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  1. Morbidreams

    Morbidreams Porno Junky

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    Actually I like going down. Your argument is invalid.

    I also don't care if the female hates anal. I'd rather they let me know they are completely uninterested. That way I can just move along if we don't have enough else in common. Not everyone is going to be into every kink. I understand that and respect that. The goal (at least for me), is to hit with someone who has enough similar fetishes or at least don't mind the others.

    After all, the goal for me is mutual pleasure. No point in doing something that's going to turn her off instead of get her off.

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    As to if women enjoy anal? Obviously some do and some don't. Just like some guys enjoy receiving anal and some guys don't.
    I've been with women that love it, and would even rather take it that way than any other way. Others don't even like guys
    thinking about their ass that way.
     
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  2. knoxvillainswife

    knoxvillainswife Porn Star

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    Wow Joe, wish you could meet some of the men I've dated. Considering they wouldn't do ANY of the above and still expected me to act like a love slave, I'd say the double standard is alive and kicking. Hell I've had them tell me not to masturbate either, anything pleasurable is bad :mad:
     
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  3. XmasGirl

    XmasGirl Amateur

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    I do enjoy it from time to time with lots of lube ... however, I absolutely love to have my ass licked. It is an AWESOME feeling.
     
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  4. xiara74

    xiara74 Porn Star

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    Joe just likes to be provocative. So logic isn't generally used.

    Based on his logic, since blow jobs aren't mentioned, he no longer them.

    But this is a forum and he can say anything he likes. In real life, it's probably a different story.

    I just worry about the fools who'll read his message and get stupid ideas.
     
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  5. EMG_GUY

    EMG_GUY Amateur

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    resentment issues much?
     
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  6. deleted user 1548766

    deleted user 1548766 Porn Star Banned!

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    My point still stands that we guys do all sorts of crap that we personally don't like---or even find distasteful, gross, uncomfortable, etc.---solely because we think that the women in our lives like it.
    I prefer my women to be a total whores in bed.

    You really need to find better dates? ;)
    Yes. I like to bullshit and exaggerate. But there is usually an underlying point that I'm making. The point I'm making is that ladies need to "give" a little and do what the guy wants every now and then. I can assure you that if you do that he will not stray.

    BTW who said anything about me not liking blowjobs??? :confused:

    Hell if I could blow myself I wouldn't even need a woman. :mrgreen:
    I don't resent all women. :rolleyes:
     
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  7. xiara74

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    Let's talk give and take.

    Eating pussy is the equivalent of a blow job. It's more about the receiver.

    Foreplay works both ways and usually includes the above along with asslicking.

    So you want anal without actually giving anything extra!
    Let her peg you, then.

    Also asslicking, going down and foreplay don't actually hurt you.

    So your argument is illogical.

    Bullshit.
     
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  8. deleted user 1548766

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    I'm not into asking for anything that I'm unwilling to receive myself. After all I'm the guy who started threads about wanting to be fucked in the ass by a shemale or a woman with a strapon. :rolleyes:
    Neither does anal if it's done properly...i.e., easy and slow [at least at the first] and with plenty of lube.
    No. It's perfectly sound.
     
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  9. blktoy

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    Women

    The key to great anal for women is to get her very aroused ,with lots of foreplay.I like my women fresh from the shower after a nice enema and then give them a nice tongue lashing.Use a lot of lube and go nice and slow until she is used to you in her ass and let her set the pace.All the women I have done that with have learned to love it except my ex wife and she had other issues from her past that caused that I think.Ladys there are more nerve endings in your ass than any place on your body and most all the women I have been with have great orgasms from anal so all I can say is explore and enjoy.
     
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  10. Almas

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    Good points but the op wanted to broach the subject with his gf, if she hasnt done anything anal before I cant imagion her being open to an enema from the off. She would need to be comfy with the feeling of things in her ass and swollen bowls before having an enema, that would probably frighten her off.
     
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  11. xiara74

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    I tried all that and more.

    I may sound anti-anal, but I'm not. I just want guys to realise that not all women will like it and it's not something they should demand.

    I wanted anal.
    I like my ass to be licked. I like anal fingering. I used dildos on my ass when I masturbated.

    But the pleasure zone of the anus is small. Sensitive, but small.
    And if you insert something bigger than a finger, then the balance of sensation changes. And discomfort/pain overrides any pleasure.

    No fun.

    And I think unless you try it yourself. . . then you won't fully get this.
     
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  12. Mattress

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    Definitely start with rimming. Also, be willing to reciprocate. Don't ask her to do anything you wouldn't do. Try having her fuck you up the ass with fingers or toys to see how you like the feeling.
     
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  13. star_sry

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    i dont like so much...

    but,

    if my bf want, i can do it for him... :)
     
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  14. Khione

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    It does, and quite frankly I've had some of the most intense orgasms from it, though I don't always want it all the time. The main thing guys like to forget about anal is to let HER be in control. Start with some play, lightly finger the outside of her asshole, give it a lick if you feel comfortable, and if she seems to like it, gently slip a finger inside. I wouldn't go past the first knuckle if she's an anal virgin. It's important to build up to things, and if she says it's hurting, STOP. If you force things you'll only piss her off and she'll most likely not want to do it again. I'm not trying to sound sexist or selfish, but it's about her, not you. She's the one taking something foreign into her ass. Take things slowly and if you do work up to full on anal, use plenty of lube and as I said above, let her control how fast she takes you. It might be hard to resist the urge to plow right on in, but that's almost always a surefire way of never getting anal from her again. Be patient.
     
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  15. hotpants69

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    mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm love it when you go on the way and its one pleasure after the other, when he makes it to that hot tight love canal that means he is a great lover.thats a treat but to be honest i love it to
     
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  16. Charlesk55

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    I've done it a few times, and that's the way - slow and easy. An anal lube that desensitizes also can help, especially with a woman who is afraid. Every woman I've been with that went for it, loved it after getting used to it. But it takes a while - can't just slam it in. Doing the enema thing is for way later, after she gets to liking a stiff one in her ass.
     
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  17. Fantasiafox

    Fantasiafox Sex Lover

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    I cum from anal sex if I am on my back, my legs on his shoulders, drives me crazy. First time he fucked me twice and I came both times. Last time I came as he fucked me and i scopped it up and ate it as he did me.
    Really enjoyed it......!
     
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  18. xiara74

    xiara74 Porn Star

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    Wouldn't desensitising ruin the pleasure for her?
     
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  19. Khione

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    From what I understand, they don't numb you for very long; just enough to take away the initial sting of penetration. It's not like injecting yourself with novocaine.
     
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  20. xiara74

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    I'm just curious.
     
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