I'm a bi male and like to bottom from time to time. Feels good, but my cock doesn't get hard. Porno videos almost always show the bottom guy hard. For all of you bottoms, how often do you get hard while a guy is pounding your ass? Always? Sometimes? Rarely?

 

Fairly rarely. It's difficult to stay hard while you have so much sensation 'round the other end. It's normal and nothing to worry about.

 

For me it depends on the position. Doggy is usually not conducive to getting or keeping a hard on. If I am on my back though I usually get a raging hard on. Especially if the guy fucking me is playing with my cock while he is riding my hot tight ass.

 

most guys don't stay hard during anal because the penis often isn't getting direct stimulation.

 

I've never taken it (well not yet haha) but having played with my ass a bit i find that i lose my hardon unless i'm very relaxed. I've fucked 6 guys till now and they all had very hard cocks while taking it, but they were experienced bottoms.

 

Thanks! I guess I need to get to the expert, relaxed stage! I'll work on it...with help of course.

 

I really don't worry nor do I care about being hard when someone is banging my ass... I still have great orgasms even without touching my cock.

 

As Regomar said it is nothing to worry about and rarely happens...
I have a few friends and aquainteces in the porn industy and they to will
tell you that it rarely happens and what you see is a result of him jacking or friend jacking him to make and keep him hard....This too doesn't always work nor does it last long....

Sorry if this bust your bubble but the few minutes you see in a clip may have taken hours to put together and it also maybe looped as well....

 

Not everyone is the same buddy, fuck porn and all that half the time those guys don't even enjoy the fucks, it's work for them, from the real life experience i had all the guys i fucked were hard the whole time and they werent jerking off, you just have to really be in to it, be very horny and have some experienc as a bottom so it doesn't stress you out.

 

I don't keep a hard cock either when i get fucked. But I still sometimes ejaculate.

 

Great perspective...thanks!

 

For me it really depends how long its been since I blew a load,
if it has been a few days and I get fucked I am rock hard while he fucks me.

 

I don't think it will really stay hard while being fuck.. unless there will be some stimulation.. and if you'll notice, some of the guys on porn usually stroke their cocks while being bang, that should be the reason they are hard during anal sex..

this is just my opinion.. as much as I wanted to share my own experience but I haven't got fuck in the ass but if ever I will be.. I'll observe and see

 

It depends on the situation. More often than not, I am not hard. But that is no negative count against the guy fucking me. The sensation of being drilled into my bowels and beyond is just sensational in its own right. If I jerk myself (or he jerks me), then I can get real hard in a jiffy.

But I am the right size (with a big pliant cock head) and learned how to fuck guys where I crash into their prostates (not too hard). When that happens to me, I feel the impact into the root of my cock and I am stretched hard, flinching, and leaking.

 

eh....for me , it depends on what's going on around....kinda random most times. sometimes, it's just "TALLY HO! CHIPS AHOY", and sometimes it's limp like a two week old banana. still feels good most times regardless of an erection. but usually, when too many things are distracting my eyes, the erection dissipates.

on a side note, being erect while being fucked is the most enjoyable, especially when cumming.