I'm a straight dude and I've never preformed oral on a girl before. Compound this with being a med student and you've got a problem. Meaning I've studied to much about anatomy and diseases south of the border(i.e. bacterial vaginosis) It's just so weird of a concept to me. I know it gets girls off and something I really REALLY enjoy is giving a girl pleasure. I really get off on it. And I know that this is one of the best ways to do it. I just can't get past the medical block/ what it would taste like. I'm sure it can't be a good taste (even though I've heard people on here saying how much they love it).

Any advice out there? Stories from guys/lesbian women who have thought about this and overcome it?

Truth/Honesty would be appreciated. Douche-baggy responses, not so much.

P.S. I tried to search and couldn't find anyone asking this question before. Maybe I'm the only one.

 

Ok to get u started, try it in the shower. get her in there and turn the heat up and relax and touch. When u go down (this won't be comfortable in the shower) the shower will have taken away any smell or taste. This should take away any of ur first fears

Now from my experience it is very rare to have any smell or taste as long as the girl is turned on, wet, and not dirty. bad smells and tastes mean something is up. I guess there is something there but if u stay on the clit, that doesn't come into play much. so use a finger to go inside and lick the clit. ur finger can go deeper anyway (assuming ur not a lead singer for KISS).

Once u get used to it take it into bedroom. Oh almost forgot. If you have a girlfriend and you can talk to her about it, get her to eat crap load of cantaloup for like two days. or watermelon or some fruit in this category. It really will taste like it if there is enough in there. Had that experience with the ex and oranges. She ate like 5 one day when skiing with family in highschool. she tasted great when we came back for an "early lunch" the next day.

 

Doc....that's incredibly helpful! Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. I also thought of using honey, what do you think?

 

Honey works good and as a woman I love it when the guy or girl teases me a little first. Just don't dive into my pussy use that tongue by running it up my legs and use it all over my thighs. Especially on my inner thighs, tickle me there with your tongue slowly working your way up to my pussy. Mmmmmm

 

Giving a woman oral is an acquired taste. Each woman tastes different from the foods that she eats to her nationality. Sometimes alot of the tastes and aromas have much to do with how she dresses or whether she showers beforehand.

I suggest now that you're no longer a virgin, first talk it over with your current girlfriend. Ask her what she likes and use as much time as you need to get used to eating her out. Dive right in or linger over it, it really is up to you

There isn't a tried and true method to give a woman head. Don't be afraid to ask for directions because your woman knows her way better (hopefully) than you. But use your tongue and lips in the same way you would when kissing her. Slow, light flicks of the tongue around her clit. Suck on her folds and generally enjoy yourself. She isn't going to be timing you on this.

 

LOL thats the problem. I'm not currently in a relationship. If I had a committed relationship, I think it would be easy to be open about it b/c in that situation you're in it for more than just the sex. But living the single life, when girls give you head they generally expect it in return and thats where my I find myself lost.

 

i love eating girls out and some do naturely have a strong taste and odor. but i tend to suck on the clit slowly and lick the lips and they moad just from that lol. but my last gf had a strong taste but once you really get intoit should not be as bad lol

 

Well, I'm definitely not a lesbian, but I've given myself a "taste/smell test". The juice on the outside and just inside the vagina is very fluid and quite mild tasting/smelling. Different than anything else for sure, but not unpleasant at all. I had a boyfriend that liked to pull out and cum in my mouth, so I was tasting me from deep inside. I admit, that was quite a bit funkier. I can't say I'd do that again.

I'm sure, as some have pointed put, that nutrition has something to do with it. It certainly does for the taste of men's semen. Better for both of you to load up on fruit for the day than aspargus and brussels sprouts.

But you might as well dive in and try it. You're going to do it someday anyway. Go ahead and get past the fear. You might find you really like it. Most guys do. Touch her, get the juice on your fingers and slowly lick it off, in front of her. That would be sexy to me.

As for infections, that's just the chance you take, being a sexually active person. Take a shower together. Good old soap and warm water does kill some of the germs, even if it doesn't kill all of them. At least as a med student you'll recognize any symptoms you might have and treat infections early.

