that's what she said...

 

unfortunately my english is too bad to write down the things how i see it. it needs more nuance and the exact right words. and english is not my native language.

i am sorry dr_love, i know i am labeling too. if you want to label a guy who has sex with women and men as gay, it is your choice. but why did people invent the world bisexual?

 

I didn't say they were only about sex. NOR did I comment on RELATIONSHIPS. I'm speaking of sexual orientation. A gay man who's temporarily given up sex is still gay because he's still sexually attracted to men, still fantasizes about men when jacking off, still desires men and enjoys fucking men.

 

Why does everything have to have a label on it? If you enjoy it and you are happy in the end, then why in the he'll does it matter?

 

Just watching it means absolutely nothing!

 

Call me what you want. HOT!!!!

 

I am not saying that I couldn't get a woman that is very attractive because I could.Not be arrogant about it but as with anything if you got enough confidence you can get with any fine woman.

And why I would blow them would blow them? Would be like asking why would you want to eat your girls pussy? Because you want to please her.I for one like to give pleasure.

Sure a shemales hands are bigger than your average womens hands but there also women who have manly hands them selves.Women basketball players and also women who have jobs that men normally would do could also have large hands.This also not always the case.

No I have not met or seen a shemale but from what I see in videos and pictures I see them to be attractive.Now let me clarify that the shemales I see to be attractive are the ones that are more feminine looking.There a lot of shemales out there that are still very manly looking and that is not what I am into.

So basically what I am saying is that since I have started watching shemale porn I am not just looking at it as a fetish.If I were to ever meet one and there is some attraction I just may go with it.Now does that mean I would choose a shemale over a real woman? No.But there are options.

 

same reason why there is trisexual. to help designate labels.

to me a bi person is gay at times, so that's why they are gay.
they are gay and straight. when they are in the straight mode then
they are straight to me, when in the gay mode then they are gay.
i will still call them bi too but are still gay too, just at times.

 

naw....but people will think that

 

but you asked " How would being gay be anything BUT a sex thing?"
like you were not aware of the other things i mentioned. you didn't
say sexual orientation you said sex in that first line, being gay
obviously means you are attracted to men, but not just sexually.
attraction isn't just a sex thing.

gay dudes who were celibate told me they didn't jack off, have sex
or like sex from anyone, but wanted men for the romance and not
women. sex isn't everything to some people and sometimes
nothing to them. they told me they didn't fantasize either.

 

confidence is not a sure thing. they may admire your confidence but
doesn't mean they want you. everybody is confident these days and
acts like confidence is like a new thing of a secret weapon.

 

That would be someone who is more cocky than confident.

 

true.

 

i understand and agree. it almost the same as what i explained. the act is gay, not the person. this person might not be gay if he also enjoys having sex with women, he also acts straight when he's having sex with women. so he is gay and straight as a person, and has gay and straight sex.

 

either way....double sex.