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  1. treen

    treen Porn Star

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    I am old enough to remember when a woman shaving her pussy was seen as transgressive and provocative, but that stopped being true a couple years before people started to freak out about Y2K and shaved pussy became something that women had to do. Till around 1998 I used to just trim my bush maybe once in two months or so.
    Shaving the pussy is now the default, no longer something that women do for pleasure, but as a duty if they don’t want to be seen as gross and unkempt.
    Twenty years ago, women who shaved were shamed; now, women who don’t shave get shamed for being disgusting and gross.

    Amanda Palmer’s song, “Map of Tasmania” is a flamboyant, shameless ode to female pubic hair. It’s joyful, and sexy, and the video, which shows off some very creative merkins (pubic wig), is even better.
    In Tasmanian parlance ‘map of Tasmania’ means women’s pubic bush because of the triangular shape of the island I believe.
    One part of the lyric I quote:
    “Soft and sweet and shaped like a triangle
    Some girls want no shape and they shave it all
    That’s so whack, it hurts with the stubble
    Walking ’round and look like an eight-year-old”


    We really need to get back to the idea that pubic bush isn’t gross.
    When shaving first started to become common, anti-sex activists created an imaginary connection to pedophilia. These people claimed that to like shaved pussy was to reveal your inner fetish for fucking little girls. It wasn’t presented as an argument; more a self-evident truth.
    All our talks about sex are defined by shame, and switching one kind of shame for another gets us nowhere.
    If we try to get back to the point where shaving will be considered disgusting and gross, then we’ve accomplished absolutely nothing.
    How do we reclaim the sexiness of having hair as an option without abusing shavers/waxers/etc?
    The shaved vs. unshaved issue seems to polarize people.
    We should start to think more about the variety, the unrelenting uniqueness of each pussy instead of trying to making a new standard that everyone either has to live up to or feel ashamed.
    I think that Amanda Palmer is on the right track with “Map of Tasmania.” It’s a celebration not only of pussy hair’s beauty, but of its variety. In her video, no two merkins look alike, and it’s only a short jump from that to remember that in real life, no two pussies look alike.
     
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  2. mrstennbabe

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    Last I checked, it was a personal preferance.

    I shave compelty because I feel cleaner. and pubic hair smells ( NO MATTER if you bathe or not)
     
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  3. ombligo

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    Not sure why but I found the question interesting and decided to look a bit further into female shaving. In the US, the fairly universal practice of shaving pits and legs is traced back to 1915 when Max Sennet demanded his female actresses shave for his movies. Young girls began to copy the practice and it has become the norm.

    In Europe, the practice is not as widespread but is now the norm due to US influence. The same seems true in Latin America (personal observation).

    source: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070228195109AAMoFX9
     
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  4. xiara74

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    Interesting topic, treen.
    We're on a porn forum here. So most of us will have been influenced (to varying extents) by what we see in pornography.
    Just consider some of the other things that are now considered "normal" and that we discuss here ad infinitum. A lot of that stuff was rarely seen a generation ago.

    So lately, full, natural, pubic hair has almost become a 'fetish' thing and in the minority.

    Personally, I have no problem with pubic hair. I often let mine grow out. But I'm not overly hairy, so it would never get to the extent of some of the photos (usually shown by the anti-hair brigade).

    But my choice is to leave a bit on top. I've shaved it completely before but I don't like how it looks. I to see a bit of hair when I look down.

    I think a trimmed bush is sexier than a totally shaved one.

    How do we reclaim the sexiness of having hair as an option without abusing shavers/waxers/etc?

    As long as we're exposed to porn where the majority depicts shaved women, then that will continue to be the preference shown by the greater part of the people in this kind of forum.
     
