I'm starting this thread. you guys can contribute to it.

Why are men turned on by:

shaved vaginas - b/c they like fantasizing about young girls
spanking butts - because they like overpowering/father figure
big breasts - because of fertility
skinny women - [insert explanation]
anal sex - [insert expl.]
etc......

Why are women turned on by:

rape fantasy - they like being dominated
gangbangs - they like being made to feel lower on the totem pole and it turns them on. makes them feel feminine
other women - they secretly want to be them
big penises - [insert explanation]
etc.....


just whatever you guys can come up with

 

This concept has potential, but your explanations are ridiculous.

 

shaved vaginas Like the look clean, fresh nothing hiding.
spanking butts Huh not sure butt can be fun
big breasts I like them all sizes but you may have a point
skinny women (Same as above)
anal sex Probably the allure of the forbidden:excited:

 

Was thinking the same thing

 

I'm going to add my own as to divert away from the ridiculous explanations you provided.


Both

Shaved Pubic Region: Cleanliness; more visually appealing; less of a hassle during oral sex.
Spanking: It feels good; the slight pain triggers an erotic physical response.
Large Breasts: Some people just find larger breasts more physically appealing; sign of maturity; society.


Women

Rape Fantasy/Roleplay: They like giving up control in a safe environment; it's taboo.
Gangbangs: They like having multiple partners.
Other Women: They're attracted to other women, simple as that, just like why men are attracted to women.


Men

Anal Sex: It's taboo/naughty; it's a unique achievement.

 

Yep you hit it better than I did!

 

Hey you stupid cunt. giving your opinion once was enough. Plus my explanations were hardly serious. I was just trying to give examples of how the thread was to be started. Thanks for sticking a dick in your mouth and finally contributing instead of yapping.

 

You should watch what you say to your elders young lady.

 

WOW!

 

My humble opinions:

Both:

Shaved Pubic Regions: Cleanliness, Ease of access to "business" area.

Spankings: Like someone above me said, slight pain triggers pleasure responses. its a subtle way to incorporate "naughty" play into a sex life. Its part of the school girl thing.

Large Breasts: Sign of fertility, More flesh to touch/move/play with etc.
Skinny Women: Because some people are just turned off by a lot of flesh moving around during sex.

Anal Sex:Its "naughty", taboo. An accomplishment. Something society is coming to accept more so its a band wagon kinda thing.

Rape Fantasy: Taking control, Giving up control, Trust, Lack of Trust. Power trip.

Gangbangs: Accomplishment, Greater chance at sexual satisfaction, Orgy fantasy, Slutty feeling, Knowing others desire your partner.

Big Penises: Signs of being able to fertilize, society makes them seem rare, Accomplishment of taking it.

Homosexual/Bisexual cravings: Simply because they like the same sex.


My personal reasons:

Shaved Pubic Regions: Looks CLEAN, hygiene is huge for me. No worrying about yanking the hairs out by accident. I am always worried when I'm grabbing my mans penis in the dark and I can feel the hair if Ima pull out a few of them and hurt him.

Spankings: I like the slight warm pain, his/her bare hands being that close to my other areas. I don't like the "punishment" kind. I love the ones where someone is admiring my ass and they just lightly slap the cheeks around a bit. It just lets me know how much they like the view they are getting.

Large Breasts: The way they look, move, feel, everything about them. I love all breasts but the larger ones are my favorite because of the way they move, wiggle, bounce, etc. I love to watch my husband going at it with a big chested girl and watch her breasts bounce with all the movement. The subtle moves are sexy as well though, the slight rise and fall when she breathes...etc.

Anal Sex: Never actually accomplished this all the way but I need to. Anal play that I have done though I liked it because, the sensations feel good, the nerves in that area are sensitive so it doesn't take much to get them firing, and welp, it helps me poop better.

Rape Fantasy: Def don't have this or like the idea at all. Been there done that, wasn't fun!

Gangbangs: Don't have a like for this one, seems like too much damn work! Now if a group of sexy men/women want me to lay on a bed so they can all work together at making me hit the big O over and over then alright I think I could do that.

Big penis: Noooo thank you. Ouch. I'd like to keep my internal organs where they are.

Bisexual Wants: I just LOVE women. Everything about a women can be sexy.

 

I think some men like large breasts because they're good for titty fucking and that's just a fun alternative.

Actually, I'm beginning to think there are as many men that like big women as there are that like skinny. I think they like our curves, our big boobs and butts and soft bellies, our womanliness, just how we're squeezably soft, whereas men are hard.

Personally, I'm not fond of really large dicks. They're a real challenge to give a decent blow job. And while slow and gentle sex is nice sometimes, sometimes I just want him to bang away caveman style. If he's really big, that can hurt.

