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ok if this is for real it sounds like she is addicted to the toys and self play..she might never have loved you and maybe a closet lesbo

 

You got married too soon? Before anyone male or female commits themselves to marriage they must realise regardless if there is love or feelings that BOTH have a duty to fulfill each others emotional being.

You sound like a jerk. You are married to someone yet you demand sex daily and because she is your wife you expect she must give in. You also got a problem with her masturbating. I bet you masturbated so many times when she has denied you?

The common scenario here is you are heading for divorce. She is sick of the sex and probably is not feeling anything special from it. You are arrogant to say you have no problems with sex and satisfying her.

I get thinking that you are demanding for SEX SEX SEX every night and have no romance, no connection etc. with her. Your marriage is on the rocks, its all gone stale because you not stuck any effort in (granted that she should equally try as much).

It doesn't matter if you can make her cum at sex, once or hundred times, other men can do that for her.... not saying as a female she would open her legs, but guys would if they could, but she can also get the same or more satisfaction from sex toys.

You need to wake up and recall what happened. You are living a lie that all of a sudden she gone off sex. If she isn't satisfied, if you cared to read the signs, you would have known for 2 weeks or maybe 3 months before then, that the sex werent all what it used to be. Its not about a good fuck - she wants the romance and respect too. When was the last time SHE asked for sex?

Although she probably enjoyed it at first, sex has now become routine. Even if you were the best shag in the world with 100% accuracy... the level of sex is the same. No improvement. It would be better if you were like average and improving each time. When she is turned on... she use her toys - you werent even there!

Then you buy her a fucking sex toy?! This is perfectly normal for one half to give their other half such a present, but you giving mixed messages... you are either hinting to her and pressuring her for sex OR you are saying don't worry about sex... enjoy sex by yourself. It wasn't the right type of present.

When was the last time you got her flowers etc. or cooked her a romantic dinner and what was the ocassion? I think you need to realise that ultimately its not just her going off sex, but going off YOU. This isn't saying you can't rescue your marriage but you need to realise how serious this is.

I suggest you making an effort. going out for a meal or something, get home share a bottle of wine etc. and make it very romantic for her... but if its that out of place for you to do that she wont likely buy it. She isn't stupid she know you just want sex. So you need to think that you may never ever have sex with her again, so the best thing to do is keep with your hand for 2 weeks and ease off the pressure. Then show her how much you appreciate her and how you feel about her. Talk with her. I am hoping your marriage has just gone stale due to lack of spicing it up but if its gone on so long she is bored of you and losing feelings... then its all over. Get a divorce and let her be free (take up counselling first as a last resort but ebfore that try to make it work)

 

I think you need more experience to deal with women especially in your age

 

something sounds funny but why dont you try telling her the toys turn you on and you want to play with her and the toys. it might turn out to be a fun time making and or watching her with the toys to get you both hot and satisfied. ive been trying to get my wife to play with toys for years and she will only do it if i get her hot first then i use them on her. she wont do it herself.

 

Tell her you want her to fuck you up the ass with the biggest dildo she has maybe that will reignite the spark between you two.. hahah jk

I'm crazy if I was married and my wife wasn't fucking me as much as I would like I would think she was with someone else, which would likely lead me to see someone else or some other BS drama I don't want to deal with.

That's actually how some guys do it when they cheat on their wife with their mistress. They fuck their wife so much despite fucking their mistress a lot that the wife doesn't suspect anyone else being in the picture.

How much sex are you getting right now? it seems like you are getting very little if any.

I agree with what someone else posted the problem is your sexual chemistry not nessecarly your wifes problem per say. However there's times when the chemistry isn't fixable or you two are just on different pages with your wants and needs.

 

Get over yourself

Just because you are married does not mean you get sex everynight. You claim to be an all knowing stud in the bedroom, but your wife must not think so or she would not be getting herself off in the bathroom.Also sounds like your wife is afraid to open up to you. Why is she masterbating in the bathroom? Why not in bed?

We have been married for 32 years and have had our share of ups and downs concerning sex. We have always been able to talk it out, and found that sometimes K just wants to get herself off (I love to watch), sometimes she justs wants to fuck, and sometimes she wants to play with herself and then fuck (the best for me). However, we never try to force or hide what we do from each other. Yes sometimes I like to jerk off myself and she likes to watch.

Lastly, if you are both in your early to mid 20's, your wife is still learning what she likes about sex. Help her and encourage her to share what she is finding out about herself. Use this information to please her and you will find as you get older the sex will become better.

 

Your technique?

 

Registed? is that like throwing up?

 

troll

 

Watch her play and look at where and what she does. See why the toys do such a good job. Think about how it's different when you do it.

 

have you tried using the toys on her during?

 

Solid advice and I second it. Find a woman who'll do things your wife won't.

 

the truth has been told OP you need to read this

 

No fuck wad I'm no cyber cop. But was seeking more clarification, since he was indicating this was all his wife's problem, which much of the time ends up being some thing on the other end too. And if you read all the postings I did give him some helpful advice. But his statement really does not add up, since he posted he was 20, married for 2 years and then has that he is 25 in his profile, and indicates that he just registered, but has been a member since October, you can smell the bullshit. So piss off

 

Oh and I forgot to say... "Welcome to the Forum" Dick Wad

 

Thank you, guys.

 

If I had to resort to using sex toys in the bathroom, for me that would mean:

1) first and foremost my needs are not being met... both sexually and emotionally
2) see #1
3) see #2
4) all of the above!!!

think positive... at least she isn't out cheating on you....

 

You have already asked her the hardest question of your relationship . " Will you marry me " The both of your needs will change as you continue to grow in your relationship, be open and adaptable to overcome anything or anyone . 24 years married here , most of those were sunny days . Dont worry , be happy

 

:rose:Thank you very much for people who have the modesty to answer my question
thanks a million!

 

yea dude

for us guyz its juss a nude chick, we expect little or no involvement from the lady (in most cases), and we're done.

chicks expect a lot more. you have to make up stories, fulfill fantasies and what not......