 

Personally I've never licked around the "opening" of a woman, only ever on the clit so I'm not sure exactly how womens "juices" taste. But from what I've experienced you can't really taste anything, more of a smell than anything but it's not offensive in any way - in fact it's sort of a nice pleasant smell. (Well at least with the people I've been with, there are obviously some women who aren't particularly clean.)

I had a fear of doing it as well really. I'm a picky eater (in regards to food) and cannot stand anything which has a bad slimy texture so I had this fear of having any kind of "sexual juices" in my mouth but after you do go down on a woman once you sort of realize that your dislikes in food hasn't got much to do with your likes in pussy.

 

Well TalkinDirty...

... it seems that your medical education has caused you to overthink performing oral sex on your girlfriend. Remember, when we are sexually aroused we are apt to doing things we may not normally do (just like after a few drinks we may do things, good or bad, that we may not normally do). Anyway, I have been enjoying oral on my wife for years. It usually starts out as we are preparing to go out for the evening and she is freshly showered and shaved, she insists on being clean first, and I agree. As I lick her pussy lips, clit, and plunge my tongue into her I begin to notice the wonderful muskey sent of her arousal. Next as she begins to cum I experiance a very pleasant taste I can best describe as "tangy". At this point I can't wait to fuck her freshly licked pussy, so as I penetrate her with my cock I plunge my tongue into her mouth to share the sexy taste of her pussy. So my advice, ask her (nicely) to be clean, ask her to shave or you shave her (if she's into it) and enjoy !

 

The first woman that I went down on had a sharp, acidic taste. Not sure if it was because she may have been nearing/or recently off her period. Hopefully, not a yeast infection. I remember having a sore throat and coughing mucus in the days after.

For the most part, all since then have been milder or more pleasant to the taste.

 

in that case, i would find a nice, clean woman to hookup with. make it a one night stand thing. in the heat of the moment, just spread her legs and go down on her. once u do it, u will see its not as bad as u think. i enjoy it a lot

 

This has been really helpful. Especially the stories about people who have previous had the same fears/thoughts/hesitancies and how they responded to them. Anymore?

 

Every woman not only tastes different than other women, but the same woman can taste different depending on diet (as stated by others), point of time in her cycle, hygiene, etc. I've tasted fingers/toys that have been in my pussy at different times of my cycle. I've never been 'grossed out' or turned off, but I've definitely noticed a difference.

I think you're over-thinking the whole bacteria thing. I haven't had that many girlfriends, but I've had/gave cunnilingus on a pretty regular basis over the last few years and not had any negative effects.

Some of the best head I've gotten has come from women who show an interest in pleasing me and asking what I like (both one-night-stands and longer-term relationships). So even if you just brought her home from the bar and don't know her last name, talk to her. Assuming of course that you're not drunk off your ass and actually able to process what she's telling you.

Good luck! and good eatin'!

 

I love eating my girls pussy

 

I definitely am over-thinking it. I guess I just don't know how to stop. Over-thinking is kind of what I do. I'm in med school.

 

If you're in med school, you should have learned by now that there are microbes everywhere, and you have an immune system to cope with them. If it's smells you're worried about, the solution is simple -- be clean, and make sure your partner is clean. That's what showers are for.

You're going to have to get yourself over this if you're ever going to enjoy sex the way it was meant to be enjoyed. There's no bigger buzz kill, in my experience, than a germophobic partner who goes running for the Phiso-Hex the first time he comes into contact with another person's bodily fluids.

 

Man trust me you should enjoy it. For me I love pleasuring a woman sometimes when Im not getting anything out of it. So i enjoy fingering or eating out a chick. I can understand worrying about her being clean cuz that it is a little gross. But if she is clean then its fun watching her squirm around while you pleasure her

 

if you dont enjoy eat pussy then try Hanus rims

 

I personally love the scent of a woman. It makes me really horny as she gets wetter through the process. Feeling her juices drench my chin as we go makes it even better. A couple of times though I have been with a woman who just worked out, and the scent can resemble something like not using deodarant. But hey, nothing is perfect. I am sure she has toughed it out with me a few times!