I don't like the whole shaving thing, but I'm older - 54. I'm fine with trimming, but shaving to me looks like a little girl and creeps me out. As for men. I prefer that they trim their hair. Some dudes are really hairy and will want you to suck their balls, so you get this huge mouthful of hair. I don't even see how they can feel it! A nice close trim please. Besides, it makes your dick look bigger.

 

Shaved vaginas, and skinny bodies are mainly associated with younger females. Younger females are associated with virginity. Therefore, shaved vaginas and skinny bodies may mean the female is a virgin.

Big breasts are fashionable. In the seventies, the preference was for stick thin females, with small breasts.

Rape fantasies may be nothing more than the fact that females are usually brought up in a sexually repressed society (for females). Even today, female sexuality is regarded suspiciously. By fantasising about rape, the female doesn't have to admit she has sexual desires.

 

Shaved vaginas - More visually appealing, More erotic, nicer to run my tongue over the pubic region.

Spanking butts - Domination, submission and control, giving pleasurable pain, visually appealing.

Big breasts - I prefer smaller ones. They look good in tight tops.

Skinny women - Whether a woman's skinny or not, it's what goes on in their heads and beds that's important.

Anal sex - Gets a good response, visually appealing, is very "naughty", and again the woman submits.

Don't call people names just because they want a discussion.

 

Quote:- Why are men turned on by:

shaved vaginas - don't know, but when my wife has been shaved it has been a fanastic turn-on for me. Labia in pictures have to be neat and plump like my wife's - not long and ragged like in some pics. I used to feel very embarrassed and uncomfortable (although not turned on) when bathing my young daughter

spanking butts - I'm not. Its my wife who touches me whenever I bend over near her.

big breasts - I'm not - prefer a C cup size - natural and neat. Adore the feel of breasts. Embarrassed to think about to what extent interest in breasts is related to childhood breast feeding.

skinny women - Love artistic pics but not turned on

anal sex - Easy- thats 'cos I like the feeling of a butt plug or prostate stimulator, so its easy to imagine how anal sex would feel .
etc......

Why are women turned on by:

rape fantasy - they like being dominated. Could be - my first wife said she wished I had been more dominant after we divorced.

gangbangs - are they?

other women - ?

big penises - are they? My wife looks aghast if I walk in with a really big erection. She enjoys it inside later though .
etc.....

 

Temper temper.

Your explanations were kind of ridiculous. Like you were just out of your first year of women's studies.

If you want to hang out, try growing a thicker skin.

 

Come to think of it, another question - why Are women fascinated by men's backsides?

 

Good question I would love to know as well.

 

i like this thread its interesting to see who likes what,
Firstly men like shaved Vaginas for exactly the same reason why women like a shaven cock because of hairs getting into your mouth
As to Skinny women i beg to differ firstly im not saying i dont like skinny girls because wow there are some extremely hawt skinny gals however i like a women with curvs myself and quite often love a "chunky gal"

 

Well, for my answers I have:

Shaved genitalia - I have had a hair caught in my throat and the hacking and gagging tend to ruin the moment, not to mention if I find something caught in the hair.

Spanking - I find the quick intense feeling kicks in some adrenaline and can get myself or my partner off of a plateau of pleasure.

Big breasts - I love the added area for stimulation, I love to suckle nipples like I do a clit, and they give my hands something to do when she is going all cowgirl on me.

Skinny women - I'm actually turned off by skinny women. I think ribs showing is a sign of poor health, and since I was rather obese for most of my life I tended to hear about hip and other pain if I tried anything energetic. A pleasantly curved woman can take some pushing and not risk a dislocation.

Anal sex - I love the tight feel of it, and how my partner's body clamps as they orgasm. I prefer to use a finger and be do vaginal though, easier on her and I still get off. Also, too much videogaming because from previous answers I think 'Achievement Unlocked - Anal Penetration!'

For my added question:

Why do you like/dislike oral sex?

 

From my personal point of view on some of it is, a lot of females just don't realize that the vagina can also be pretty , not so , large , small, puffy lips or mound, just to name a few, they're as individual as penis's or breasts, us animals all have our preferences.
Me I love them nice and smooth and the more pronounced through jeans or undies the more they turn me on.
The smoothness does make them feel young and pretty , but it's also clean , REALLY attractive and you can see & feel everything, beautiful to the touch.

Lager breasts, some guys just love them for obvious reasons but some prefer smaller.
Skinny women , I lovem myself but I do know a lot of guys prefer much more voluptuousness.
Skinny just turns me on, feminine,it makes their pussy more pronounced, makes their ass look great,hips, waist , I also love fine shoulders.
Other women , females are different in that way I reckon, a female can look at another and think she is pretty , even not be bi yet still want to touch her.
A great looking girl is is just well , a completely different species than a guy.