what do u thing of people calling theirs lovers: slut, bitch, whore and other names like that? i find it insulting and degrading.

what do u thing guys and girls?

 

I call my gf a Slut when we're rp'ing or fantasizing avout her fucking tons of guys. Wouldn't do it if she didn't like it and as a general rule I don't believe in talking to women like that

 

ok during rp or fantasy, i meant usually, like

"yo bitch get me a beer"

 

I've met guys who talk about their wives in a degrading manner. Stuff like what a dumb bitch she is or how she can't do things right. It always makes the person who says this stuff look bad. I mean if she's so stupid, why couldn't he find a smarter wife? It's a reflection on him actually. He must be so stupid this is the best wife he could get.

I once met a neighbor's parents that came to visit. As they introduced them to us, the neighbor's father said of his wife, "She ain't much to look at but she's been around for this long so I might as well keep her."

There was a long silence after that and he only made himself look like a fool.

However, if you're in bed with the wife and going at it when you call her a nasty bitch, that's perfectly acceptable imo.

 

During the thrills of sex, he can call me what ever he likes. Any other time, it would be his last. Guys are easy to get, good ones is what is hard.


Love Megan

 

Of course it's insulting and degrading in the context of normal conversation. Anybody who does that is just a jackass.

But some insults can be playful, my wife's pet name for me used to be fucker anytime I said something that pissed her off and amused her at the same time. But I'm not sure fucker counts as an insult. I always thanked her for it anyway.

 

This really depends a lot on the context and the people involved.

 

im talking about the non sexual thing, i can understand during r or smth...

 

I think it is situational. Some of us actually get wet between our legs and crave being sexually degraded.

Love,
Lynn-nyc

 

It has to be during sex. Any other time it's degrading and deserves a good hard slap.

But that applies to the woman too - so many of them think nothing of insulting men but scream blue murder if it happens to them.

 

As most have said:

If it's during sex, it's up to the woman to see if she likes it or not.

In regular life, never ever ever!

 

To the naked eye that might be the case. A stupid gf is a lot easier to handle and order around than a smart one. If she is hot, even better you have the best of both worlds. And if you are talking about "wives" things are much better. You can have a stupid wife to run around for you and a smart girlfriend to challenge you and give you advice. Of course since she is in a gf status you can always dump her ass the minute she becomes too anoying.

 

the feeling is neutral for me

 

In bed, if a man called me a whore or slut, I'd dig it

Out of the bed, I'd kick him in the nuts

 

It all depends on your partner, in the bed is one thing and no secure man would talk about his wife or girlfriend like that out of the bedroom and only if she wanted him too.