I'm 18 and I've always been curious about guys and considered myself bisexual. I hooked up with a guy for the first time a few days ago and now I'm more confused than ever. When I say hooked up, we made out and he gave me head. I tried to give him head too, but after a few seconds I just couldn't do it after that. I seriously didn't like any of the experience other than getting my dick sucked. After it was done, all that I wanted to do was hook up with girls.

With that said, I'm confused now because I still like gay porn, but I really don't want to hook up with a guy anytime soon unless it just means getting head. Do you guys think I am bisexual or what? Has this type of confusion happened to anyone else?

And it didn't have anything to do with him being ugly, cause he was pretty good looking.

 

This sounds very similar to my experience. While the idea of jacking off with another guy or having another guy suck my cock turns me on, I'm not attracted to other men. I don't want to cuddle with guys. I don't want to kiss a guy. I don't want to have anal sex with them (either giving or receiving). Luckily, I've found a guy in my area that will get together with me and blow me without expecting one in return. Sometimes we just watch straight porn and jack off in the same room (which I also think is really hot). He never expects me to blow him and he never gets too touchy-feely with me. It's the perfect situation in my mind.

I think for me, what it boils down to is I really like blow jobs and I don't care who I'm getting them from. Since my wife doesn't ever go down on me, this is a good alternative. I also really like watching almost anything related to sex. Watching a guy jack off is hot to me because it makes me think about how I feel when I cum.

When you watch gay porn, do you only watch for blow jobs or do you get turned on by the anal sex scenes as well?

 

I pretty much get turned on by all of it. I think I just get turned on by all sex in general (straight, lesbian, gay).

 

Well, in general I'd say you're bisexual in that you do get turned on by the idea of getting head from another guy. I don't think you have any interest in being in a relationship with another guy, but that shouldn't keep you from fooling around with guys from time to time. Just remember to be careful and not get yourself in a situation where anyone makes you do anything you don't want to do.

 

I think you might just be straight but like the Taboo aspect of getting head from another guy.

I know a few guys that are like that and I love sucking their cocks, especially the married ones.

 

I feel that way about black men only. I have gone down on a couple white men. But I have found that by far giving head to a dark skinned black man is what I really like. Give me 8" or more and im in heaven. And no cuddling just me sucking. T

 

I get less and less concerned about labels as I get older. If you like getting sucked off by guys (and it is hot), but don't want to reciprocate, no problem. There are plenty of guys happy to accomodate you and be a j/o bud or suck you off. What turns you on is what turns you on--acknowledge it, enjoy it and let your partners know what you like.

 

I think what you are experiencing is a little bit of denial, if your feeilings progress as mine have, you initially want it but feel as though it is wrong, later you will have more urges and go even further with the next guy - if he is the right guy you may break all of your restrictions. On the other hand you may just wanna get sucked regularly.

I went from believing I was a top and wanting to be the dominant partner - to now wanting to be sucked, sucking back and also wanting to have full anal - just need to find a suitable partner in East Yorkshire (Hull) - United Kingdom