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  5. oldiegoody

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    In one of his books, Tropic of Cancer or Tropic of Capricorn, Henry miller, who's books were banned in the US for years, describes going to a sex worker who had a shaved pussy. He was absolutely horrified! He described it as looking like a dead clam! If you've ever seen a big bar clam partially open, then you realize its pretty accurate description.
    I love a nice full bush. Something you can run your fingers through on the way to the pleasure center. A place to nuzzle you nose and tung in as you travel toward the place of paradise.
    Any woman who practices good personal high gene doesn't have pubic hair that smells unpleasant. Guess I'm just old fashioned.
    If you want to shave, go for it, but there are some of us that just prefer it
    au naturelle.
    Also the crotch is a major place of heat loss and like you head the hair is there for a reason, it keeps your body warm in cold temperatures.
     
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  6. Mattress

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    There's a poem by Robert Burns - "Nae Hair On It" about how shocked he was by a woman with shaved pussy. I'm also old enough to remember when, even in porn, hairy pussies were the norm. I like the look of both shaved and natural, but I certainly prefered if when it wasn't just assumed that a woman would shave, and that not shaving was poor hygiene or personal grooming.
     
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  7. Tuninyabum

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    IMHO only, it should be shaved from the clit downwards.
    Agreed that a fully shaven pussy looks too pre pubescent, but I don't expect there to be hair where my mouth will be either.
     
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  8. xiara74

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    I think the hair there is more akin to the hair under your arms. It's moisture-wicking and so draws moisture away from the skin, thereby reducing bacteria build up.

    I agree with this. I shave from the beginning of the slit downwards. The bit I leave is on top.
     
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  9. okieblueyes

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    Over the years I have seen the Shift from full bush to shaved and I myself enjoy the trim over the barren
     
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  10. baesil

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    This exactly. Not only that but it came uncomfortable to have so I just shaved completely.

    But what you've wrote treen is very interesting. I've never seen it like that. But then again there's always a change in something so it doesn't bother me.
     
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  11. tommyturtle

    tommyturtle Having an Out of Shell Experience

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    I got married as a virgin and never saw porn until several years later. She wasn't shaved then so I got used to it. She tried having me shave her. That was fun and resulted in a different but also nice effect. We go back and forth. She'll shave for a while then not shave for a while.

    Now if there was a way to have the same woman both ways at the same time...that would be interesting. Pubs are great for fingering. Shaved is great for licking. She has to decide which she wants.
     
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  12. treen

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    I ve stopped shaving now for some days now!
    It was a bit itchy for a few days and funny(embarrasing??) for few days of stubble as I got the itch to scratch my crotch publicly!
    Its growing up nicely now.
    I'll see after a couple of months whether to let it go all natural or go for some artistry down there.
    Sounds interesting, no?
     
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  13. flipper972

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    I think it is all just a matter of personal prefferance. Some women That I know say it makes it more sensitive to touch while being completely shaved or waxed. Others just like to have it trimmed or even the full bush. Me I like it neatly trimmed or completely free of hair.
     
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  14. RegressOffender

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    For me it is mandatory, if they want any kind of oral sex from me. The vagina is cleaner and there are no pubic hairs getting caught in my throat. I do the same, manscape my pubis and scrotum....
     
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  15. axsiter

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    Personally I love to see pubic hair on women. It turns me on. I love a full bush!
     
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  16. knoxvillainswife

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    Some of us don't have a choice anymore, being one of those women that if I didn't trim and keep it shaved I'd be a classic for the "Anti-hair brigade", I shave the slit and keep the top very closely trimmed, to avoid the :shock: looks when I take my pants off. Fully shaven is something I cannot do, Stubble and ingrown hairs anyone? And even with this many men wig out, as if pubic hair is something absolutely disgusting. I personally feel this is wrong. When I look at a woman I prefer to see some of her pubic hair, that it's sexy and attractive, like the bush is hiding a wonderful secret, along with being fun to play with, comb with your fingers and nuzzle. That's part of foreplay for me, like kissing the inside of the thigh, it's a thing that should be instead of going straight for the goal. Then again, if no one shaved, the thrill wouldn't be there, now would it? I just feel the obsession with natural woman and altering of the way the normal body looks and smells has been taken to an extreme.
     
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  17. austin42

    austin42 Porn Surfer

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    i personally don't mind bush, i think it is kinda hott :excited:
     
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