Hey Horney, just a thought. Maybe you've got it the wrong way around. Most people know that sex puts a strain on the heart - Maybe she's just terrified that sex will cause another heart attack and kill you, and that is the LAST thing she wants. Sometimes it pays to walk a few steps in her shoes(I know they don't fit but you know what I mean).

I don't know your circumstances, but MAYBE she'd rather not have sex, if sex risks her losing her "cuddle bunny" or whatever she calls you. Worth thinking about ???

PS I've been married 33 years and have high blood pressure . . .same situation.

 

Corpo, I f the lady comes along - go for it. Love and sex are not the same thing. Sex can be done without in the long term . .love and companionship can't.

 

the same problem!!!

We have been working on it! Luckily escorts have filled the void but I do feel guilty sometimes. I am not getting any young though and there are some wonderful caring GFE's out there! I am at happy200969 at yim near Philly if any ladies need some fullfillment!:grin::rose:

 

Ooohhh God. . . . .Another newbie dickhead who thinks this site is an advertising point for losers who can't get a fuck.:-s:-s:-s

 

mine too

My wife lost interest about 10 years ago. She never was really into sex much. Me I always have and still do. Like so many other on here, I asked, waited, talked about with real conversation, hinted, asked, even pleaded a few times....but then I just gave up. She had turned a corner.

I had a few one nighters and a few 2 or 4 timers but I didn't want a relationship. I love my wife...a lot. But I need sex, fairly often.
After a couple of years of this I started going to gloryhole theaters and getting BJs. After about a year of only getting them I started giving them too. Now, I try to hook up over the net and thru Craigslist etc with other married men. Apparently there are a lot of us looking for sex.

Seems like each year I'm more and more into man2man sex. I still don't have any desire for anything but sex with a man. But I do like it...a lot now. It appeals to my kinky side and taboo stuff is always hot to me.

I'm careful and I've even told my wife of my interest but not that I've actually done it...I think she knows but doesn't want to talk about it.
Its too bad it worked out this way I guess but I'm just glad that I haven't had to just give up my sex life..it's important to me.

 

I told my husband many times, if ever there is something sexual that I cannot provide, let me know and I'll make it so. If he wanted c*** he could have all the c*** he wanted. If he wanted female orgies, he get all he could stand and more.

There is just way to many options sexually for a husband and wife not to have wonderful sex lives. With us it is all about being open and I mean 100% totally open about EVERy thing! I tell him when I am turned on by a guy or at work a guy cums on me during therapy, of if a women hits on me and stries to take advantage of me. I tell my husband all the time how I'd love to see him get it on with a guy. How I think he'd love the anal from it sincehe orgasms like made from our anal play. It might gross him out a bit to hear me talk about him having a big ole penis between his lips and cum spurting out of his mouth from overflow, but he lets me have my fun. I get to f*** myself all I want with machine, dolls, toys, toys, and toys, I masturbate all the time and have gotten him to that point as well. He will have a go at it whenver the urge hits him. I'd be fine with him masturbating all the time and never having sex with me it that was what he wanted. I have plenty of playthings to keep me occupied. I suggest that for many of you. Get some great playthings and include the spose whether they do anything with you or not. Tell them all about it. Share details, even let them walk in on you. Enjoy yourself, be out in the open, and let it go. Do not let a dud do you in. When you want to cum all over the kitchen table go hump it. Then you want to ride a wall toy in the living room on the coffee table have at it. If you buy a female doll do her stnading in the main hallway as your spouse walks in from the garage. Be free and let her know you are not going to be hindered by her lack of particiaption and that you are going to be a part of it one way or another.

 

Most women have sex with man just long enough to lock him in and the they shut it down. They expect commitment but they won't touch the guy. When the guy strays they're ready to destroy him.
They even get pissed when he watches porn to give himself an outlet that is safe.

 

You guys NEED counseling! Hurry!

 

Wife lost interest???

Those damn banks! I remember when they paid 3.25%!!!!!

 

As soon as my wife hit menopuase it was as if it closed the valve on her sex drive. We haven't had intercource in 2 years. If I am lucky we might have foreplay every 3 or 4 months.

 

BTW - That has a lot to do with chemical imbalances or lack there of - research it of ytou haven't already. There are some simple suggestions for treatment to try until you find what works.

 

You old men need to man up and pop a Viagra and take that pussy form your wife.
Have a few drinks and take that pussy from her.

 

You are not alone. I ran into that problem when we had babies late in life. Absence seems to help. It makes people more frisky when they have been apart. Keep trying to rekindle it.

If you are really desperate, consider hiring a professional too help with your physical needs.