But I do have a very dear female friend who helps out by sharing with me. I think I am going to call her right now as I am really horny. It has been several days since she performed oral sex on me and I on her!

 

If I could I would definitely have sex everyday, my sex drive is high. I've always been horny but since I lost my virginity to my bf in March I seem to want it all the time. I can't have it everyday unfortunately because we live about 2 hours apart and don't see each other as often as I'd like but I'm not about to go get it anywhere else. I want sex with him, not just meaningless sex with some randomer.