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  1. guynextdoor

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    First , I apologize for my bad English coz it’s my second language.

    I have a big problem and I wanna ask if this problem is common or not.
    I’ve been masturbate from about 14 years and it was normal to me to do it 2 or 3 times per day and when am busy I do it just 1 time, but from about a month when I masturbate I feel with soo much pain in my prostate and I’ve visited the doctor and he said it’s just “congested” coz my masturbation. And coz of that pain I just jerk off once in a week. I feel with soo much worry if I can have sex with my GF or not coz I feel soo much pain and I don’t know that to do. So my Question is , Is masturbation for long time coz that or I have infected wz something else? BTW I did a sonar and it’s positive I don’t have any kind of tumor. So if anyone can help me I’ll be soo great full
    Thnx
     
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  2. FamilyFuckerIII

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    So a month after you masturbate, you feel pain in your prostate?

    http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?art=547

    "Excessive sexual activity, over-masturbation and prolonged sexual fantasy lead to overproduction of androgen hormones, causing adrenal and sex organ fatigue, and excess release of dopamine to maintain prolonged sexual arousal."

    Essentially, masturbating too much can be harmful.

    "All of this over-activity and stress causes the pituitary gland and testicles to become disabled for a few days or even months, leading to a long refraction time or a long-term sexual exhaustion and inflammation."

    "Herbal therapy can help heal your prostate. Saw Palmetto is the most researched, effective herb for prostate health in its purest, solvent-free supercritical extract form. Green Tea offers 51 anti-inflammatory phytonutrients, with critical anti-aging and prostate-specific health benefits."

    The article details more prostate-friendly herbs and such, so hopefully you'll take a look.
     
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  3. YoungMan305

    YoungMan305 Porn Surfer

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    If the doctors say you should slow down, then maybe you should just slow down.
     
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  4. GeekyGuy1983

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    Stop completely for a week, then go back to it. That's what I had to do.

    I was at 2-7 times per day when it started giving me headaches afterward. (Usually 3.)
     
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  5. guynextdoor

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    i already stop it for more than a week and still i feel with pain , constant pain , i can't even be hard or anything :(
     
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  6. bi_daddy_lover

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    what else did the doctor say aside that your congested??? he should have clearly explain to you how long you should be expecting the pain until it subside...

    also, dont push your body to its fullest now esp if u still feel the pain. give yourself some time and seek another doctor for a second opinion.
     
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  7. JackTRipper

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    No problems for me

    I've had an average of one orgasm per day every day for 37 years, either with a partner or from masturbating. Usually masturbating ;-). I am 49 now and have no problems. Everyone is different and health problems vary one person to the next. I'd get a 2nd opinion.

    By the way, if a medical test shows no problems, then it's "negative." "Positive" means there is a problem. :)
     
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  8. knoxvillainswife

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    OK, I may be a woman but I'm going to add my 2 cents, I think you should get a second opinion, some of my bf's have endured what you have but it never lasted for months, at the most for a week.
     
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  9. yoko269

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    From the sounds of it you may just be over-doing it for your body. Everyones different so while it may be ok for someone else to masturbate 2-8 times a day others may only be able to do it once or twice. Some even less than that. I know for myself i can only do it once or twice a day. But I agree with some of the other comments on here and that is you should probably take some time off completely. Not just slow down but for a limited time completely stop. It may be difficult given how much you have done it but if you do it all ad there is still pain you risk even further damage, especially considering you cant get hard at all now there may already be some permanent damage. I also agree with getting a second opinion from another doctor. The one you saw may be good but even doctors are human and can make mistakes. Its good that you have the support of your girlfriend. Hopefully things get better for you man. Best of luck.
     
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  10. BoycuntNeedsMeanMan

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    This doctor sounds like a quack. Maybe s/he doesn't know much about sexual health, but jerking off 1-3 time a day shouldn't do anything. Especially if you've been doing it for years and the problem has only come up a month ago.

    Before buying expensive supplements, I would definitely go see another doctor, or at least look up your problem in a Google Search. Can you tell us how long you normally take each time you masturbate?

    And yes, if they said "your test was positive", that is bad news.
     
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  11. ladygodiva123

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    I agree. It doesn't sound like your doctor knows what he's talking about. How could your prostate be congested if you're masturbating 1 to 3 times a day. It sounds like it's inflamed (prostatitis) for some reason.
     
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  12. JS3776

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    I would get a 2nd opinion
     
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  13. guynextdoor

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    ok , i understand now, my tests " Negative " i don't have any kind of problems and even the sonar is negative.

    i'll go for another doctor and c wat he's gonna say :(
     
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